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Title: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: 4hisglory on July 10, 2006, 09:06:16 AM
Here is the topic of the week.  Remember this is a "serious" discussion.  Any sarcastic comments will be deleted.



Recently, two people I know fell on hard times.  They were dedicated that attended Church and Bible Study and they also paid there tithes.

Both of them went to there churches for help and both were told by there home church that the church couldn't help them out.

My question is:  Should today's church help out there members in financial need??
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: Val215 on July 10, 2006, 09:20:28 AM
Wow, this is a good question. At our church, we do help those who are in financial need. With that said, we don't just hand out money. There is a verification process to go through. We have had several people come to the church asking for help with light bills, rent, food and college. We are a small church so we do what we can to assist those in need. All financial transactions are done by check. The check is not made out directly to the person who is asking, it goes directly to the company they have to pay. Sometimes we don't pay all of it, but we do help with at least half of it.

As far as money for college, we do have a scholarship fund in place. They have to be a member of our church to receive it and they have to fill out an application form for it. It's only disbursed twice a year. This past Sunday, we took up a love offering for a family whose house burned down. As far as food, we have a food bank for that. We have can goods stocked up and as far as other things like meat, milk, eggs...etc, the person who is over the food bank gets a check from the treasurer to buy the extra food.

In some cases, we have had the same people ask for help over and over again...but the line had to be drawn somewhere ;)
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: bishopcole on July 10, 2006, 09:49:42 AM
Wow, this is a good question. At our church, we do help those who are in financial need. With that said, we don't just hand out money. There is a verification process to go through. We have had several people come to the church asking for help with light bills, rent, food and college. We are a small church so we do what we can to assist those in need. All financial transactions are done by check. The check is not made out directly to the person who is asking, it goes directly to the company they have to pay. Sometimes we don't pay all of it, but we do help with at least half of it.

As far as money for college, we do have a scholarship fund in place. They have to be a member of our church to receive it and they have to fill out an application form for it. It's only disbursed twice a year. This past Sunday, we took up a love offering for a family whose house burned down. As far as food, we have a food bank for that. We have can goods stocked up and as far as other things like meat, milk, eggs...etc, the person who is over the food bank gets a check from the treasurer to buy the extra food.

In some cases, we have had the same people ask for help over and over again...but the line had to be drawn somewhere ;)



Val, this is same process that my church takes as well. I strongly believe that it is our job as the church to make sure that we take care of our brothers and sisters that have fallen on bad times that are in good standings or status with their respectable church.  Bishop Cole 
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: sjonathan02 on July 10, 2006, 09:57:22 AM
Wow, this is a good question. At our church, we do help those who are in financial need. With that said, we don't just hand out money. There is a verification process to go through. We have had several people come to the church asking for help with light bills, rent, food and college. We are a small church so we do what we can to assist those in need. All financial transactions are done by check. The check is not made out directly to the person who is asking, it goes directly to the company they have to pay. Sometimes we don't pay all of it, but we do help with at least half of it.

As far as money for college, we do have a scholarship fund in place. They have to be a member of our church to receive it and they have to fill out an application form for it. It's only disbursed twice a year. This past Sunday, we took up a love offering for a family whose house burned down. As far as food, we have a food bank for that. We have can goods stocked up and as far as other things like meat, milk, eggs...etc, the person who is over the food bank gets a check from the treasurer to buy the extra food.

In some cases, we have had the same people ask for help over and over again...but the line had to be drawn somewhere ;)



The process is the same at my church. And, to answer the question, yes we (as the church) should help our brothers and sisters in Christ whenever we have the resources to do so.


Proverbs 3:27, 28

27Do not withhold good from those who deserve it, when it is in your power to act.

28Do not say to your neighbor, "Come back later; I'll give it tomorrow" when you now have it with you.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: Dredakyst on July 10, 2006, 09:58:49 AM
I'm with Val.. it is our responsiblity to help others... and i believe that churches should be the staple of the community...but times have changes...

I believe most churches can't help those in need because they live beyond their means... trying to keep up with da joneses...




Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: vtguy84 on July 10, 2006, 10:01:16 AM
This is a very good question.  At my church, in order to be looked upon for financial assitance at my church, you must do the following:

* Be a tither with records of showing on the books
* Have completed the financial budgeting class
* Make a copy of the planned budget, your actual budget, and any extenuating circumstances

You must have all of that in order to be a candidate.  Then you are passed on to the trustee board where they make the final decision.  I don't think this is a rigorous method due to the fact that tithing is constantly preached in service as well as your new members class and they offer the budgeting seminar several times a month.  If you are really on hard times, you will do you part...so that it doesn't look like a free handout
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: 4hisglory on July 10, 2006, 11:23:39 AM
I believe most churches can't help those in need because they live beyond their means... trying to keep up with da joneses...

I also agree with this.......
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: nessalynn77 on July 10, 2006, 12:36:51 PM
Yes, I think the church should help.  I know my church has been there for me on a couple of occasions.  But there are a few occasions when I know the church was not able to help, for a lot of different reasons.

For instance, if the same person is having very expensive needs for assistance continuously, and the church is not very big, the church is limited as to how many times they can help that one person. 
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: churchyreal on July 10, 2006, 12:48:57 PM
Y'all hit me with the perfect question. This is what I have been talking about for the last 2 years. I believe that it is the responsibility of the church to help those who have fallen into difficult times, especially the saints. That's what the early church was about. The early church was about helping those who had fallen into hard times. Now for the reasons of the 21st century and the increase of cons, going through a verification system is ok. I have been studying lately on the early church and how it was the church that made a difference. In Chapter 4 of Acts, we find a place where the saints shared with one another. I believe that God has called the church to make a difference in people's lives.

This to me is one area of the modern church that is failing and continues to fail, helping those who fall into difficult times. The attitude of the church should be, "Jesus shared with me in my time of struggle, why can't I share with my brother or sister in their time of struggle." Remember what the book of Matthew, Chapter 25 says, that the least you do to one of the children of God, you have also done for Jesus. I believe that this is one area of the church that needs great improvement in the 21st century.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: ReddGirl on July 10, 2006, 12:52:28 PM
This is a very sensitive issue for me. Being a CPA and at one time being approached by a church to work for them full time, I was apalled at how badly some church finances are handled. I strongly believe the church MUST help their members and budget the finances to include such help. I think a lot of churches spend the majority of their budgets on Salaries, and Building expenses. It would be so much wiser to have a smaller facility that could help people than a  larger one that can't.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: vtguy84 on July 10, 2006, 12:54:26 PM
This is a very sensitive issue for me. Being a CPA and at one time being approached by a church to work for them full time, I was apalled at how badly some church finances are handled. I strongly believe the church MUST help their members and budget the finances to include such help. I think a lot of churches spend the majority of their budgets on Salaries, and Building expenses. It would be so much wiser to have a smaller facility that could help people than a  larger one that can't.

That's very interesting that you are a CPA because our executive administrator (1st Lady) is a CPA who decided that the children of God needed to be taught correctly how to budget, which is why the stipulations at our church are so strong when it comes to asking for money
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: sjonathan02 on July 10, 2006, 12:59:57 PM
That's very interesting that you are a CPA because our executive administrator (1st Lady) is a CPA who decided that the children of God needed to be taught correctly how to budget, which is why the stipulations at our church are so strong when it comes to asking for money



I can understand where your First Lady is coming from; at the same time, I don't see how some folks, in dire financial straits, could provide your church with a budget plan. If they had one, then they wouldn't necessarily be in dire financial straits, would they?



Just a thought.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: vtguy84 on July 10, 2006, 01:08:25 PM


I can understand where your First Lady is coming from; at the same time, I don't see how some folks, in dire financial straits, could provide your church with a budget plan. If they had one, then they wouldn't necessarily be in dire financial straits, would they?



Just a thought.

The class that is taught on budgeting is a 2 hour class where people sit down and write out a budget (this is one of the classes you must complete in order to be in leadership and encouraged if you are a new member).  When you ask for the money, you must provide that budget that you made and then show what happened to where you have fallen short.  Hope that's clarification
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: preachaman16 on July 10, 2006, 01:14:06 PM
At our church, we have a benevolence account (i think thats how u spell it) where we have a substantial amount of money.



In order to be eligible, i believe, u have to have ur financial records, be a tither, and of course have a valid reason as to why u need the assistance.

Our church is able to have a large facility, pay salaries, and help the congregation out! I believe that is nothing but God.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: lumbebear1 on July 10, 2006, 01:15:40 PM
I believe the church should help anyone in need, not just the members. My old church refused to help anyone that wasnt a member, if they decided to help a member it had to go to the Deacons, then to COnference to get approval and then only a small amount was given.

I realize there should be guidleines as to helping people, when they are continously come for the church to bail them out, I agree with Vt's chruch, teach them budgeting and financial responsiblity. Its the lack of teaching financial responsibility that gets church/non church folk in trouble.

We normally will take up an offering when there is a request for a need, the individual asking (remains annon) recieves the total offering in the form of a check, I have yet to see the offering under $500.00 dollars, and we also are a small congregation. (100)

If an individual cant come to the church......................then where are they to go



Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: churchyreal on July 10, 2006, 01:20:26 PM


If an individual cant come to the church......................then where are they to go





Where can they go? Somebody tell me
.[/b]
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: preachaman16 on July 10, 2006, 01:22:47 PM
I believe the church should help anyone in need, not just the members. My old church refused to help anyone that wasnt a member, if they decided to help a member it had to go to the Deacons, then to COnference to get approval and then only a small amount was given.

I realize there should be guidleines as to helping people, when they are continously come for the church to bail them out, I agree with Vt's chruch, teach them budgeting and financial responsiblity. Its the lack of teaching financial responsibility that gets church/non church folk in trouble.

We normally will take up an offering when there is a request for a need, the individual asking (remains annon) recieves the total offering in the form of a check, I have yet to see the offering under $500.00 dollars, and we also are a small congregation. (100)

If an individual cant come to the church......................then where are they to go


I believe  that if someone comes from the outside they can get help BUT i believe they should b taught the basic fundamentals of giving and recieving (i.e. tithing) so they will be able to go on there own. No sense in helping a unbeliever without at least attempting to bring them into the kingdom and give them kingdom principles..
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: lumbebear1 on July 10, 2006, 01:27:08 PM
I believe  that if someone comes from the outside they can get help BUT i believe they should b taught the basic fundamentals of giving and recieving (i.e. tithing) so they will be able to go on there own. No sense in helping a unbeliever without at least attempting to bring them into the kingdom and give them kingdom principles..

How are we to teach them Kingdom principles (tithing) if we cant shoe enough love to help them when they are in need.

Love is the basic principle...............if we fail to show that as a church, we can forget about bringing them into the kingdom much less teaching them about tithing
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: Val215 on July 10, 2006, 01:36:01 PM
How are we to teach them Kingdom principles (tithing) if we cant shoe enough love to help them when they are in need.

Love is the basic principle...............if we fail to show that as a church, we can forget about bringing them into the kingdom much less teaching them about tithing


You're right Bear. We generally help anybody who comes to us member/non-member. Believer/non-believer. The only stipulation we have on the membership is for the college scholarship fund.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: B_XALTED on July 10, 2006, 02:00:23 PM
I will apply this directly to a situation that i was in a few years back.

About four years ago, when I lived in California, I had lost my job of two years over not showing up for work to be baptized. I had asked my manager, whom raved on being an associate minister in his church, if I could have that day off, and he told me NO... But I went to church and got baptized anyway. I figured that God blessed me with the job, and He would be satisfied with me calling in sick in wanting to be baptized rather than calling in from a hangover....

Anyway, I went to my church, and the church did not help me. I had people telling me that I needed to go on unemployment, people telling me that KFC was hiring, people saying, oh, I will pray for you... I couldn't believe it. Especially since the Sunday after I was baptized, I broke down in church something horrible, and the entire congregation was made aware of my situation.

Do I think the church should help, yes. But I do believe that there are some stipulations that should follow. No I was not living above my means, no I was not like the prodical son.. I was plain old Leslie, living a simple life, but I lost my job...

Carnally, I could have said, I lost my job because of the church, and now they have the nerve to NOT HELP ME?!?!?! But instead, since I saw that my church would not help, I prayed and went on with my life. I listened to people who told me, to work at KFC, but $7.50 an hour wasn't going to pay my $1500 a month rent. I went on unemployment, but, $780 a month still didn't cut it...

But four years later, I will tell you this... I didn't miss not one meal, my car got repossessed, but I got everywhere I needed to go, and then some, My lights stayed on, I didn't lose my apartment, I didn't lose my mind... Jesus provided for me. I even moved to Virginia, where I am doing better than ever. The question here is whether the church should help... what does that mean exactly??? What I was looking for was money, but instead, God gave me help from other people spiritually and mentally. It wasn't until I was at rock bottom when I did what I had to do to survive...I believe now that God put those people there in my path so He could speak to me through them... And when my hands were tied, I thought about their words, and realized that unemployment, the part time job and prayers got me through.

Stipulations.... Thats a $50 word for a $10 problem... I think that a person in need should be given the help he/she/ they need(s). If the church has the means to help it's MEMBERS, then why would they let a person live hungry and in the dark? in my church, my pastor will take up a collection in a minute for a person to get a bill taken care of. We are not the final judges, God is. So if it's a lie, or fake request, God will take care of that QUICK.

I know that we are to demonstrate stewardship, and take care of the things in the church, but if you know a persons habits, and they are living above their means, then they should be counseled. They need to be taught a FINANCIAL lesson, and make it known to that type of person that you can't stroll up in herr and ask for money everytime you need it. And for the person who is just having rough times, money isn't always the answer, as I just learned... I learned that a lot of people in the church either have a real good job, or know soeone who can help you get a job to help you out. That could be an answer to an issue as well...

Just my opinion...
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: nessalynn77 on July 10, 2006, 02:05:48 PM
You make some very good points, B.  I think most churches will help, the extent of the help they can provide is a different story. 
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: B_XALTED on July 10, 2006, 02:11:37 PM
You make some very good points, B.  I think most churches will help, the extent of the help they can provide is a different story. 

X_ACTLY... lol... I think that a lot of smaller churches here in the country would love to help their members more, but they just cant afford it. I always try to help fols out at church where I can... That's why there are so many of us working for Circuit City...lol... But on a serious note, that ends up being a touchy topic for most. I like VT's church's policy... But I can say my church for one doesn't offer those programs. I wish they did though. We have soooo many struggling drug abusers.. One thing will do with the drinkers and druggers, we will PAY the bill rather than handing them a check.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: Wayne Webb on July 10, 2006, 02:25:57 PM
Here is the topic of the week.  Remember this is a "serious" discussion.  Any sarcastic comments will be deleted.



Recently, two people I know fell on hard times.  They were dedicated that attended Church and Bible Study and they also paid there tithes.

Both of them went to there churches for help and both were told by there home church that the church couldn't help them out.

My question is:  Should today's church help out there members in financial need??

I would not go to a church like that.
Yes, absolutely, churches should help members in financial need.

1 JOHN 3:14-18
We know that we have passed from death unto life, because we love the brethren. He that loveth not his brother abideth in death.
Whosoever hateth his brother is a murderer: and ye know that no murderer hath eternal life abiding in him.
Hereby perceive we the love of God, because he laid down his life for us: and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.
But whoso hath this world's good, and seeth his brother have need, and shutteth up his bowels of compassion from him, how dwelleth the love of God in him? My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.

We usually take up an offering.


Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: gtrdave on July 10, 2006, 03:24:34 PM
I know both my past church and my current church have an assistance program set up for folks in the church who are having a rough go at life.
Also the people in the church would give as they could to help out above and beyond the church program.

I could see that some churches maybe can't help out due to their own financial situation and maybe other churches just don't want to help out for whatever reason.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: preachaman16 on July 10, 2006, 03:26:17 PM
How are we to teach them Kingdom principles (tithing) if we cant shoe enough love to help them when they are in need.

Love is the basic principle...............if we fail to show that as a church, we can forget about bringing them into the kingdom much less teaching them about tithing


i said we should help them and teach them and brng them into the kingdom
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: keptbyJesus on July 10, 2006, 03:58:44 PM
Ok, as for my church, we help members and non-members.  There is a special form, that is approved by pastor, chairman of deacon board, and chairman of the trustee board, and there is a certian amount for members and a certain about for non-members, (both pretty generous I must say) that we will pay, we request the bill, will pay it in full not give money or check to person, and to limit to abusers, you can only request assistance once maybe twice within one year of the last assistance request.  We too have a scholarship fund in place which pays for books, and we have a food bank and give a way food twice a month, and to people who request it. 
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: catty on July 10, 2006, 09:44:34 PM
I agree on the most part that the church should be able to help those in need with stipulations,  because there are some who will try to take advantage.  Our church takes up a collection for the needy NOT THE GREEDY!!! 
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: baggettcindy on July 10, 2006, 10:39:20 PM
I think depending on the size/finances of the church...they should help.  Of course I would include the stipulations mentioned by previous posters.  There is a church, if I am not mistaken, located in Chicago, that gives classes concerning debt and finances.  They pay ALL the debts of a church member...I can't remember is often this is done.  This is something we lack in OUR churches....lessons on investing, finances, etc.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: Vangelist on July 11, 2006, 12:42:38 AM
I believe the church should help anyone, but use wisdom when doing so. If the person is a member then tithing should be at the top of the list along with their lifestyle. By lifestyle I mean don't come to the church asking for help with bills when you just got a raise and a bonus at you job that already pays good money while driving a brand new 2006 Lexus with you perfectly good 2005 Honda in your drive- way. 

Now if a non-member (unsaved) comes to the church, you can't expect them to follow by those same rules because they probably don't know. The church still has an obligation to help them. This is also a great opportunity to help them spiritually too. It does no good if the flesh is healthy and taken care of, but the spirit is sick and dying.

Lastly, I don't agree with the way my church handles these situations. We have a benevolence fund. If a member who is faithful, pays tithes, and is considerate with offerings recieves help from this fund, they are required to pay back the money. I don't understand it. I really hope there is a legitimate reason for this. What do you think? --PEACE--
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: 4hisglory on July 11, 2006, 03:46:12 AM
Lastly, I don't agree with the way my church handles these situations. We have a benevolence fund. If a member who is faithful, pays tithes, and is considerate with offerings recieves help from this fund, they are required to pay back the money. I don't understand it. I really hope there is a legitimate reason for this. What do you think? --PEACE--

 Wow...I NEVER heard of this one before.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: princeoftheb3 on July 11, 2006, 04:02:45 AM
These are our help ministries, for both members and non-members we have a food pantry and a clothing ministry, we rarely hand out money because there is a high number of people on the streets in that neighborhood that we are trying to get down, but we will if its a member and we know they'll be legite with it, we also have an annual block party on good friday, everything is free the food the rides everything, you register for we can send you a a letter and it really works to bring people in, we also have a back to school program where we, the members of the church, go out buy backpacks and all other kinds of supplies, give it to the church, they stuff the backpacks, then on the Sunday before school starts, we have a service and when I say it be full it be full, oh they also give free haircuts and braids and food, the stipulation is, you have to come to service before the Pastor gets up, and fill out the card so we'll know how many you need and all that kind of stuff.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: lumbebear1 on July 11, 2006, 02:09:07 PM
Lastly, I don't agree with the way my church handles these situations. We have a benevolence fund. If a member who is faithful, pays tithes, and is considerate with offerings recieves help from this fund, they are required to pay back the money. I don't understand it. I really hope there is a legitimate reason for this. What do you think? --PEACE--

We have a benovelence fund also. We have a seperate offering for that fund. During the Major holidays (Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter) we provide Food Baskets (enough groceryto last for at least 7 days plus Turkeys/Hams) to Low/No Income families in the community. During Christmas we have an Angel Tree we get our list from the Local Shelters and provide food, clothing and toys to entire familes. We have a group of volunteers that deliver the food baskets and Christmas gifts directly to the familes (these are usually non members)

I believe there are times we need to meet the social, economic and financial needs of others, I also believe that once we have met some of those basic needs they are more receptive to receive the Good News of the Gospel. Its hard to convince an individual that Jesus loves them and He will supply there need when they are broke, homeless, and hungry.




Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: jonesl78 on July 11, 2006, 08:41:34 PM
That's very interesting that you are a CPA because our executive administrator (1st Lady) is a CPA who decided that the children of God needed to be taught correctly how to budget, which is why the stipulations at our church are so strong when it comes to asking for money

 “Give a man a fish; you have fed him for today. Teach a man to fish; and you have fed him for a lifetime”—Author unknown

The church should assist those in need but it should also educate its saints

Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: temejo1 on July 11, 2006, 11:00:06 PM
Yes, I believe churches should help, if they are in a position to.  My church helps out both members and non-members.  And, like mostly everyone else's church, we have a verification process.  I do believe requiring the receiving person to complete a budgeting class of some sort is a great idea.  I will have to pass that idea along.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: cherryebess on July 12, 2006, 01:35:23 AM
My church ALWAYS helps i's members with whatever.  Rent, Lights, Transportation, scholarship, whatever.  But You must be a member in need.  Other members verify and all members who can help.  We have no problem with that.  You never know when your tiem will come.  Fortunately, and unseemingly, not many people ask for help from our church.  Everybody pretends to be all that rich! 
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: saxandkeys on July 12, 2006, 09:06:44 AM
HMMMM...If these people were to address their brothers and sisters in the church individually, I would think they would receive some help.  That being said, why is getting help coporately any different.

It is my opinion that tithing is a personal responsibility, and should be audited only by God.  Should we only show love and charity only to those who tithe?  Maybe it's just me but I don't want to start thinking FOR God....I would rather try to think like God, and let Him handle the audits.

just an opinion.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: 4hisglory on July 13, 2006, 02:50:59 AM
Nice points SaxandKeys.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: saxandkeys on July 13, 2006, 07:23:47 AM
Nice points SaxandKeys.

Thanks 4his....on an off topic sidenote on tithing, I ran into some musicians in N. Va. who said that their church automatically takes a tithe out of their perfomance pay????
Whatcha think about that?
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: Divinecalling1 on July 13, 2006, 08:55:07 AM
I think churches should help any who might need help if they are able...however I also think anything borrowed should be payed back by as many as are able.  Payback could be at a moderate rate but if possible it should be paid back to keep the lending pot (benevolent fund) replenished for others.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: praizeHim on July 13, 2006, 09:21:31 AM
Thanks 4his....on an off topic sidenote on tithing, I ran into some musicians in N. Va. who said that their church automatically takes a tithe out of their perfomance pay????
Whatcha think about that?

Tithes are given.... not taken
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: nessalynn77 on July 13, 2006, 06:36:16 PM
HMMMM...If these people were to address their brothers and sisters in the church individually, I would think they would receive some help.  That being said, why is getting help coporately any different.

It is my opinion that tithing is a personal responsibility, and should be audited only by God.  Should we only show love and charity only to those who tithe?  Maybe it's just me but I don't want to start thinking FOR God....I would rather try to think like God, and let Him handle the audits.

just an opinion.
I hear what you're saying, but there are people who struggle but still do everything they can to support the church, and then on the other hand there are those who only take and never give, shouldn't the one who gives be entitled to help when they get in a jam?  The other person who doesn't give should be helped as well, but I think some consideration should be given to those who sacrifice so the ministry can be supported and literally keep the church doors open... when they fall on hard times, the church should run to their rescue. 

Sometimes we're all about outreach, but there are those in our own house who go lacking while put all of our time and focus on bringing those that are outside in.  There's a scripture that talks about a man failing to take care of his own house being worse than an infidel.  I would say that a church that fails to help their own members who support the ministry year in and year out, who sacrifice to see the work go on.... well it's an indictment against that church family if they don't feel just as much or more obligation to help that person that is right in their midst.
Title: Re: Should Churches Help??? Topic of the Week 07-09-2006
Post by: 4hisglory on July 14, 2006, 06:33:36 AM
Nicely said nessalyn