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Title: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: 4hisglory on February 22, 2006, 11:30:05 AM
This is actually a serious qestion so don't laugh yet.

Is it possible for women to be sexy in public and be christians.  I am more so referring to what they wear and there assecories.  I really haven't explain myself well, but I hope you get the point.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: LorenzoS on February 22, 2006, 11:49:21 AM
I dont know if I would deem the word "sexy" that refers to sex, and what ever comes with that word.  I would say classic, extremly beautiful..etc... becasue I know for me the minute i think a woman is sexy, my mind goes there.....and the word says to keep our thoughts under subjection.. So, I think its the use of the word.....of course if my wife reads this...she knows i think she's sexy..and i can refer to her as such... but to refer to another woman like that....Hmm...thats kinda tongue and cheek.. ::).so i would say refrain from using that word, if one is not refering to their wife....

I mean common are you goin to say Juanita Bynum is sexy? or Dr. Rita twiggs is hot? or Mary Mary is so sexy???  it just doesnt come out or sound right.

But you know before I got saved, I was really drawn to deeply devoted  women of God, I think it was because of th fact that God was their number one priority and I couldnt compete...go fig...whose gonna really win a competition with God?  Man was I dumb...anyway..i hope i answered your question or at least gave a little in sight
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: ladybass on February 22, 2006, 11:51:11 AM
When it comes to dressing & being a born again .. I always ask 'what's the motive?' behind the dress & assessories and I always consider: 
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1Ti 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;


and Romans 8 (http://www.blueletterbible.org/kjv/Rom/Rom008.html)

::steppn back out the door; exit stage right::  as they say in CB land .. I"m reading the mail
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: MaestroDivine on February 22, 2006, 11:55:58 AM
I dont know if I would deem the word "sexy" that refers to sex, and what ever comes with that word.  I would say classic, extremly beautiful..etc... becasue I know for me the minute i think a woman is sexy, my mind goes there.....and the word says to keep our thoughts under subjection.. So, I think its the use of the word.....of course if my wife reads this...she knows i think she's sexy..and i can refer to her as such... but to refer to another woman like that....Hmm...thats kinda tongue and cheek.. ::).so i would say refrain from using that word, if one is not refering to their wife....

I mean common are you goin to say Juanita Bynum is sexy? or Dr. Rita twiggs is hot? or Mary Mary is so sexy???  it just doesnt come out or sound right.

But you know before I got saved, I was really drawn to deeply devoted  women of God, I think it was because of th fact that God was their number one priority and I couldnt compete...go fig...whose gonna really win a competition with God?  Man was I dumb...anyway..i hope i answered your question or at least gave a little in sight

Juanity Bynum IS sexy!

I know that people feel uncomfortable putting people things and people of God in such close proximity with the word sex. I also know I'll be flamed for even saying that. However, that's just the reality of the situation. I've definitely thought it before - so saying it isn't much different. That's not to say I'm in my house indulding in those thoughts - but I've definitely recognized Juanita's appeal as a woman on numerous occassions.

Juanita, Mary Mary, etc, etc ... are women FIRST. I'm sure when you see them, they you don't break out in tongues, and get you a quick Praise Break. Maybe because you know them as being prominent Christian women, you may identify with them as such first - but, to the person who see's them in public, and don't know them, that's what they'll think first.

~OD

Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: ladybass on February 22, 2006, 11:59:24 AM
::peeping in:::

Just thought i'd post Mr. Dictonary  :)

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  • Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest.
  • Slang. Highly appealing or interesting; attractive: “The recruiting brochures are getting sexier” (Jack R. Wentworth).

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adj 1: marked by or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest; "feeling sexy"; "sexy clothes"; "sexy poses"; "a sexy book"; "sexy jokes" 2: exciting sexual desire [syn: aphrodisiac, aphrodisiacal]

::readin the mail::    :D :D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: MaestroDivine on February 22, 2006, 12:01:02 PM
I dont know if I would deem the word "sexy" that refers to sex, and what ever comes with that word.  I would say classic, extremly beautiful..etc... becasue I know for me the minute i think a woman is sexy, my mind goes there.....and the word says to keep our thoughts under subjection.. So, I think its the use of the word.....of course if my wife reads this...she knows i think she's sexy..and i can refer to her as such... but to refer to another woman like that....Hmm...thats kinda tongue and cheek.. ::).so i would say refrain from using that word, if one is not refering to their wife....

I mean common are you goin to say Juanita Bynum is sexy? or Dr. Rita twiggs is hot? or Mary Mary is so sexy???  it just doesnt come out or sound right.

But you know before I got saved, I was really drawn to deeply devoted  women of God, I think it was because of th fact that God was their number one priority and I couldnt compete...go fig...whose gonna really win a competition with God?  Man was I dumb...anyway..i hope i answered your question or at least gave a little in sight

Juanity Bynum IS sexy!

I know that people feel uncomfortable putting people things and people of God in such close proximity with the word sex. I also know I'll be flamed for even saying that. However, that's just the reality of the situation. I've definitely thought it before - so saying it isn't much different. That's not to say I'm in my house indulding in those thoughts - but I've definitely recognized Juanita's appeal as a woman on numerous occassions.

Juanita, Mary Mary, etc, etc ... are women FIRST. I'm sure when you see them, they you don't break out in tongues, and get you a quick Praise Break. Maybe because you know them as being prominent Christian women, you may identify with them as such first - but, to the person who see's them in public, and don't know them, that's what they'll think first.

~OD



I can't edit my post, and all of those god-awful spelling errors ....and...WHAT HAPPENED TO MY GORGEOUS PHOTO?!?!  >:(

Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: LorenzoS on February 22, 2006, 12:03:43 PM
i agree with you MaestroD....but maybe i need to grow a little more...ok..I'm gonna be real.....there are some women who just carry themselves in clothes, and assessories that are beautiful and not revealing and ...your right they are sexy....but I guess to me when i think of the word sexy it....uh....umm....i guess i just drop the "y"...
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: LorenzoS on February 22, 2006, 12:05:00 PM
God aint through with me yet...
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Nakia518 on February 22, 2006, 12:05:40 PM
What is Sexy? Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest. Slang. Highly appealing or interesting; attractive:

It all depends in the way that you use the word... You can be a Christian woman and still be sexy...But its all according to how you use it... I mean if you are dressing in a way to arouse someone that is just wrong and not very becoming as a Christian woman... But if you were to use the latter of that definition... Then I would say yes...

Often when something has more than one meaning we tend to use the definition which is most familiar to us... Just like with Tonex stating that his CD has explicit lyrics... We immediately think OH NO, I know he aint cussin on his album... But Explicit (as well as sexy) has several meanings...

I would describe myself as sexy (The latter definition)... I love to look good and turn heads... but in a good way... where I won’t receive vulgar comments... As Bishop so eloquently stated... I like to do it up... and it also makes you feel like a Million bucks when you are looking like it too... I gotta look good going to the store... You never know who you gonna meet... LMBO!!!!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: MaestroDivine on February 22, 2006, 12:11:15 PM
What is Sexy? Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest. Slang. Highly appealing or interesting; attractive:

It all depends in the way that you use the word... You can be a Christian woman and still be sexy...But its all according to how you use it... I mean if you are dressing in a way to arouse someone that is just wrong and not very becoming as a Christian woman... But if you were to use the latter of that definition... Then I would say yes...

Often when something has more than one meaning we tend to use the definition which is most familiar to us... Just like with Tonex stating that his CD has explicit lyrics... We immediately think OH NO, I know he aint cussin on his album... But Explicit (as well as sexy) has several meanings...

I would describe myself as sexy (The latter definition)... I love to look good and turn heads... but in a good way... where I won’t receive vulgar comments... As Bishop so eloquently stated... I like to do it up... and it also makes you feel like a Million bucks when you are looking like it too... I gotta look good going to the store... You never know who you gonna meet... LMBO!!!!


I think the issue is, people's perception of tasteful isn't always the same. So, you'll have a sista who think it's alright for her to wear something shorter, than most people think is appropriate. That's why some feel that if everyone dress 'modestly', that that will rectify the problem.

Somebody may say, well what is modest? I think people KNOW what's the real deal when they put something on. A woman knows what will catch a man's eyes, and what won't. Not to say that women dress solely to catch the eyes of men - but I just used that as an example, to show that people know the effect what they wear will have on onlookers.



Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: 4hisglory on February 22, 2006, 12:15:09 PM
When it comes to dressing & being a born again .. I always ask 'what's the motive?' behind the dress & assessories and I always consider: 
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1Ti 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;


and Romans 8 ([url]http://www.blueletterbible.org/kjv/Rom/Rom008.html[/url])


I think LB brings up a good point here. 

P.S. MaestroDivine only Premium mebers can edit there post and for the record Juanita is NOT sexy IMO :)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: MaestroDivine on February 22, 2006, 12:17:13 PM
When it comes to dressing & being a born again .. I always ask 'what's the motive?' behind the dress & assessories and I always consider: 
Quote
1Ti 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;


and Romans 8 ([url]http://www.blueletterbible.org/kjv/Rom/Rom008.html[/url])


I think LB brings up a good point here. 

P.S. MaestroDivine only Premium mebers can edit there post and for the record Juanita is NOT sexy IMO :)


The DEVIL wants me to ask you 'Why don't you think she's sexy?!" & "Well, who do you find sexy, Albertina Walker??"...

However, I know that this conversation could become very CARNAL quickly, so I won't ask those type of questions.  :D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: 4hisglory on February 22, 2006, 12:21:59 PM
"Well, who do you find sexy, Albertina Walker??"...

However, I know that this conversation could become very CARNAL quickly, so I won't ask those type of questions.  :D

Hahahhaa.....Albertina Walker! Hahahahhaa....but yeah, it could become carnal very quickly, thats why I'm gonna watch it closely because it was a serious qeustion.

I personally believe that when women wear certain things in public, it 'compromises' what they believe
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Nakia518 on February 22, 2006, 12:22:47 PM
When it comes to dressing & being a born again .. I always ask 'what's the motive?' behind the dress & assessories and I always consider: 
Quote
1Ti 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;


and Romans 8 ([url]http://www.blueletterbible.org/kjv/Rom/Rom008.html[/url])


I think LB brings up a good point here. 

P.S. MaestroDivine only Premium mebers can edit there post and for the record Juanita is NOT sexy IMO :)
A woman can look sexy even in Modest apparell... She can do it up in a 3 piece suit, with the hat shoes to match, Rhinestones, and accessorising down... (Sister T comes to Mind ;)) But its all about how you carry yourself... [/size]
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: MaestroDivine on February 22, 2006, 12:27:13 PM
"Well, who do you find sexy, Albertina Walker??"...

However, I know that this conversation could become very CARNAL quickly, so I won't ask those type of questions.  :D

Hahahhaa.....Albertina Walker! Hahahahhaa....but yeah, it could become carnal very quickly, thats why I'm gonna watch it closely because it was a serious qeustion.

I personally believe that when women wear certain things in public, it 'compromises' what they believe

Also, 'sexy' also means different things to differnet people. Some men don't find half-dressed women sexy. While you'd be hard-pressed to find many, they do exist. What if a woman dressed like a Puritan woman is a turn on to him & leading his mind astray?

That's very possible, believe it or not. Subjectivity makes a lot of these questions hard to truly answer.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: SisterT on February 22, 2006, 12:45:21 PM
A woman can look sexy even in Modest apparell... She can do it up in a 3 piece suit, with the hat shoes to match, Rhinestones, and accessorising down... (Sister T comes to Mind ;)) But its all about how you carry yourself... [/size]

Girl, I'm in Arkansas blushing!!

SisterT dresses modest....but some of ya'll might call it sexy!!

I like my clothes to tailor FIT my body. I don't like loose fitting clothing, just because they make one look larger. When I wear jeans, I don't like them loose. Don't get me wrong, I don't wear my clothes super tight, but I do like a tailor-made NEAT look. To me that's not sexy, because I'm not advertising my goodies, but I do wear clothes that compliment my body and all my shirts aren't buttoned up to my neck either :P .

Now I'm a shoe freak, and shoes is an important part to the look. Usually I wear heels. My husband loves to look at my legs in them so I've gotten use to wearing them with just about everything.

I don't wear active wear because I personally don't like it. I'ts that Diva in me.

The only person that I feel comfortable calling me sexy and that I wil call sexy is my HUSBAND!! When I do dress sexy, it's for Big Daddy. Usually Divas are called sexy, but I like to think of myself as "CHARMING'. That sounds a little better....Big Daddy can keep calling me sexy!! LOL!! ;D


Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: 4hisglory on February 22, 2006, 12:50:19 PM
When I wear jeans, I don't like them loose.

SisterT ??? :)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: MaestroDivine on February 22, 2006, 12:52:46 PM
When I wear jeans, I don't like them loose.

SisterT ??? :)


Say it!  ;D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: SisterT on February 22, 2006, 12:57:15 PM
When I wear jeans, I don't like them loose.

SisterT ??? :)


You know what I'm talking about. For me, I rather they fit, and not be sagging, and falling off, looking like they a few sizes too large. I don't like them loose in the legs either. Personally I like them fitting from the waist to the ankle.

And as I've said before, I don't care to have the jelly rolling over the low riders. But that's my personal preferences...Don't hate!  :D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: LadyWiz on February 22, 2006, 12:59:40 PM
When it comes to dressing & being a born again .. I always ask 'what's the motive?' behind the dress & assessories and I always consider: 
Quote
1Ti 2:9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;


and Romans 8 ([url]http://www.blueletterbible.org/kjv/Rom/Rom008.html[/url])


I think LB brings up a good point here. 

P.S. MaestroDivine only Premium mebers can edit there post and for the record Juanita is NOT sexy IMO :)
A woman can look sexy even in Modest apparell... She can do it up in a 3 piece suit, with the hat shoes to match, Rhinestones, and accessorising down... (Sister T comes to Mind ;)) But its all about how you carry yourself... [/size]


Nakia ~ I believe you're right on point in that it's all in how a woman carries herself.  Also, what are her motives behind what she's wearing?  In your earlier post, Nakia, you mentioned the 2nd definition of sexy and I think that definition could apply to any woman who dresses appealingly (**note: not showing off THIS or THAT**) has her make-up artfully applied, tastefully accessorizes, etc and she could STILL be considered sexy (arousing the sexual desire or interest of the opposite sex) even though that was not her motive at all.  So, whose fault is it that his sexual desire was aroused?  I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: 4hisglory on February 22, 2006, 01:05:59 PM
I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Ummm...no we wouldn't.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: MaestroDivine on February 22, 2006, 01:09:47 PM
I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Ummm...no we wouldn't.

Agreed!

Their are two levels of thoughts, I feel, when it comes to. You can be dressed modestly, and man may see you and think, 'She's a very attractive woman..."

Now, when you start showing too much flesh, it goes from that to, "@##$%@#%%$^&##%&&#%%%%@$ !!!" so on, and so forth.

I think everyone is responsible. If you're dressed appropriately, and some man is all bent out of shape, then that IS on him. However, you can have a split, in a long skirt, all the way up to Glory, and say the man should have more control over his thoughts.

We all need to acccept responsibility.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: playhear on February 22, 2006, 01:13:48 PM
To me, women that wear more clothes usually tend to be sexier. I haven't read all the posts. I just wanted to throw a monkey in there.  :P
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: SisterT on February 22, 2006, 01:14:08 PM
Ummm...no we wouldn't.

That's typical.

If Halle Berry would come to church in a Nun's habit, you know the men's mind would be "on fantasy island". So I agree, sometimes, it doesn't matter WHAT we wear.

And some women are "blessed" with greater body features than others.....you know that poor woman don't stand a chance in the mind of some men, even if her dress is modest and honorable.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: MaestroDivine on February 22, 2006, 01:16:55 PM
Ummm...no we wouldn't.

That's typical.

If Halle Berry would come to church in a Nun's habit, you know the men's mind would be "on fantasy island". So I agree, sometimes, it doesn't matter WHAT we wear.

And some women are "blessed" with greater body features than others.....you know that poor woman don't stand a chance in the mind of some men, even if her dress is modest and honorable.

Personally, I think Halle is over-rated. She's pretty, but the sister needs to be kidnapped, taken down south, and forced fed some soul food.

THEN...

Maybe I'd have to pray for my mind to be kept...
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Nakia518 on February 22, 2006, 01:17:09 PM
Ummm...no we wouldn't.

That's typical.

If Halle Berry would come to church in a Nun's habit, you know the men's mind would be "on fantasy island". So I agree, sometimes, it doesn't matter WHAT we wear.

And some women are "blessed" with greater body features than others.....you know that poor woman don't stand a chance in the mind of some men, even if her dress is modest and honorable.


AND YOU IS TALKIN RITE!!!!!

Yall dudes need to stop fronting.... Yall know yalls mind be wondering... Thats why Yall have wives to keep ya butts in check ;D.....
(ok Nakia is going back into her corner now)
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Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: 4hisglory on February 22, 2006, 01:19:04 PM

That's typical.

If Halle Berry would come to church in a Nun's habit, you know the men's mind would be "on fantasy island". So I agree, sometimes, it doesn't matter WHAT we wear.

Yeah, because we already know what is happening under that Nun's outfit.  :)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: 4hisglory on February 22, 2006, 01:20:52 PM
To me, women that wear more clothes usually tend to be sexier. I haven't read all the posts. I just wanted to throw a monkey in there.  :P

Move to Russia and you can have a field day. :D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: playhear on February 22, 2006, 01:22:23 PM
Yeah, to sum everything up, it's safe to safe that since Adam and Eve women have been the reason for men giving in to their carnal desires.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: MaestroDivine on February 22, 2006, 01:23:03 PM
Ummm...no we wouldn't.

That's typical.

If Halle Berry would come to church in a Nun's habit, you know the men's mind would be "on fantasy island". So I agree, sometimes, it doesn't matter WHAT we wear.

And some women are "blessed" with greater body features than others.....you know that poor woman don't stand a chance in the mind of some men, even if her dress is modest and honorable.


AND YOU IS TALKIN RITE!!!!!

Yall dudes need to stop fronting.... Yall know yalls mind be wondering... Thats why Yall have wives to keep ya butts in check ;D.....
(ok Nakia is going back into her corner now)
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True enough.

However, it's one thing for a man's mind to wonder ... but, it's another thing for a woman to 'confirm his suspicions'...
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: SisterT on February 22, 2006, 01:23:34 PM
Yeah, to sum everything up, it's safe to safe that since Adam and Eve women have been the reason for men giving in to their carnal desires.

So what you saying....Men are weak!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: MaestroDivine on February 22, 2006, 01:24:37 PM
Yeah, to sum everything up, it's safe to safe that since Adam and Eve women have been the reason for men giving in to their carnal desires.

So what you saying....Men are weak!

No. Most are even weaker than that.

A fact of life. That's why ya'll should let the mother's of the church make ya'lls clothes, lol. They keep everybody in order....  :D

Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: SisterT on February 22, 2006, 01:25:35 PM
That's why ya'll should let the mother's of the church make ya'lls clothes, lol. They keep everybody in order....  :D



You know the current ladies styles is the reason why the mothers keep those extra-large size handkercheifs handy. LOL!!  ;D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: playhear on February 22, 2006, 01:27:14 PM
Yeah, to sum everything up, it's safe to safe that since Adam and Eve women have been the reason for men giving in to their carnal desires.

So what you saying....Men are weak!

I prefer to think of it as we have weaknesses.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: SisterT on February 22, 2006, 01:28:16 PM
Yeah, to sum everything up, it's safe to safe that since Adam and Eve women have been the reason for men giving in to their carnal desires.

So what you saying....Men are weak!

I prefer to think of it as we have weaknesses.

Okay, thanks for clarifying!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: JaZzY_E3 on February 22, 2006, 01:28:42 PM
some people are conceeded
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: MaestroDivine on February 22, 2006, 01:29:11 PM
Yeah, to sum everything up, it's safe to safe that since Adam and Eve women have been the reason for men giving in to their carnal desires.

So what you saying....Men are weak!

I prefer to think of it as we have weaknesses.

PO-TA-TOE...PO-TAH-TOE...
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: SisterT on February 22, 2006, 01:29:58 PM
some people are conceeded

 ??? Please explain
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Nakia518 on February 22, 2006, 01:31:53 PM


AND YOU IS TALKIN RITE!!!!!

Yall dudes need to stop fronting.... Yall know yalls mind be wondering... Thats why Yall have wives to keep ya butts in check ;D.....
(ok Nakia is going back into her corner now)
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True enough.

However, it's one thing for a man's mind to wonder ... but, it's another thing for a woman to 'confirm his suspicions'...

ROTFLMBO!!!!! @ "Confim His Suspicions"
Yall just need to learn self control... I know men who are married and refuse to look at another woman with a carnal mind... Of course he will say that she's pretty (He's a Man) but as for all that other stuff he wouldn't dare...


Plus he knows he wife will check a negro in a hot miniute
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Nakia518 on February 22, 2006, 01:34:41 PM
Yeah, to sum everything up, it's safe to safe that since Adam and Eve women have been the reason for men giving in to their carnal desires.

So what you saying....Men are weak!

I prefer to think of it as we have weaknesses.

PO-TA-TOE...PO-TAH-TOE...

ROTFLMBO!!!!!! Now THAT was funny ROTFLMBO!!!!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: LadyWiz on February 22, 2006, 01:46:05 PM
I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Ummm...no we wouldn't.

Agreed!

Their are two levels of thoughts, I feel, when it comes to. You can be dressed modestly, and man may see you and think, 'She's a very attractive woman..."

Now, when you start showing too much flesh, it goes from that to, "@##$%@#%%$^&##%&&#%%%%@$ !!!" so on, and so forth.

I think everyone is responsible. If you're dressed appropriately, and some man is all bent out of shape, then that IS on him. However, you can have a split, in a long skirt, all the way up to Glory, and say the man should have more control over his thoughts.

We all need to acccept responsibility.

My whole point (which I thought was clear...perhaps not) is that IF a woman is appropriately dressed and she has no motive to sexually entice a brother, THEN it IS the brother's fault if he still regards her as sexy (arousing his sexual desires) and not keeping his thoughts under subjection.  If not his fault, then whose??  ???
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: MaestroDivine on February 22, 2006, 01:47:00 PM
I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Ummm...no we wouldn't.

Agreed!

Their are two levels of thoughts, I feel, when it comes to. You can be dressed modestly, and man may see you and think, 'She's a very attractive woman..."

Now, when you start showing too much flesh, it goes from that to, "@##$%@#%%$^&##%&&#%%%%@$ !!!" so on, and so forth.

I think everyone is responsible. If you're dressed appropriately, and some man is all bent out of shape, then that IS on him. However, you can have a split, in a long skirt, all the way up to Glory, and say the man should have more control over his thoughts.

We all need to acccept responsibility.

My whole point (which I thought was clear...perhaps not) is that IF a woman is appropriately dressed and she has no motive to sexually entice a brother, THEN it IS the brother's fault if he still regards her as sexy (arousing his sexual desires) and not keeping his thoughts under subjection.  If not his fault, then whose??  ???

My first inclination was to blame the Devil...

...but we all know better.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: playhear on February 22, 2006, 01:47:07 PM
OK, here are some the things that many women (ages 15 through 30) seem like they do not fully understand. If you have nice legs and show a slight bit of knee, you’re going to have men’s minds going crazy. You don’t need to wear a mini skirt; you run the risk of going overboard. If you have nice breasts and wear a shirt that’s form fitting, you’re going to have men’s minds going crazy. You don’t need to show any cleavage whatsoever; again, you run the risk of going overboard.

What many women refer to as sexy is actually borderline slutty or just plain slutty. Slutty is not equivalent to sexy. Cover up a bit. Given the way many women dress nowadays, whatever a woman thinks is sexy is most likely a bit too much, or literally too little.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: csedwards2 on February 22, 2006, 01:57:51 PM
I'll do my best to keep myself in check for her if she does her best to keep herself in check for me.

But, I also heard my pastor say one day,

"If it ain't for sale, take the sign down!"

Like, in my job, I go to peoples homes giving them estimates on home remodeling. SO.......One day I had an appt at this young lady's house talking to her about her kitchen. And she opened the door, and either she just woke up or she did it on purpose, but it looked like she was smuggling bald midgets. Anyway, I digress.

After a while, my eyes were exhausted from locking directly into her eyes and her cabinets, and so I figured I'd become cool enough with her to start throwing more hints. My first hint, soon as I got there was, "Whew, its a lil nippy in here, are you cold?" (I know yall  church mothers know about that one, but the ladies can be more direct. For yall who don't know, if a church mother aka older female saint saw a girl wearing a tiny top/skirt, they ask that and if the girl says no, then mother would be like "Sure you are honey, heres a sweater!)  Well, she said "No", but I didnt have a comeback I could use, so I went on.

So as I was saying........... my second hint wasn't so indirect. I said, "Do you have another shirt, or something?" It slipped by for a second then she asked me to repeat, and I asked about getting another shirt or buttoning up the one she had. She finally buttoned up. Whew, I could finally relax my my eyes.

But it was like she was trying to get a big discount out of me or something, cause she asked did I do the work, so she could hire me on the side or something. Didn't say it, but I was like lady all I care about at this meeting is whats in your purse, not your t-pocket.


Now if we're supposed to treat older women as mothers and younger women as sisters (ref 1Tim5); Ladies....... do you want your older brother looking down your shirt, or at your backside. Ladies, do you want your young sons to see mommies goodies?


Your clothes shouldn't make a brother sweat,
CSE2
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: csedwards2 on February 22, 2006, 01:59:21 PM
Now thats sexy
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Jniles_NCF on February 22, 2006, 02:01:11 PM
well i think what 4His Glory is tlkain about is outside of the church as well.. not that women are livving double lives but like i heard a story true story that one fo the young men in the church were walkin in the mall and saw this woman walkin in front of him she had the walk and not only that she was wearing these white pants with a thong of course and he stepped up to her and when she truned around it was one of the ministering staff from the church Evangalist so and so... now she's in the mall walkin just chillin... i happen to know a  couple of women who are absolutely gorgeous God made them that way and i have to catch myself sometimes cause i might get cought staring.. not in any way but they are just beautiful...


Now God knew what He was doing when he made Woman.. he made Woman so that man would be attracted to her...i mean like others daid there is nothing wrong in admiring or achknowledge that a woman looks good but i do agree with others that it is up to us men to keep our thoughts under subjection even if it is out there... case in point.. my girlfriend b4 we started dating was atrracted to me i was attracted to her as well i just didn't put the move out just yet.. one day she came to my office and we were tlkain and i happend to see her panty showin now i politely said "if you don't someone goin after your candy you might not want the wrapper to show.." i made a joke about it and she was a lil embarassed i don't knwo if she did it on purpose or not but that's wasn't what i was concerend about the point is that it  could've easily gone another way..i just chose not to b/c that's npt the type of person i am..
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: csedwards2 on February 22, 2006, 02:08:28 PM
Besides ladies,

If you think about it, If you're so into attracting a man by whats on the outside, and not whats within, then...
 
You're gonna have to keep attracting him to keep him.
You can marry him or whatever and as soon as he sees someone with a better outside than yours, he's straying away. Men are directed by their vision. FACT
So let whats on your body reflect whats inside and you'll have not only have his eyes you'll have his heart

Men may fantacize about a woman who looks sexy in their clothes, but the one who has his heart will meet his mother.

Better believe it,
CSE2
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Torch7 on February 22, 2006, 02:11:12 PM
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"If it ain't for sale, take the sign down!"

Words to Live by...

Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: LorenzoS on February 22, 2006, 02:22:20 PM
GOODNESS....i was suppose to catch a flight....i was on the run way and the plane had a slight problem so they brought us back in.....so i decided to get back on the site....and WHOA!!!!!!!! 4 pages it's only been an hour....!!!!!!Look all i got to say...is Beauty, sexy, what eva you want to call it, is only skin deep.....but UGLY is to the BONE!!!!!!!!!!!

and to add what i said wayyyyyyy before early in the post. We men need to keep our thoughts under subjection AT ALL TIMES
the devil doesnt care how he distracts us soo longs as were distracted and our focus is off GOD, case and point.

Its not about being weak or what ever was said, (Fellas) or hidden motives etc.., (ladies)  For we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities, ....and yall know the rest.....

There aint nothing wrong with lookin like a million bucks, just so long as you aint sold for nothin less. see right there to your left....me and my wifey.<<<<<<<  ;D thats a trillion dollars and then some...

Now thats SEXY!!!!!!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: ABOVEALL on February 22, 2006, 02:43:20 PM
O, ME SO HOLY!!!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Stifled_1 on February 22, 2006, 02:50:29 PM
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"If it ain't for sale, take the sign down!"


Women are spoil by the attention they receive from their appearance.  They are very competative.  Plus, the level in which they dress has a lot do with their self-esteem.  Women are more concern about the size of their body parts than we are.

    
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: 4hisglory on February 22, 2006, 03:58:41 PM
my girlfriend b4 we started dating was atrracted to me i was attracted to her as well i just didn't put the move out just yet.. one day she came to my office and we were tlkain and i happend to see her panty showin now i politely said "if you don't someone goin after your candy you might not want the wrapper to show.." i made a joke about it and she was a lil embarassed i don't knwo if she did it on purpose or not but that's wasn't what i was concerend about the point is that it  could've easily gone another way..i just chose not to b/c that's npt the type of person i am..

Wow.....ok, its official Professor Jniles_NCF  will be giving macking lessons in the conference room of the LGM Headquarters.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: sjonathan02 on February 22, 2006, 04:06:16 PM
O, ME SO HOLY!!!


ME PRAISE HIM LONG TIME?!  ???
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: LadyWiz on February 22, 2006, 04:19:19 PM
O, ME SO HOLY!!!


ME PRAISE HIM LONG TIME?!  ???

I know Jonathan.........you just tryin' to figure out what he's tryin' to say!  :D :D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: SisterT on February 22, 2006, 05:00:12 PM
O, ME SO HOLY!!!


ME PRAISE HIM LONG TIME?!  ???

LOL!!!! I can name that tune in three notes!!  ;D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: uniquepraise on February 22, 2006, 09:42:14 PM
I agree with Nakia and it depends on the intent and definition.  I think you can be attractive and sexy and be holy. Do it up. AS long as the intent is right.  Now if you wearing it cause you KNOW the men are looking then I would question it.  Like Sis T says the tailored look is NEAT and helps a lot of people look SO much better...men & women.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: csedwards2 on February 23, 2006, 10:27:08 AM
O, ME SO HOLY!!!


ME PRAISE HIM LONG TIME?! ???

*Bump* lol
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: gtrdave on February 23, 2006, 10:32:42 AM
O, ME SO HOLY!!!


ME PRAISE HIM LONG TIME?!  ???

Y'all ain't right...  ;D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Jniles_NCF on February 23, 2006, 10:38:20 AM
my girlfriend b4 we started dating was atrracted to me i was attracted to her as well i just didn't put the move out just yet.. one day she came to my office and we were tlkain and i happend to see her panty showin now i politely said "if you don't someone goin after your candy you might not want the wrapper to show.." i made a joke about it and she was a lil embarassed i don't knwo if she did it on purpose or not but that's wasn't what i was concerend about the point is that it  could've easily gone another way..i just chose not to b/c that's npt the type of person i am..

Wow.....ok, its official Professor Jniles_NCF  will be giving macking lessons in the conference room of the LGM Headquarters.
not even like that i just know what it is to have 4 sisters and i sure as heck would hurt somebody if they stepped my sisters disrespectfully.. that's all... but PM and we'll see if we can work something out on a yahoo chat session or something bring ya pens and papers and be prepared to take notes
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: T-Block on February 23, 2006, 10:46:03 AM
I think all women are sexy.  Maybe not all women are sexy to me, but they are to somebody.  Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!!!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: T-Block on February 23, 2006, 11:08:50 AM
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Quote from: Jniles_NCF on February 22, 2006, 03:01:11 PM
my girlfriend b4 we started dating was atrracted to me i was attracted to her as well i just didn't put the move out just yet.. one day she came to my office and we were tlkain and i happend to see her panty showin now i politely said "if you don't someone goin after your candy you might not want the wrapper to show.." i made a joke about it and she was a lil embarassed i don't knwo if she did it on purpose or not but that's wasn't what i was concerend about the point is that it  could've easily gone another way..i just chose not to b/c that's npt the type of person i am..


Wow.....ok, its official Professor Jniles_NCF  will be giving macking lessons in the conference room of the LGM Headquarters

Sign me up for lessons please!!! I want to be schooled in the art of wooing women (LOL)!!!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Jniles_NCF on February 23, 2006, 11:18:15 AM
Quote
Quote from: Jniles_NCF on February 22, 2006, 03:01:11 PM
my girlfriend b4 we started dating was atrracted to me i was attracted to her as well i just didn't put the move out just yet.. one day she came to my office and we were tlkain and i happend to see her panty showin now i politely said "if you don't someone goin after your candy you might not want the wrapper to show.." i made a joke about it and she was a lil embarassed i don't knwo if she did it on purpose or not but that's wasn't what i was concerend about the point is that it  could've easily gone another way..i just chose not to b/c that's npt the type of person i am..


Wow.....ok, its official Professor Jniles_NCF  will be giving macking lessons in the conference room of the LGM Headquarters

Sign me up for lessons please!!! I want to be schooled in the art of wooing women (LOL)!!!

ya'll really tryin to get me in trouble.. i'm tryin to get my girlfriend to sign up to LGm... she can;t come on here and think i'm some kind of mack daddy or daddy mack which one is it again? dang....lol ;D  but see the first thing you gotta know is...... Be Yourself... if you don't know who that is you've already lost... no body wants to be with a phony....and that's the only piece of advice that's free...... registration begins march1st and classes will run for a 12 week period.. registration includes all materials and light refreshments come out and blessed...
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 23, 2006, 11:22:13 AM
:o This is a good topic.  I liked every comment I have read thus far.  Well, almost every comment...but no...Its good to know that there are men out there who do appreciate ladies for who we are.  On the other hand, referring to me as sexy can be a compliment or a derrogatory term.  I personally only want my husband, (when he finds me ;D) to call me sexy...any others I would prolly be offended.  Ofcourse though, if I have been in a relationship with a person for a while then I guess that's a different story.  

I personally appreciate words like, eloquent, gorgeous, beautiful...I would have more of a pleasant thought about a guy who confronted me using them terms as opposed to telling me that I am "sexy".  Because, yes I would think he was carnal minded!  >:(

And T-Block Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! ;)  Well stated! Unfortunately, somefolk are looking through their fleshly eye when they say certain words to females such as sexy.  This is why I appreciate the fact that I am modest.  You won't catch me giving nobody a sneak peak!  I want to save all my goodies for that special someone!  Can I get an AMEN! :)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: T-Block on February 23, 2006, 11:22:46 AM
O.K., i'll be there.  I think I got the whole "be yourself" thing down pat.  Now, what else?  LOL
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 23, 2006, 11:25:18 AM
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Quote from: Jniles_NCF on February 22, 2006, 03:01:11 PM
my girlfriend b4 we started dating was atrracted to me i was attracted to her as well i just didn't put the move out just yet.. one day she came to my office and we were tlkain and i happend to see her panty showin now i politely said "if you don't someone goin after your candy you might not want the wrapper to show.." i made a joke about it and she was a lil embarassed i don't knwo if she did it on purpose or not but that's wasn't what i was concerend about the point is that it  could've easily gone another way..i just chose not to b/c that's npt the type of person i am..


Wow.....ok, its official Professor Jniles_NCF  will be giving macking lessons in the conference room of the LGM Headquarters

Sign me up for lessons please!!! I want to be schooled in the art of wooing women (LOL)!!!

ya'll really tryin to get me in trouble.. i'm tryin to get my girlfriend to sign up to LGm... she can;t come on here and think i'm some kind of mack daddy or daddy mack which one is it again? dang....lol ;D  but see the first thing you gotta know is...... Be Yourself... if you don't know who that is you've already lost... no body wants to be with a phony....and that's the only piece of advice that's free registration begins march1st and classes will run for a 12 week period.. registration includes all materials and light refreshments come out and blessed...

yall never cease to amaze me...especially jniles...u a trip boi...but I see u Hitch!

Look I think u should done dat movie instead of Will
See, now i'm sad! LOL ::)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: T-Block on February 23, 2006, 11:26:22 AM
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And T-Block Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!   Well stated! Unfortunately, somefolk are looking through their fleshly eye when they say certain words to females such as sexy.  This is why I appreciate the fact that I am modest.  You won't catch me giving nobody a sneak peak!  I want to save all my goodies for that special someone!  Can I get an AMEN!


I feel you on that one.  I have to keep myself in check sometimes cuz I know my eyes wander and so do my thoughts if I ain't careful.  
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 23, 2006, 11:28:09 AM
Now that's a real man who will keep it honest with himself!  You r on the first step to recovery!  ;D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: T-Block on February 23, 2006, 11:31:16 AM
Yeah, I'm in the BTA program, Bad Thoughts Anonymous, LOL!!!  With God's help and all my supporters, I will overcome this.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Jniles_NCF on February 23, 2006, 11:31:24 AM
O.K., i'll be there.  I think I got the whole "be yourself" thing down pat.  Now, what else?  LOL
join the class.. i told you that was the last freebie
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 23, 2006, 11:32:44 AM
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Yeah, I'm in the BTA program, Bad Thoughts Anonymous, LOL!!!  With God's help and all my supporters, I will overcome this.

Yes u will  :D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: LadyWiz on February 23, 2006, 11:40:06 AM
my girlfriend b4 we started dating was atrracted to me i was attracted to her as well i just didn't put the move out just yet.. one day she came to my office and we were tlkain and i happend to see her panty showin now i politely said "if you don't someone goin after your candy you might not want the wrapper to show.." i made a joke about it and she was a lil embarassed i don't knwo if she did it on purpose or not but that's wasn't what i was concerend about the point is that it  could've easily gone another way..i just chose not to b/c that's npt the type of person i am..

Wow.....ok, its official Professor Jniles_NCF  will be giving macking lessons in the conference room of the LGM Headquarters.
not even like that i just know what it is to have 4 sisters and i sure as heck would hurt somebody if they stepped my sisters disrespectfully.. that's all... but PM and we'll see if we can work something out on a yahoo chat session or something bring ya pens and papers and be prepared to take notes

Oh no!  Another mack attack!  Hey DDw4e ~ betta watch out....another mack may be on the scene!  :D :D :o
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Jniles_NCF on February 23, 2006, 11:43:54 AM
my girlfriend b4 we started dating was atrracted to me i was attracted to her as well i just didn't put the move out just yet.. one day she came to my office and we were tlkain and i happend to see her panty showin now i politely said "if you don't someone goin after your candy you might not want the wrapper to show.." i made a joke about it and she was a lil embarassed i don't knwo if she did it on purpose or not but that's wasn't what i was concerend about the point is that it  could've easily gone another way..i just chose not to b/c that's npt the type of person i am..

Wow.....ok, its official Professor Jniles_NCF  will be giving macking lessons in the conference room of the LGM Headquarters.
not even like that i just know what it is to have 4 sisters and i sure as heck would hurt somebody if they stepped my sisters disrespectfully.. that's all... but PM and we'll see if we can work something out on a yahoo chat session or something bring ya pens and papers and be prepared to take notes

Oh no!  Another mack attack!  Hey DDw4e ~ betta watch out....another mack may be on the scene!  :D :D :o
see now i'm in big trouble my girl friend found out and now she joined the board.. thanks a lot you guys.. you didn't see or hear anything.. mums the word......
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: LadyWiz on February 23, 2006, 11:47:09 AM
my girlfriend b4 we started dating was atrracted to me i was attracted to her as well i just didn't put the move out just yet.. one day she came to my office and we were tlkain and i happend to see her panty showin now i politely said "if you don't someone goin after your candy you might not want the wrapper to show.." i made a joke about it and she was a lil embarassed i don't knwo if she did it on purpose or not but that's wasn't what i was concerend about the point is that it  could've easily gone another way..i just chose not to b/c that's npt the type of person i am..

Wow.....ok, its official Professor Jniles_NCF  will be giving macking lessons in the conference room of the LGM Headquarters.
not even like that i just know what it is to have 4 sisters and i sure as heck would hurt somebody if they stepped my sisters disrespectfully.. that's all... but PM and we'll see if we can work something out on a yahoo chat session or something bring ya pens and papers and be prepared to take notes

Oh no!  Another mack attack!  Hey DDw4e ~ betta watch out....another mack may be on the scene!  :D :D :o
see now i'm in big trouble my girl friend found out and now she joined the board.. thanks a lot you guys.. you didn't see or hear anything.. mums the word......

You got it bro........mum's the word between you, me




and the 50 million other people connnected to the WORLD WIDE WEB!!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: sjonathan02 on February 23, 2006, 11:56:45 AM
Yeah, I'm in the BTA program, Bad Thoughts Anonymous, LOL!!!  With God's help and all my supporters, I will overcome this.


Dude, can I pull up a chair?
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Jniles_NCF on February 23, 2006, 12:02:15 PM
my girlfriend b4 we started dating was atrracted to me i was attracted to her as well i just didn't put the move out just yet.. one day she came to my office and we were tlkain and i happend to see her panty showin now i politely said "if you don't someone goin after your candy you might not want the wrapper to show.." i made a joke about it and she was a lil embarassed i don't knwo if she did it on purpose or not but that's wasn't what i was concerend about the point is that it  could've easily gone another way..i just chose not to b/c that's npt the type of person i am..

Wow.....ok, its official Professor Jniles_NCF  will be giving macking lessons in the conference room of the LGM Headquarters.
not even like that i just know what it is to have 4 sisters and i sure as heck would hurt somebody if they stepped my sisters disrespectfully.. that's all... but PM and we'll see if we can work something out on a yahoo chat session or something bring ya pens and papers and be prepared to take notes

Oh no!  Another mack attack!  Hey DDw4e ~ betta watch out....another mack may be on the scene!  :D :D :o
see now i'm in big trouble my girl friend found out and now she joined the board.. thanks a lot you guys.. you didn't see or hear anything.. mums the word......

You got it bro........mum's the word between you, me

and the 50 million other people connnected to the WORLD WIDE WEB!!
it's liek that story when the young woman told a lie about this man and many years later she felt bad cause he was dying and she went to see what she could do...that lie cost him a lot.. so he said get a pillow and go to the highest mountain and let them go and she did and then she said is that all.. and then he said now go and get all them feathers back and then i'll forgive you.... the point of the story is there is a lean goose somewhere waitng to be cooked some body get to seasonin and some body else turn on the stove.. lol no that's not the point. .the point is.. that it already left my mouth and i can't take it back now.. so i gotta deal with it... she just joined and her name is Myvoysizmyjoy- my voice is my joy show her some love ya'll thanx
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: 4hisglory on February 23, 2006, 12:06:49 PM
Jniles_NCF, the text below your Pic says it all

sorry, couldn't resist. :D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Jniles_NCF on February 23, 2006, 12:12:48 PM
Jniles_NCF, the text below your Pic says it all

sorry, couldn't resist. :D
you aint right..... you aint right at all.......you think ur all cool and stuff cause you got access to everybodies profile... that's gotta be a fraction of the bi-laws.. do we have bi-laws....
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: myvoysizmyjoy on February 23, 2006, 12:14:30 PM
this board seems interesting well Godbless everyone this is the girlfreind of jniles.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Jniles_NCF on February 23, 2006, 12:17:42 PM
Yeah, I'm in the BTA program, Bad Thoughts Anonymous, LOL!!!  With God's help and all my supporters, I will overcome this.


Dude, can I pull up a chair?
everyone who was tryin to register for the class may wanna join BTA with brother Jonathan And brother T-block cause the class  that i was supposedly going to be giving has been canceled
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Nakia518 on February 23, 2006, 12:19:54 PM
this board seems interesting well Godbless everyone this is the girlfreind of jniles.

Welcome to the Fam... Jniles' girlfriend...
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Nakia518 on February 23, 2006, 12:21:12 PM
Yeah, I'm in the BTA program, Bad Thoughts Anonymous, LOL!!!  With God's help and all my supporters, I will overcome this.


Dude, can I pull up a chair?
everyone who was tryin to register for the class may wanna join BTA with brother Jonathan And brother T-block cause the class  that i was supposedly going to be giving has been canceled


Don't be scurd.... do da dang thing... ROTFLMBO!!!!!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 23, 2006, 12:26:13 PM
this board seems interesting well Godbless everyone this is the girlfreind of jniles.

Well, welcome to LGM!  I promise all conversations won't be this..."wile"  but glad to have u gurl, and I hope u enjoy urself!  Ya man be havin me rollin foreal!  But I already tole him dat though! ;D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Jniles_NCF on February 23, 2006, 12:32:21 PM
Yeah, I'm in the BTA program, Bad Thoughts Anonymous, LOL!!!  With God's help and all my supporters, I will overcome this.


Dude, can I pull up a chair?
everyone who was tryin to register for the class may wanna join BTA with brother Jonathan And brother T-block cause the class  that i was supposedly going to be giving has been canceled


Don't be scurd.... do da dang thing... ROTFLMBO!!!!!

wait a minute Nakia bout to make 1000.. ya'll we gotta celebrate i got the cups and plates......( so what if i'm tryin to change the topic)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Jniles_NCF on February 23, 2006, 12:41:59 PM
so yeah back to the topic at hand ... what about ya'll sisters out there what about brothers( liek me) who are handsome... considerably so and are souled out for Jesus not on some faking just in church to get a wife and then leave brother but are serious.. how do you approach a situatin like that....
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: myvoysizmyjoy on February 23, 2006, 12:42:11 PM
this board seems interesting well Godbless everyone this is the girlfreind of jniles.

Well, welcome to LGM!  I promise all conversations won't be this..."wile"  but glad to have u gurl, and I hope u enjoy urself!  Ya man be havin me rollin foreal!  But I already tole him dat though! ;D
thats kool alright gurl
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: myvoysizmyjoy on February 23, 2006, 12:43:20 PM
so yeah back to the topic at hand ... what about ya'll sisters out there what about brothers( liek me) who are handsome... considerably so and are souled out for Jesus not on some faking just in church to get a wife and then leave brother but are serious.. how do you approach a situatin like that....
nice transition
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 23, 2006, 01:59:43 PM
so yeah back to the topic at hand ... what about ya'll sisters out there what about brothers( liek me) who are handsome... considerably so and are souled out for Jesus not on some faking just in church to get a wife and then leave brother but are serious.. how do you approach a situatin like that....
nice transition


lol...get him gurl!  ;D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: playhear on February 23, 2006, 02:20:19 PM
Jniles_NCF, I have to give you props man for being bold. If I were you, I would have had to change my photo and make my profile unidentifiable to my girlfriend.

P.S.
<-----That photo right there is not anonymous to my girlfriend; she knows that’s me.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Jniles_NCF on February 23, 2006, 02:24:04 PM
Jniles_NCF, I have to give you props man for being bold. If I were you, I would have had to change my photo and make my profile unidentifiable to my girlfriend.

P.S.
<-----That photo right there is not anonymous to my girlfriend; she knows that’s me.
man i aint got nuffin to to hide.. she would have found me out though anyway... sometimes telling the truth from the begining saves a whole lotta talkin in the end....
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 23, 2006, 02:25:27 PM
Jniles_NCF, I have to give you props man for being bold. If I were you, I would have had to change my photo and make my profile unidentifiable to my girlfriend.

P.S.
<-----That photo right there is not anonymous to my girlfriend; she knows that’s me.

Well, she is tough then! hehehehe ;D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: LadyWiz on February 23, 2006, 02:39:30 PM
this board seems interesting well Godbless everyone this is the girlfreind of jniles.

Welcome to the LGM fam!  Jniles does have us rolling but he's always respectable!  Much love to the both of you!  :)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: playhear on February 23, 2006, 02:48:00 PM
Jniles_NCF, I have to give you props man for being bold. If I were you, I would have had to change my photo and make my profile unidentifiable to my girlfriend.

P.S.
<-----That photo right there is not anonymous to my girlfriend; she knows that’s me.
man i aint got nuffin to to hide.. she would have found me out though anyway... sometimes telling the truth from the begining saves a whole lotta talkin in the end....

I was just messing with you...sorta  ;D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: truth4life on February 24, 2006, 09:46:19 PM
I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Ummm...no we wouldn't.

I haven't taken the time to read exactly what everyone has said, but some very good points have been made.  A woman knows what is the motive when she puts on what she puts on.  If a man has a struggle with lust, or looking, and is married or in a commitment, the bible says if he even thinks it in his mind, it is a sin....but if you purposely dress to cause men to look at you, you have become a part of that sin. You have become the sin, the temptation, and you alone have caused that man to sin against his wife!!  But if you know that you are modest, and you truley know God is pleased with your outfit, and he choosed to lust, then that is his problem.  Personally, I don't want to look frumpy, I agree with sis T, I want things to fit me, I don't want to look like a hot air balloon, lol. but, also, I watch what I wear, because I want people to see God.  I want to look sophisticated, well put together, beautiful...I don't think I would use the word sexy.  I don't want an outfit to sent a message that says, hey look at me I'm part of the world, but I also don't want a frumpy outfit to say, wow, that woman looks Depressed serving God!!  But all in all, I would have to say yes, a woman can be a christian and be sexy, it will just not be in an outfit that the world would think is sexy!  (even tho i'm like lorenzoS to say a christian woman, a woman of God, is sexy, just doesn't sound right, someone grab a thesaurus, there has gotta be a better word!!!)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: truth4life on February 24, 2006, 09:55:31 PM

But, I also heard my pastor say one day,

"If it ain't for sale, take the sign down!"
......

Your clothes shouldn't make a brother sweat,
CSE2

just reading throught some more posts and I agree 100% !!!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: lumbebear1 on February 24, 2006, 10:26:07 PM
this board seems interesting well Godbless everyone this is the girlfreind of jniles.

Welcome to the Fam... Jniles' girlfriend...


Ditto
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: csedwards2 on February 24, 2006, 11:39:22 PM
I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Ummm...no we wouldn't.

I haven't taken the time to read exactly what everyone has said, but some very good points have been made. A woman knows what is the motive when she puts on what she puts on. If a man has a struggle with lust, or looking, and is married or in a commitment, the bible says if he even thinks it in his mind, it is a sin....but if you purposely dress to cause men to look at you, you have become a part of that sin. You have become the sin, the temptation, and you alone have caused that man to sin against his wife!! But if you know that you are modest, and you truley know God is pleased with your outfit, and he choosed to lust, then that is his problem. Personally, I don't want to look frumpy, I agree with sis T, I want things to fit me, I don't want to look like a hot air balloon, lol. but, also, I watch what I wear, because I want people to see God. I want to look sophisticated, well put together, beautiful...I don't think I would use the word sexy. I don't want an outfit to sent a message that says, hey look at me I'm part of the world, but I also don't want a frumpy outfit to say, wow, that woman looks Depressed serving God!! But all in all, I would have to say yes, a woman can be a christian and be sexy, it will just not be in an outfit that the world would think is sexy! (even tho i'm like lorenzoS to say a christian woman, a woman of God, is sexy, just doesn't sound right, someone grab a thesaurus, there has gotta be a better word!!!)

Doesnt matter if the dude is in a relationship, single, a eunuch, etc. If it is thought in his heart, he's committed adultery. We have to look at the deeper meaning of adultery. Adultery is when you're having sex with anyone other than your wife, so you can be adulterous as a single man.  Just because we're not married yet, doesnt give us the right to look upon and lust some woman into our mental fantasy bed.  Thats why girlfriends and such are dangerous to have, because significant others that you arent married to (ie girlfriends, etc) are temporary at best. And if you lust after them, you've committed adultery there to. Its not your wife until she has your ring. So in essence, your girlfriend could  and usually does cause you to sin against your wife.


CSE2
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: uriahsmusic on February 26, 2006, 07:06:42 AM
..this is a subject that has bothered me for many years...I honestly feel that Pastors just dont take this seriously most of the the time.
..the problem is that the scripture that was quoted over and over again is not dealt with.

it is one thing to look like a "garden tool"...(think about it!...(santa's laugh!!!) on your own....but women ...why bring it to Gods house?....why?....life is hard enough.....

mothers....having your daughters dress in tight clothes isnt cute.....what are you thinking?
we are talking about church now!
why would you want a man to see every part of your daughter? why...do you think it's cute the way he looks at her?

I am not excusing the men...I am accusing the women...God didnt ask you to look sexy....for the same reason he asked men not to lust after you!

Sexy is not for you to be....and lets cut the "sexy means different things psycho-babble"

sexy is an intent!!!

your clothes should not reveal or closley outline your body parts!...get a gripsky already.!!!!

I think everyon should dress like monks!

I NEVER DID UNDERSTAND WHY PASTORS DIDNT TAKE A STAND ON THIS STUFF!
(ARE THEY COWARDS OR JUST HAPPY TO SEE YA?)

this is a rediculous cycle of the men love what the women wear...but the women say they dont wear it for the men!...

next time your youth choir sings ...take a look at them....Mothers if your daughter is growing...buy her some new clothes!!!...bigger ones...!!!

I have a 17 year old daughter who I saw a picture of and she had a skirt on that...showed her stuff!

I confronted her mother...and she thought it was attractive...This is the Holy Roller...speak in tongues mother every 5.3 minutes who never wore this stuff her self....has her daughter wearing it.....ya think she's living through her daughter.....I protested but got nowhere.....

IT IS FOR PASTORS TO SET THE TONE IN THE CHURCH!...I HAVE SEEN MANY PASTORS WHO SIMPLY DONT ALLOW IT!...GO HOME AND CHANGE!.....

SOMEONE OFF OF THE STREET IS ONE THING....BUT NOT A MEMBER!....

GOD DOESNT OWE YOU SEXY!...A MATTER OF FACT HE DOESNT WANT YOU SEXY!!!!

HE MADE US ATTRACTIVE TO EACH OTHER NATURALLY....MEN TO WOMAN!....

WHEW....I FEEL BETTER NOW!

NOW CUT IT OUT!



Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 26, 2006, 08:09:29 AM
..this is a subject that has bothered me for many years...I honestly feel that Pastors just dont take this seriously most of the the time.
..the problem is that the scripture that was quoted over and over again is not dealt with.

it is one thing to look like a "garden tool"...(think about it!...(santa's laugh!!!) on your own....but women ...why bring it to Gods house?....why?....life is hard enough.....

mothers....having your daughters dress in tight clothes isnt cute.....what are you thinking?
we are talking about church now!
why would you want a man to see every part of your daughter? why...do you think it's cute the way he looks at her?

I am not excusing the men...I am accusing the women...God didnt ask you to look sexy....for the same reason he asked men not to lust after you!

Sexy is not for you to be....and lets cut the "sexy means different things psycho-babble"

sexy is an intent!!!

your clothes should not reveal or closley outline your body parts!...get a gripsky already.!!!!

I think everyon should dress like monks!

I NEVER DID UNDERSTAND WHY PASTORS DIDNT TAKE A STAND ON THIS STUFF!
(ARE THEY COWARDS OR JUST HAPPY TO SEE YA?)

this is a rediculous cycle of the men love what the women wear...but the women say they dont wear it for the men!...

next time your youth choir sings ...take a look at them....Mothers if your daughter is growing...buy her some new clothes!!!...bigger ones...!!!

I have a 17 year old daughter who I saw a picture of and she had a skirt on that...showed her stuff!

I confronted her mother...and she thought it was attractive...This is the Holy Roller...speak in tongues mother every 5.3 minutes who never wore this stuff her self....has her daughter wearing it.....ya think she's living through her daughter.....I protested but got nowhere.....

IT IS FOR PASTORS TO SET THE TONE IN THE CHURCH!...I HAVE SEEN MANY PASTORS WHO SIMPLY DONT ALLOW IT!...GO HOME AND CHANGE!.....

SOMEONE OFF OF THE STREET IS ONE THING....BUT NOT A MEMBER!....

GOD DOESNT OWE YOU SEXY!...A MATTER OF FACT HE DOESNT WANT YOU SEXY!!!!

HE MADE US ATTRACTIVE TO EACH OTHER NATURALLY....MEN TO WOMAN!....

WHEW....I FEEL BETTER NOW!

NOW CUT IT OUT!






LOL, Well, I'm glad you got that off your chest.  I agree with you that ladies or mothers of ladies should not allow their daughters to dress in an inticing manner.  As far as the Pastors; I think I can speak for several when I say that not ALL Pastors are allowing this to take place.  My pastor is definitely one of them!  ;D  Just to encourage you about Pastors  ;)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: bigblackdrummer on February 26, 2006, 11:40:47 AM
::peeping in:::

Just thought i'd post Mr. Dictonary  :)

Quote
  • Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest.
  • Slang. Highly appealing or interesting; attractive: “The recruiting brochures are getting sexier” (Jack R. Wentworth).

Quote


adj 1: marked by or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest; "feeling sexy"; "sexy clothes"; "sexy poses"; "a sexy book"; "sexy jokes" 2: exciting sexual desire [syn: aphrodisiac, aphrodisiacal]

::readin the mail::    :D :D


Listen a woman could dressed in a full suit and we as guys will still look her up and down looking at her assets! Come on you know what he means by sexy! There is nothing sexier than a woman who is an awesome musician! Yes I think a Christian woman can be sexy but have class doing so.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: bigblackdrummer on February 26, 2006, 12:02:05 PM
I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Ummm...no we wouldn't.

I haven't taken the time to read exactly what everyone has said, but some very good points have been made. A woman knows what is the motive when she puts on what she puts on. If a man has a struggle with lust, or looking, and is married or in a commitment, the bible says if he even thinks it in his mind, it is a sin....but if you purposely dress to cause men to look at you, you have become a part of that sin. You have become the sin, the temptation, and you alone have caused that man to sin against his wife!! But if you know that you are modest, and you truley know God is pleased with your outfit, and he choosed to lust, then that is his problem. Personally, I don't want to look frumpy, I agree with sis T, I want things to fit me, I don't want to look like a hot air balloon, lol. but, also, I watch what I wear, because I want people to see God. I want to look sophisticated, well put together, beautiful...I don't think I would use the word sexy. I don't want an outfit to sent a message that says, hey look at me I'm part of the world, but I also don't want a frumpy outfit to say, wow, that woman looks Depressed serving God!! But all in all, I would have to say yes, a woman can be a christian and be sexy, it will just not be in an outfit that the world would think is sexy! (even tho i'm like lorenzoS to say a christian woman, a woman of God, is sexy, just doesn't sound right, someone grab a thesaurus, there has gotta be a better word!!!)

Doesnt matter if the dude is in a relationship, single, a eunuch, etc. If it is thought in his heart, he's committed adultery. We have to look at the deeper meaning of adultery. Adultery is when you're having sex with anyone other than your wife, so you can be adulterous as a single man.  Just because we're not married yet, doesnt give us the right to look upon and lust some woman into our mental fantasy bed.  Thats why girlfriends and such are dangerous to have, because significant others that you arent married to (ie girlfriends, etc) are temporary at best. And if you lust after them, you've committed adultery there to. Its not your wife until she has your ring. So in essence, your girlfriend could  and usually does cause you to sin against your wife.


CSE2

I dont agree! People we are humans and sex and the urge to reproduce is in our nature! Men married or not will always be attracted to women and check a woman out, its in our nature! If a naked women walks in front of my car Im going to look! Thats not lust!!!! Even if the thought comes to my mind Id like to touch her thats not sin (or else we would all go to hell for just our thoughts). Its human! Lust is when I keep it down in my heart and let it fester to the point of action.
I mean we all as men have to have control over our man-ness and have respect for women, and know that they do have faces and their chest and butt are not their eyes! They may have bangin bodies but a woman wants a man who respects her
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Willie L. Terry Jr on February 26, 2006, 06:24:21 PM
I don't know about sexy Christian "women."  I know a sexy christian woman...that's my wife.  I believe that my sisters and I refer to them as my sisters to keep things into perspective have a right to be attractive but when I start thinking they are sexy, it's time to fast.  I don't mind when women period, not just christian women are attractive, as a matter of fact, my wife often ask me the question, "do you think she's attractive?"  Of course I tell her the truth, because that's what she want to here but I leave it there.  We should force our women to look like zombies and then go to work where the women look good and smell good and our hormones are all in a rage because we make our wive look like Seely from Color Purple.  No I want the women to know at my job, at church and where ever, don't even go trying to holla at Willie T. cause his wife is attractive and ain't no way I'm going to compete with her.


Just my take on it.

T.J.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 26, 2006, 07:06:00 PM
I don't know about sexy Christian "women."  I know a sexy christian woman...that's my wife.  I believe that my sisters and I refer to them as my sisters to keep things into perspective have a right to be attractive but when I start thinking they are sexy, it's time to fast.  I don't mind when women period, not just christian women are attractive, as a matter of fact, my wife often ask me the question, "do you think she's attractive?"  Of course I tell her the truth, because that's what she want to here but I leave it there.  We should force our women to look like zombies and then go to work where the women look good and smell good and our hormones are all in a rage because we make our wive look like Seely from Color Purple.  No I want the women to know at my job, at church and where ever, don't even go trying to holla at Willie T. cause his wife is attractive and ain't no way I'm going to compete with her.


Just my take on it.

T.J.

 ::) I don't know what bigblackdrummer was talkin about, but yes! You have it Willie T.  You have a good head on ur shoulder and I'm so glad you can represent the good men out there who have respect for themselves and the Word of God.  Keep up the Good work because God is truly smiling on you.  :)

Be Blessed!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Willie L. Terry Jr on February 26, 2006, 08:54:26 PM
Thanks Soldier...

The fact that this topic got 7 pages should let you women know...especially those that are married that yall need to pray and not only pray but when you and your honey are together sharing one of those warm moments (not talking about sex).  When you all are chillin and the kids are sleep and nobody is around buy you, you need to talk to your man and get the real on where he is at sexually.  Communication is the key...I'm not perfect but I have no problem with telling my wife "a babe...you know your boy got a Jones"  if you know what I mean.  I mean there are times where my flesh is hyper sensative and merely the blowing of the wind and I'm rhet to go.  There are others when I could care less.  When those times come when I'm super sensative, I let moma know what the deal is.  If she responds then it's "Enter in, into the Holy Place" but if she's not, then it "nights like this I wish, that rain drops would fall."  Don't mean to make light of this but man, if you're married, ruining your marriage over what equates to what my big sister you to call "a nut" is pretty dumb.

How about this?  People normally have trouble applying the bible to practical life.  Hebrews says and I'm paraphrasing that we have a savior who can identify with our infermities and was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin.  Jesus was tempted too...  For some of us men, fathers, husbands, the only Christ our wives will ever physically see is us.  In the old testament, the women called their man "Lord."  If Jesus was as selfish as we are at times, then we all would be doomed.  I hate walking around like :o but the reality is, when I wake up in the morning, I'm not like, I'm going to go find me someone's life to mess up.  That's why 1 John says, when or if we sin...if meaning their maybe times when find yourself in a place and you're like, how did I get here.  Let's just hope that place ain't after you just finished your business.  There's grace for brothers out there lusting...there is and Jesus died for you lust.  Not that once you accept him, you will stop...but your desire shouldn't be to engage Operation Bone Her. 

I speak as man married, has dealt with this, am dealing with this and will deal with this.

This is one of the reasons why I get fustrated when the sisters get together to pray, they pray for everything except for their husbands.  YALL NEED TO PRAY FOR US BROTHAS, IT'S NOT A QUESTION OF IF WE WILL BE ATTACHED BUT WHEN.

I've got somemore to say but my wife just brought me lunch.

T.J.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 26, 2006, 09:04:37 PM
Quote
I've got somemore to say but my wife just brought me lunch.

too funny  :D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: bigblackdrummer on February 26, 2006, 10:51:48 PM
I don't know about sexy Christian "women."  I know a sexy christian woman...that's my wife.  I believe that my sisters and I refer to them as my sisters to keep things into perspective have a right to be attractive but when I start thinking they are sexy, it's time to fast.  I don't mind when women period, not just christian women are attractive, as a matter of fact, my wife often ask me the question, "do you think she's attractive?"  Of course I tell her the truth, because that's what she want to here but I leave it there.  We should force our women to look like zombies and then go to work where the women look good and smell good and our hormones are all in a rage because we make our wive look like Seely from Color Purple.  No I want the women to know at my job, at church and where ever, don't even go trying to holla at Willie T. cause his wife is attractive and ain't no way I'm going to compete with her.


Just my take on it.

T.J.

 ::) I don't know what bigblackdrummer was talkin about, but yes! You have it Willie T.  You have a good head on ur shoulder and I'm so glad you can represent the good men out there who have respect for themselves and the Word of God.  Keep up the Good work because God is truly smiling on you.  :)

Be Blessed!



I'm looking at it realistically and truthful! Something that some of you bigger bible Christians fail to do! Why do you think so many youth males fall, because of unreal teaching! Teach on the reality of human nature and how to over come them using Godly standards. Not spit out all your I`m high and mighty unable to obtain Christian babel ! Side note, We need to start teaching sex ed. in Sunday schools! Its better then a secular teacher teaching our kids it! You understand now! :-*
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: csedwards2 on February 26, 2006, 10:54:42 PM
I don't know about sexy Christian "women." I know a sexy christian woman...that's my wife. I believe that my sisters and I refer to them as my sisters to keep things into perspective have a right to be attractive but when I start thinking they are sexy, it's time to fast. I don't mind when women period, not just christian women are attractive, as a matter of fact, my wife often ask me the question, "do you think she's attractive?" Of course I tell her the truth, because that's what she want to here but I leave it there. We should force our women to look like zombies and then go to work where the women look good and smell good and our hormones are all in a rage because we make our wive look like Seely from Color Purple. No I want the women to know at my job, at church and where ever, don't even go trying to holla at Willie T. cause his wife is attractive and ain't no way I'm going to compete with her.


Just my take on it.

T.J.

Good job keeping things in persepctive SpiritFingers

CSE2
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: csedwards2 on February 26, 2006, 11:42:02 PM
I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Ummm...no we wouldn't.

I haven't taken the time to read exactly what everyone has said, but some very good points have been made. A woman knows what is the motive when she puts on what she puts on. If a man has a struggle with lust, or looking, and is married or in a commitment, the bible says if he even thinks it in his mind, it is a sin....but if you purposely dress to cause men to look at you, you have become a part of that sin. You have become the sin, the temptation, and you alone have caused that man to sin against his wife!! But if you know that you are modest, and you truley know God is pleased with your outfit, and he choosed to lust, then that is his problem. Personally, I don't want to look frumpy, I agree with sis T, I want things to fit me, I don't want to look like a hot air balloon, lol. but, also, I watch what I wear, because I want people to see God. I want to look sophisticated, well put together, beautiful...I don't think I would use the word sexy. I don't want an outfit to sent a message that says, hey look at me I'm part of the world, but I also don't want a frumpy outfit to say, wow, that woman looks Depressed serving God!! But all in all, I would have to say yes, a woman can be a christian and be sexy, it will just not be in an outfit that the world would think is sexy! (even tho i'm like lorenzoS to say a christian woman, a woman of God, is sexy, just doesn't sound right, someone grab a thesaurus, there has gotta be a better word!!!)

Doesnt matter if the dude is in a relationship, single, a eunuch, etc. If it is thought in his heart, he's committed adultery. We have to look at the deeper meaning of adultery. Adultery is when you're having sex with anyone other than your wife, so you can be adulterous as a single man.  Just because we're not married yet, doesnt give us the right to look upon and lust some woman into our mental fantasy bed.  Thats why girlfriends and such are dangerous to have, because significant others that you arent married to (ie girlfriends, etc) are temporary at best. And if you lust after them, you've committed adultery there to. Its not your wife until she has your ring. So in essence, your girlfriend could  and usually does cause you to sin against your wife.


CSE2

I dont agree! People we are humans and sex and the urge to reproduce is in our nature! Men married or not will always be attracted to women and check a woman out, its in our nature! If a naked women walks in front of my car Im going to look! Thats not lust!!!! Even if the thought comes to my mind Id like to touch her thats not sin (or else we would all go to hell for just our thoughts). Its human! Lust is when I keep it down in my heart and let it fester to the point of action.
I mean we all as men have to have control over our man-ness and have respect for women, and know that they do have faces and their chest and butt are not their eyes! They may have bangin bodies but a woman wants a man who respects her

I dont know what part you dont agree with but I hope its not Matt 5:28 (one of my power scriptures) where JESUS said, "But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

It's alright if you didnt know about this scripture. Ladies you'd really be surprised to find out how few men do. I, myself went through  95% (I actually did the math) of my life without knowing this all important scripture, and our mouthpieces at church are slow to find a sermon to use this as a ref. I talked about this in BBoy's post about Shutting it Down, but most ministers will not confront stuff you do in your personal life like lust, simply because they still have trouble with it, and many still do.  Everybody attends their own church for their own reasons, so you may never be in a church where this is dealt with. That's why its up to us as Chrisitinas to READ OUR BIBLEs for ourselves; not somebody's interpretation, but the written word. We may not be fortunate enough to be in a Bible reading/following church and may only have to live our lives from what's preached, but how can you know what was added or left out if you dont know what's within? It's up to us to discern  true/false teachings and true/false prophets. We will never know if we're being misled or improperly fed if we dont study to show ourselves approved.

Before finding this scripture in a book I highly reccommend to all brothers on the site, Every Man's/Young Man's Battle, I was confused about what to do when a lady passed, naked or not. Now, having read the Bible for myself, I see it clear. 
Can you belive that? 20+ years straight of being in church, and I hadnt heard the scripture until I found it on my own, and Im a PK. God had to place it in my lap, because his servants sometimes dont want to ruffle feathers. Read, Read, read. Please read. And ladies, please forgive the brothers who look you up and down, many of them have not read and do not know what the Bible says about looking upon a woman.

If you want, you could survey some brothers and ask if they know what the Bible says about it; you'd be surprised.

CSE2

Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 27, 2006, 01:08:51 AM
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I'm looking at it realistically and truthful! Something that some of you bigger bible Christians fail to do! Why do you think so many youth males fall, because of unreal teaching! Teach on the reality of human nature and how to over come them using Godly standards. Not spit out all your I`m high and mighty unable to obtain Christian babel ! Side note, We need to start teaching sex ed. in Sunday schools! Its better then a secular teacher teaching our kids it! You understand now!


I can't believe you are serious  ::)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Willie L. Terry Jr on February 27, 2006, 01:46:53 AM
I'm being realistic...  I have made mistakes in life and don't want to see people fail.  But like my boy Jamie Jones says, "Why does it take, something so bad to open your eyes."  Nice song by the way...if you haven't heard it, you should.  Seriously, that's why they call it deception.  My wife and I were over the singles ministry for a year and a half and this is all we talked about for a year and half.  That's all singles wanted to talk about.  Funny thing is, you attract what you talk about.  I ain't trippin though.  See when I was a young Marine stationed in Hawaii you could get away with some stuff but now the enemy trying to kill for real.  Dude ain't playing, they got stuff you can't take penacillin for.  Dude...blackdrummer said it, we should teach sex ed in church but we should make it the thing we teach about.  I just taught on this, this past Sunday and I think it would apply here, the church is built on the revelation of who Jesus Christ is.  While we address thinking like teen pregnancy, we teach teens a life of self sacrifice for a greater cause than themselves.  Wow, that's what Jesus did...Phil 2:5 He new he was God but took on the form of man and humble himself was obedient even to death.  Teach'm I know you have the power to chose and you feel like you can do what you want to do but you're responsibility as a believer is not to identify with your flesh but to identify with Christ "Christian" and do the Christ-like thing and say no to your own power and humble yourself and your little hormones.  Check it...for the brothers out there...Anybody can get some...It ain't like it's hard these days!  Biggy Smalls had women...We trip like we King Dingaling and the moment a woman gets what we got, then she's whipped for life.  She should be attracted to your vision and where you're going in life.  Genesis said nothing about love or lust when God put Adam and Eve together but he did give Adam purpose.  Yall better try to fool somebody that ain't been out there playing the game.  Negros trip me out cause they hook-up with a few chickens from the neighborhood, it makes them a playa.  Dude, I've been all around the world, Hawaii, Japan, Korea, Thailand not to mention all over the U.S. and I've seen all kinds of women.  I decide to get married when I was in Thailand one day in a hotel room.  One day I decided that I didn't want to got to the saloon ;)with the boys, I realized that I loved my wife and that I was only masking my true feelings for her by going out with the fellas.  Well I didn't go and when I got home, the first I did was bought a ring and asked her to walk with me.  Negros a trip, got papers on their dog but won't got make relationship legit.

Yall got me stirred up!  I'm just saying, if we going to come of a trying to keep it real, then keep it real.  Just say, I got a problem and can somebody help me.  Don't trip like something is wrong with the church and those of us that are trying to live right...not to mention the women that's trying to save themselves for something right.  I don't feel bad about where I'm at or what I've been through.  I'm not ashamed either because it helps to deliver people.  If we fall, it's cause we wanted to fall.  The sin was already in our heart@!


YAH BOY!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 27, 2006, 01:55:19 AM
I'm being realistic...  I have made mistakes in life and don't want to see people fail.  But like my boy Jamie Jones says, "Why does it take, something so bad to open your eyes."  Nice song by the way...if you haven't heard it, you should.  Seriously, that's why they call it deception.  My wife and I were over the singles ministry for a year and a half and this is all we talked about for a year and half.  That's all singles wanted to talk about.  Funny thing is, you attract what you talk about.  I ain't trippin though.  See when I was a young Marine stationed in Hawaii you could get away with some stuff but now the enemy trying to kill for real.  Dude ain't playing, they got stuff you can't take penacillin for.  Dude...blackdrummer said it, we should teach sex ed in church but we should make it the thing we teach about.  I just taught on this, this past Sunday and I think it would apply here, the church is built on the revelation of who Jesus Christ is.  While we address thinking like teen pregnancy, we teach teens a life of self sacrifice for a greater cause than themselves.  Wow, that's what Jesus did...Phil 2:5 He new he was God but took on the form of man and humble himself was obedient even to death.  Teach'm I know you have the power to chose and you feel like you can do what you want to do but you're responsibility as a believer is not to identify with your flesh but to identify with Christ "Christian" and do the Christ-like thing and say no to your own power and humble yourself and your little hormones.  Check it...for the brothers out there...Anybody can get some...It ain't like it's hard these days!  Biggy Smalls had women...We trip like we King Dingaling and the moment a woman gets what we got, then she's whipped for life.  She should be attracted to your vision and where you're going in life.  Genesis said nothing about love or lust when God put Adam and Eve together but he did give Adam purpose.  Yall better try to fool somebody that ain't been out there playing the game.  Negros trip me out cause they hook-up with a few chickens from the neighborhood, it makes them a playa.  Dude, I've been all around the world, Hawaii, Japan, Korea, Thailand not to mention all over the U.S. and I've seen all kinds of women.  I decide to get married when I was in Thailand one day in a hotel room.  One day I decided that I didn't want to got to the saloon ;)with the boys, I realized that I loved my wife and that I was only masking my true feelings for her by going out with the fellas.  Well I didn't go and when I got home, the first I did was bought a ring and asked her to walk with me.  Negros a trip, got papers on their dog but won't got make relationship legit.

Yall got me stirred up!  I'm just saying, if we going to come of a trying to keep it real, then keep it real.  Just say, I got a problem and can somebody help me.  Don't trip like something is wrong with the church and those of us that are trying to live right...not to mention the women that's trying to save themselves for something right.  I don't feel bad about where I'm at or what I've been through.  I'm not ashamed either because it helps to deliver people.  If we fall, it's cause we wanted to fall.  The sin was already in our heart@!


YAH BOY!

This really touched me that someone would actually take the time to give his personal story like this.  No doubt this took a long time, and it is great that you are so passionate about this topic.  I don't know about teaching sex ed within the churches because most folk will learn enough about it at school, and anywhere else they want to learn it at, but if an assembly feels it is necessary then go ahead!  I just would hate for that assembly to send out the wrong message to the young people. 

I appreciated your testimony!
Be Blessed!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: sjonathan02 on February 27, 2006, 06:57:36 AM
I wouldn't say that sex education should be taught in church. I would say that what needs to be taught in churches is how to love someone correctly (whether it be a another person or yourself).

Part of the problem with the whole sex issue is that no one is teaching how to appropriately love someone of the opposite sex (I didn't want there to be any confusion  ;D). If we properly teach how to love someone in the biblical way; the way God intended, then all this imaginary need for sexual gratification wouldn't be so rampant in and out of church.

But, what happened is that men & women got their Intro to Sexualization from the world, and now the church has to reclaim all of us (yes, I said us) who have been operating via the worlds paradigm on the issue of sex and relationships.


I'm done....for now.  ;)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Pajarita on February 27, 2006, 09:26:11 AM
This thread arouses a twinge of anger in me, 4Hisglory.  Mainly because of something that happened to me recently (last weekend) that I don't care to go into detail about.  I'll just say there were several women around me setting a "bad example" for the rest of "us", while I was wearing a long (covered my bottom) baggy T-shirt and jeans, and I was still assaulted by some low-life...a fellow military member at that!  ON A MILITARY INSTILLATION.  I don't think it has so much to do with the way a woman is dressed. 

Sexy IMO is an attitude.  I think that it actually turns into another descriptive word:  Classy.  I think women who are labled as "classy" have a certain amount of "sex appeal" that makes them be referred to as "sexy".  The difference is the way they carry themselves, what they DON'T SHOW in clothes, how they speak, how they move, the company they choose to keep...it has so much more to deal with than just their looks. 

Maybe this is because I'm not a man, I don't know, but I don't "drop the 'y'" at all.  Sexy can mean so many different things to me, I'd have to see who the reference is to the word at the time.  Many women think Denzel Washington is sexy.  In most of his movies, he plays a man in uniform (cop, military, doctor, etc.)  He's usually pretty covered up, yet women still think he's "sexy". 

I personally think that certain men...some of them being on this site...are sexy.  FATHERS.  I mean the ones that are IN LOVE with their children.  The ones who are "attached at the hip" to their sons and daughters.  I think these men are SOOOO sexy!  But I am NOT sexually aroused by them.  I use sexy in a way that means anything but it's root word.  I'm sure many women can agree that fatherhood is kind of sexy.   :)It's attractive.  It shows a level of commitment and love that you don't see in just any man walking around.  (Forgive me, 4Hisglory, I'm going to use you as an example briefly...) 

Look at 4Hisglory's picture...you can't tell me that's not sexy.  *Sappy baby-goo-goo-ga-ga voice*  Look at him...he's so cute with the little baby pushed up next to his cheek...Isn't that adorable?  Not just the baby...it's that vision of FATHERHOOD...and of a father's adoration of his child.  Something he had a hand in creating and takes GREAT PRIDE in raising.  MinBrad is another one.   :)LOOK AT THE PICTURE!  That is sooooo cute to me!  I'm sorry, but I just think that's sexy.  Just my opinion. 

(Peach, don't be in a hurry...your time is coming!  LOL!)
My $1.02
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: 4hisglory on February 27, 2006, 09:43:55 AM
Isn't that adorable?  Not just the baby...it's that vision of FATHERHOOD...and of a father's adoration of his child.  Something he had a hand in creating and takes GREAT PRIDE in raising.  MinBrad is another one.   :)LOOK AT THE PICTURE!  That is sooooo cute to me!  I'm sorry, but I just think that's sexy.  Just my opinion. 

(Peach, don't be in a hurry...your time is coming!  LOL!)
My $1.02

Well ummmmm......cough, cough, who am I to argue with a woman with good taste. :)

I knew it was something about Pajarita I likedededed :)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Pajarita on February 27, 2006, 10:28:30 AM
Isn't that adorable?  Not just the baby...it's that vision of FATHERHOOD...and of a father's adoration of his child.  Something he had a hand in creating and takes GREAT PRIDE in raising.  MinBrad is another one.   :)LOOK AT THE PICTURE!  That is sooooo cute to me!  I'm sorry, but I just think that's sexy.  Just my opinion. 

(Peach, don't be in a hurry...your time is coming!  LOL!)
My $1.02

Well ummmmm......cough, cough, who am I to argue with a woman with good taste. :)

I knew it was something about Pajarita I likedededed :)

 :D :-[  Man, you made me laugh sooo much!  I'm in a library-like place though so I had to stifle it.  Man that was hard.  I think I almost ruptured something trying to hold in that laugh.   :D 

I was serious though!  Fathers-in-love-with-their-children are sexy!  I hope to marry a man like that.  The only other woman I wouldn't mind my hubby being enamored with is my DAUGHTER!  I've seen men who are considered a "man's man" and "tough guys" turn into puddy at the sound of their little one's voice saying, "Daddyyyyyy!"   ::)  OH!  (Happy tear) It's so beautiful!  ¡Aye, Dios! como estoy enamorado con los hombres que estan padres!  (God, how I love men who are fathers!)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 27, 2006, 10:31:15 AM
I wouldn't say that sex education should be taught in church. I would say that what needs to be taught in churches is how to love someone correctly (whether it be a another person or yourself).

Part of the problem with the whole sex issue is that no one is teaching how to appropriately love someone of the opposite sex (I didn't want there to be any confusion  ;D). If we properly teach how to love someone in the biblical way; the way God intended, then all this imaginary need for sexual gratification wouldn't be so rampant in and out of church.

But, what happened is that men & women got their Intro to Sexualization from the world, and now the church has to reclaim all of us (yes, I said us) who have been operating via the worlds paradigm on the issue of sex and relationships.


I'm done....for now.  ;)

Well said Jonathon.  I totally agree with teaching members how to properly love their spouse of the opposite sex and even themselves.  Sex ed does not need to come from the church. 
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: csedwards2 on February 27, 2006, 01:51:29 PM
Nah, we shouldn't have sex ed in church because you know someone would try to study the lessons on their own.

Better watch out for those one-on-one Bible Studys, too.

CSE2
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 27, 2006, 02:51:22 PM
Nah, we shouldn't have sex ed in church because you know someone would try to study the lessons on their own.

Better watch out for those one-on-one Bible Studys, too.

CSE2

lol, too funny, but u right though!  I witcha when u riggght! ::) LOL
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Nakia518 on February 27, 2006, 03:01:23 PM
Nah, we shouldn't have sex ed in church because you know someone would try to study the lessons on their own.

Better watch out for those one-on-one Bible Studys, too.

CSE2

He's talking to you Jonathan... hee ;D hee ;D hee ;D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: ShadowPhace on February 27, 2006, 03:22:41 PM
You could get a million answers to a simple question...so here's mines.

Just follow your heart, for if God is in your heart than you know what is right and wrong.  I know that you know what is appropriate to wear as a Christian women and what is not. Don't deceit your conscious, follow your heart.

I just want to ask you a simple question. Did you ask this question because you truly desire an answer? Or did you ask this question because you want to follow your own way, and you just need opinions of others to give you the courage that what you are doing or about to do is right? Don't be a fool to you conscious, in your heart you know what is right.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: sjonathan02 on February 27, 2006, 03:50:01 PM
Nah, we shouldn't have sex ed in church because you know someone would try to study the lessons on their own.

Better watch out for those one-on-one Bible Studys, too.

CSE2

He's talking to you Jonathan... hee ;D hee ;D hee ;D


ME?  :o  Nahhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!     ;D
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Willie L. Terry Jr on February 27, 2006, 04:45:30 PM
Jonathan nailed it on the head therefore I would like to retract my statement about teaching sex ed in the church.  Well not really...because when I was thinking sex ed, I was thinking of it the way I see it.  As an act of intamacy between a man a woman who have committed by word to love each other before God.  You ever wondered why the marriage is sealed by "I do" and you also seal you commitment to God with believing in your heart and confessing with you mouth.  God is watching our words.

It's kind of funny this topic because sexy can't be looks only because today more than ever, if you are missing something, you can go buy it.  No hair...get  a weave...No chest....see the doc....Don't like your eyes....get contacts....Need longer lashes....go buy some....Lips not full...inject'm with fat

Makes you wonder why in the world would you want to even pick up anything from the club or just go on looking period.  It's all an illusion anyway.  As my boy says "when she wakes up with sulfuric morning breath and singes the hairs in you nostrils,"  can you still love her.  What about after 40 lbs and three kids.  Though I have my own challenges staying in shape, I make sure if my wife is feeling bad about her looks, that I either get out on the road with her or take her to see a trainer (and pay for it).  Encourage her in efforts to lose, gain, move, push, pull, hide, tuck because it's about her feeling good about herself.  Man if she don't feel good about who she is and what she is then I ain't go be happy because it will be a dry season. ;)

Just having a little fun...fellas let's take care of our women.  Women, especially black women, you know you already have that gene so take care of your self.  I don't care what size you are.  Skinny has nothing to do with being in shape.  I know a lot of skinny people that have zero endurance and muscular strength.  Believe me, I'm a former Marine and when I was on active duty I could outrun most people that I out weighed by 50/60 pounds.


T.J.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 27, 2006, 05:58:43 PM
  :o This is what I call a HOT TOPIC!  ROTFLMBO!  It's like the Energizer Bunny...it keeps going and going and going! 

 ;D Hey, if the fellows want to discuss the respect of a lady who serves God, then I definitely encouarage it!  I hope that all viewers and contributors have learned something from someone through this thread!  I have personally learned a lot about the different views on this subject!   ;D

Keep up the good work and keep the nice comments comin! ::)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: tko05 on February 27, 2006, 09:36:22 PM
The Bible says that if any one causes one of the least of these to stumble its better that they tie a mill stone around their neck and be cast into the sea. So if the way you dress ( Im talking to both genders) causes people to sin then we need to change it. with that being said Iknow some men would lust over a woman in a potatoe sack and thats just wrong, but I would be very suspicious of a man that tells me that he dosent take a ocasional glance.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: bigblackdrummer on February 27, 2006, 10:49:36 PM
Isn't that adorable?  Not just the baby...it's that vision of FATHERHOOD...and of a father's adoration of his child.  Something he had a hand in creating and takes GREAT PRIDE in raising.  MinBrad is another one.   :)LOOK AT THE PICTURE!  That is sooooo cute to me!  I'm sorry, but I just think that's sexy.  Just my opinion. 

(Peach, don't be in a hurry...your time is coming!  LOL!)
My $1.02

Well ummmmm......cough, cough, who am I to argue with a woman with good taste. :)

I knew it was something about Pajarita I likedededed :)



Whoo I better put my last picture back up!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: bigblackdrummer on February 27, 2006, 11:03:07 PM
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I'm looking at it realistically and truthful! Something that some of you bigger bible Christians fail to do! Why do you think so many youth males fall, because of unreal teaching! Teach on the reality of human nature and how to over come them using Godly standards. Not spit out all your I`m high and mighty unable to obtain Christian babel ! Side note, We need to start teaching sex ed. in Sunday schools! Its better then a secular teacher teaching our kids it! You understand now!


I can't believe you are serious  ::)


Boy are some of ignorant and choose to stay that way!!!!!! What I said before stands true! I will say hormones are hormones and in alot of men hormones transcend God! Why do you think lots of Christians fall to it (mostly the musicians, I dont know why) And please! The dude who tried to quot scripture at me and tried to say I dont understand it. Revisit it, research the true meaning of it, understand it,then come talk to me... :-*
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: ABOVEALL on February 28, 2006, 12:34:06 AM
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I'm looking at it realistically and truthful! Something that some of you bigger bible Christians fail to do! Why do you think so many youth males fall, because of unreal teaching! Teach on the reality of human nature and how to over come them using Godly standards. Not spit out all your I`m high and mighty unable to obtain Christian babel ! Side note, We need to start teaching sex ed. in Sunday schools! Its better then a secular teacher teaching our kids it! You understand now!


I can't believe you are serious  ::)


Boy are some of ignorant and choose to stay that way!!!!!! What I said before stands true! I will say hormones are hormones and in alot of men hormones transcend God! Why do you think lots of Christians fall to it (mostly the musicians, I dont know why) And please! The dude who tried to quot scripture at me and tried to say I dont understand it. Revisit it, research the true meaning of it, understand it,then come talk to me... :-*

ND: GORSH
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: csedwards2 on February 28, 2006, 12:51:23 AM
I Beseech you therefore, bretheren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.
And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
- Romans 12:1-2

Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God. - 2Cor 7:1

This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh. - Galatians 5:16

.......And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. - Galatians 5:24

CSE2
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on February 28, 2006, 10:50:41 AM
I Beseech you therefore, bretheren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.
And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
- Romans 12:1-2

Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God. - 2Cor 7:1

This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh. - Galatians 5:16

.......And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. - Galatians 5:24

CSE2
When can't nothing else convince a brother all you have to give is scripture!   


csedwards2 gave it to us plainly bigblack! 

And I just have one major question for big black...why do u keep kissin folk?  LMBO?  I just don't understand!  LOL!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: chrissssssss on March 08, 2006, 01:00:27 PM
EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN DEFINITION OF SEXY. THOUGH ITS TRUE YOU CAN GATHER KNOWLEGE ABOUT THE PERSON  BY WHAT THEIR WEARING, YOU CAN'T DECIPHER WHO THEY ARE BY WHAT THEY WEAR.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: dingster1 on March 08, 2006, 01:21:30 PM
1Peter3:3-4: Whose adoing the hair,and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel, but let it be the hidden man of the heart. in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Willie L. Terry Jr on March 08, 2006, 05:55:05 PM
Black...I'm willing to continue discussion on the p.m.  If you want to talk hit me up!

T.J.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: BBoy on March 08, 2006, 06:27:28 PM
Can I throw in 2 cents?

First of all, the teaching of sex, etc to young people is not the responsibility of the church. It is the responsibility of the parents.

That is why there are men's and women's ministries. Men teach men, women teach women. Anything else is usually a recipie for disaster.

Look at what the Bible says. "Let the older women teach the younger women how to love their husbands." Paul was telling Timothy not to think he can climb into the ring with the younger women . . . . Paul said let the older women handle it.

Second, if it were not possible to kill the flesh . . . that means hormones, too . . . then the Bible would not have commanded us to do it. Just people there are plenty of people who choose not to do it doesn't mean that it can't be done.

Third, the Bible says if a person cannot contain, then they should marry. We need to see the vicious circle many people are traveling in . . . they don't obey GOD, so they are less likely to marry. They do unwise and carnal things, which makes other saints pass them by. So they say there is no one to marry. However, the desire for union is still there, but there are fewer and fewer people who are ready to marry. So people sin. Which makes them less likely to marry until they are purged and clean. But they don't want to be purged and clean, so they sin. Why? Because they aren't married. But they aren't married because there still needs to be a purging from the sin. So they sin. Which makes marriage even further off . . .

We need to call a stop to this Shut it down.

Be Blessed, everyone
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Divinecalling1 on March 09, 2006, 12:37:40 AM
I tried to read everything so here's my thought.

Yes woman can be both sexy and Godly...(I'm using the word sexy/attracting interchangebly) a woman can be attracting for as many a varied reason as there are men to be attracted to her.  You can be attracted to a woman/man and it can have nothing to do with what they are wearing or what position you are in married/single or waiting. (Yes realistically you can be attracted to someone else and be married BUT the difference is you don't act On these thoughts.)

That's why it's important to continue to fast and pray because this is how you learn to bind your flesh and not act on the thoughts you have.  God is a spirit but your body/ mind/eye and ear gate are flesh and until you have learned to battle/ control and deny your flesh keeping it under subjection, you can be blindsided by your attraction to someone else.

There are many sexy christian women in the world....our sexiness often has more to do who we are and what others find sexy in us (for the real women of God)!!! There is just something incredibly attracting about a beautiful, powerful, annoited woman of God.  And yes some people find it sexy...
Just ask the Pastor...well he is sleeping right now...but :)
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: csedwards2 on March 09, 2006, 01:13:56 AM
I see you tried to slip that it on the sly


There are many sexy christian women in the world....our sexiness often has more to do who we are and what others find sexy in us (for the real women of God)!!!

Nobody was talking about how you might look :o
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: Divinecalling1 on March 09, 2006, 08:13:27 AM
Perhaps you were not speaking about how a person looks Mr Cseward But much of the conversation on this subject has been about what you wear, how you look in what your wear and how people respond to that.  But how you look can also be a large part of your apeal.  Albertina Walker is not as appealing to some as Holly Berry even if Holly is wearing her Nuns Outfit.


Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: soldieranointed on March 12, 2006, 09:35:19 PM
Can I throw in 2 cents?

First of all, the teaching of sex, etc to young people is not the responsibility of the church. It is the responsibility of the parents.

That is why there are men's and women's ministries. Men teach men, women teach women. Anything else is usually a recipie for disaster.

Look at what the Bible says. "Let the older women teach the younger women how to love their husbands." Paul was telling Timothy not to think he can climb into the ring with the younger women . . . . Paul said let the older women handle it.

Second, if it were not possible to kill the flesh . . . that means hormones, too . . . then the Bible would not have commanded us to do it. Just people there are plenty of people who choose not to do it doesn't mean that it can't be done.

Third, the Bible says if a person cannot contain, then they should marry. We need to see the vicious circle many people are traveling in . . . they don't obey GOD, so they are less likely to marry. They do unwise and carnal things, which makes other saints pass them by. So they say there is no one to marry. However, the desire for union is still there, but there are fewer and fewer people who are ready to marry. So people sin. Which makes them less likely to marry until they are purged and clean. But they don't want to be purged and clean, so they sin. Why? Because they aren't married. But they aren't married because there still needs to be a purging from the sin. So they sin. Which makes marriage even further off . . .

We need to call a stop to this Shut it down.

Be Blessed, everyone



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Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: clcmusicchic on March 12, 2006, 11:40:09 PM
In my opinion I think that sex should be taught the right way in church, if being taught. I mean, why God designed it because he did design it for a purpose. People abuse this alot. If the parents are abusing it, I mean like having an affair, then how are they going to teach the children. We need good Godly men and women to look up to, to help us with our Christian walk. For example, my father committed suicuide, so how would I know how a man really thinks or acts without being taught about it. If I had not have gone to church and learned some of these things, I still probably wouldn't know.
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: myvoysizmyjoy on April 20, 2006, 12:26:01 AM
well i think what 4His Glory is tlkain about is outside of the church as well.. not that women are livving double lives but like i heard a story true story that one fo the young men in the church were walkin in the mall and saw this woman walkin in front of him she had the walk and not only that she was wearing these white pants with a thong of course and he stepped up to her and when she truned around it was one of the ministering staff from the church Evangalist so and so... now she's in the mall walkin just chillin... i happen to know a  couple of women who are absolutely gorgeous God made them that way and i have to catch myself sometimes cause i might get cought staring.. not in any way but they are just beautiful...


Now God knew what He was doing when he made Woman.. he made Woman so that man would be attracted to her...i mean like others daid there is nothing wrong in admiring or achknowledge that a woman looks good but i do agree with others that it is up to us men to keep our thoughts under subjection even if it is out there... case in point.. my girlfriend b4 we started dating was atrracted to me i was attracted to her as well i just didn't put the move out just yet.. one day she came to my office and we were tlkain and i happend to see her panty showin now i politely said "if you don't someone goin after your candy you might not want the wrapper to show.." i made a joke about it and she was a lil embarassed i don't knwo if she did it on purpose or not but that's wasn't what i was concerend about the point is that it  could've easily gone another way..i just chose not to b/c that's npt the type of person i am..
That is just interesting i wonder wat other way that could have gone but i totally respect that!!!!
Title: Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
Post by: melodic on April 20, 2006, 12:54:21 AM
I have enjoyed reading the post. I trully feel that sexiness reflects your attitude and self esteem.  I can tesify that when a woman has self esteem issues, she tends to dress to be unnoticed.  Sometimes this can mean wearing baggy clothes or wearing plain hair stlyes and etc.  Now, when I got myself together, gathered confidence, and began to love myself, I did a complete makeover.  No more baggy clothes and sports apparrel.  Im in heels, dress suits, skirts, and gochos "however ya spell them".  I wear my jewlry and earings. I also make sure my hair and skin is ALWAYS together.  I even make sure I smell great with fragrances amd lotions.  There is nothing wrong with celebrating your beauty.  So yes, I am grown and sexy because after all I have been through, It's time to celebrate!