i think it is a unique position you're in.........always who youre playing for,,,,,,, you said a favor! was it for god or someone else? anyhoo, its not easy playing for people who dont want to change, and still living in past memeories of songs of old.........sort of like and ol spirit.......i can never understand it, god being a god of brand new mercies, and we offer up the same songs, its an insult to the holy spirit to me!....but i agree with blessedone ( even if it's been yrs since we talked) you should just bow out gracefully and allow someone else to step up to plate.........no one person can do it all.........but no matter what, we play for god!!!!!!!!! he gets the glory!!!! gieres!!!!!!!!