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Title: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: Rachaud on April 07, 2010, 11:17:44 AM
Now I know we have had different threads talking about women preaching or whatever. I have no problem with that, But last night Me and my mom visited a church and one lady was up preaching and when she was done. The speaker announced the pastor of the church. She said please give a hand clap of praise for Bishop so and so. And she was a woman, And me I was like  ?/?. It was my first time hearing a woman holding that title. Like I said earlier I have no problem with a woman preaching. But this didn't sit right with my spirit!! Is that even scripture? What do you guys think?
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Post by: B3Wannabe on April 07, 2010, 11:30:10 AM
We've actually talked about this one before too.

Anyway, I'm with you.
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Post by: MissRiss on April 07, 2010, 12:34:23 PM
We have women bishops in the methodist church.
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Post by: under13 on April 07, 2010, 12:37:53 PM
There is a female Baptist Bishop in NY. :-\
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Post by: JustBritt on April 07, 2010, 12:42:21 PM
My grandmother is a Bishop. *Shurg*  :-\
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Post by: JustBritt on April 07, 2010, 12:42:50 PM
My grandmother is a Bishop. *Shurg*  :-\
*Shrug
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Post by: Fenix on April 07, 2010, 12:45:29 PM
Yeah, Britt, I was gonna ask how in the world you "shurg".

:D
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Post by: jcc4t on April 07, 2010, 08:34:10 PM
Did you forget about Bishop Dr. Iona Locke?
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Post by: joshuag on April 09, 2010, 12:54:12 PM
Son you have to get out more....  ;D ;D ;D
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Post by: funkStrat_97 on April 09, 2010, 01:19:35 PM
Have you heard of women elders?  Same difference.
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Post by: SisterT on April 09, 2010, 01:55:25 PM
Son you have to get out more....  ;D ;D ;D

That's what I was thinking. LOL!
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Post by: nessalynn77 on April 09, 2010, 02:27:12 PM
Shoot, I'm Bishop Vangela!  As soon as I finish making my payments to TitlesandAnointings.com, LOL!!!

Naw, the female bishop thing doesn't work for me, but I mind my business and let the people that hold those titles deal with God and their congregations.
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Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 09, 2010, 02:30:59 PM
Shoot, I'm Bishop Vangela!  As soon as I finish making my payments to TitlesandAnointings.com, LOL!!!

Naw, the female bishop thing doesn't work for me, but I mind my business and let the people that hold those titles deal with God and their congregations.

Ditto.

And for the record, I'm not crazy about female apostles either... or pastors. But I don't judge them and I'll receive their ministry as quickly as I would if they didn't have the title. It's just not my thing...

And don't get me started on bishops and apostles (female OR male) who don't pastor churches. I will NEVER understand that one.  ?/?
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Post by: 3rd-Day on April 09, 2010, 02:35:26 PM
I say to each his own. There are a heap of things going on in the body of Christ that dont look or seem right or whatever. This is just one more thing to pray about.

*Readies SMG Card*

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Post by: nessalynn77 on April 09, 2010, 02:36:46 PM
There you are... I need to borrow that card...
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Post by: SirTJ on April 09, 2010, 02:39:35 PM
I've learned that folks are gonna do whatever they want to do anyway...the bold ones will even try to use the Bible to justify it...so I don't even give such things a second glance. It's like fighting against the wind.
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Post by: nessalynn77 on April 09, 2010, 02:50:58 PM
On another note, what is a "hand clap of praise" or worse yet, a "hand of praise"?  LOL!
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Post by: churchyreal on April 09, 2010, 02:53:41 PM
Me neither LaRue and TJ you are correct sir.
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Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 09, 2010, 02:57:48 PM
On another note, what is a "hand clap of praise" or worse yet, a "hand of praise"?  LOL!

Yeah, I don't mind giving GOD a hand clap of praise, but I hate when they try to force me to give Sis. So-and-So a hand clap of praise.  ::) :D
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Post by: under13 on April 09, 2010, 02:59:10 PM
[quote author=nessalynn77 link=topic=73420.msg774695#msg774695 date=

Naw, the female bishop thing doesn't work for me, but I mind my business and let the people that hold those titles deal with God and their congregations.
[/quote]

Me too. I wouldnt be under a female bishop, but I'm not too concerned with what others are doing....
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Post by: Hasmonean1 on April 09, 2010, 03:00:31 PM
I just have one question.  When are we gonna get the first Christian or Black Pope?  ;D ;D ;D     Who's gonna be the first one bold enough to obtain that title?  Back in the day in B'ham we had a DJ on the radio station name The Black Pope but that don't count.  
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Post by: SisterT on April 09, 2010, 03:52:46 PM
On another note, what is a "hand clap of praise" or worse yet, a "hand of praise"?  LOL!


Ooooooo, I'm gonna tell Big Daddy!
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Post by: BigFoot_BigThumb on April 09, 2010, 04:34:04 PM
I just have one question.  When are we gonna get the first Christian or Black Pope?  ;D ;D ;D     Who's gonna be the first one bold enough to obtain that title?  Back in the day in B'ham we had a DJ on the radio station name The Black Pope but that don't count.  


We've got a Black rabbi, and it's a female.  Seems that the masses weren't too quick to praise her.
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Post by: nessalynn77 on April 09, 2010, 04:35:07 PM

Ooooooo, I'm gonna tell Big Daddy!
Uh, oh.  :-(
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Post by: sjonathan02 on April 09, 2010, 07:30:43 PM
Shoot, I'm Bishop Vangela!  As soon as I finish making my payments to TitlesandAnointings.com, LOL!!!


PPPPPWWWWAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! :D :D :D :D :D
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Post by: DirectingOrganist on April 09, 2010, 07:40:45 PM
I'm like TJ I don't agree with a lot of stuff people is doing but I don't concern myself with it, cause I have actually seen an organization that had a female presiding bishop. I didnt understand it but hey, she aint my pastor/bishop so why should I care.

And I know quite a few bishops and apostles that USED to pastor churches but have retired cause they was old and knew it wasnt going to be too long before they said goodbye to the saints, so instead of leaving their congregations and jurisdictions in a mess when they died, they retired and appointed somebody to take their places. Unless we talking about bishops and apostles that are too young to be retiring and they dont pastor churches.
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Post by: Rachaud on April 09, 2010, 08:29:26 PM
Shoot, I'm Bishop Vangela!  As soon as I finish making my payments to TitlesandAnointings.com, LOL!!!

Naw, the female bishop thing doesn't work for me, but I mind my business and let the people that hold those titles deal with God and their congregations.

LOL!!!!  :D
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Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 09, 2010, 09:00:15 PM
I'm like TJ I don't agree with a lot of stuff people is doing but I don't concern myself with it, cause I have actually seen an organization that had a female presiding bishop. I didnt understand it but hey, she aint my pastor/bishop so why should I care.

And I know quite a few bishops and apostles that USED to pastor churches but have retired cause they was old and knew it wasnt going to be too long before they said goodbye to the saints, so instead of leaving their congregations and jurisdictions in a mess when they died, they retired and appointed somebody to take their places. Unless we talking about bishops and apostles that are too young to be retiring and they dont pastor churches.

There are plenty of organizations with female presiding bishops (or apostles). I'm with you (and Teej and Nessa). It ain't my church, so I don't care.

And yeah, I'm not talking about retirees. I'm talking about people - of any age - who become bishops or apostles, but don't pastor or oversee churches (and many of them aren't even a member of any church).
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Post by: THE WOLFMAN on April 09, 2010, 09:18:25 PM
funny, ms wolfy just asked me about female bishops and pastors. I've served under two in my life, wont do it again. 

IMO, just something in a man that was put in him, that a woman aint got to do that job.

aint sayin they cant pastor, just cant pastor ME.
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Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 09, 2010, 09:25:27 PM
funny, ms wolfy just asked me about female bishops and pastors. I've served under two in my life, wont do it again. 

IMO, just something in a man that was put in him, that a woman aint got to do that job.

aint sayin they cant pastor, just cant pastor ME.

You know you stole that line from me. Where's my royalty check???  >:(
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Post by: B3Wannabe on April 09, 2010, 09:32:03 PM
I was pondering on this topic today. I don't know how deep it is, but it made me wonder. I'll post it later.
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Post by: THE WOLFMAN on April 09, 2010, 09:43:45 PM
You know you stole that line from me. Where's my royalty check???  >:(

you take EBT cards?
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Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 09, 2010, 10:51:50 PM
you take EBT cards?

HECK NAW.  >:( >:(

*looks in cupboard*

HECK YEAH.  ;D
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Post by: THE WOLFMAN on April 10, 2010, 08:53:20 PM
empty cupboards?

I can hook you up wit some King VitaMan cereal....
(http://www.slyskunk.com/images/KingVitaman.gif)
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Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 10, 2010, 08:59:33 PM
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh SNAP!!!!!!  :o :o :o   Yo dude, you get MADDDD points for that!!!

I used to LOVE King Vitaman!!! Do they still make that?? That might be just the thing to bring me back to the cereal aisle!  :D :D :D
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Post by: B3Wannabe on April 10, 2010, 10:54:42 PM
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh SNAP!!!!!!  :o :o :o   Yo dude, you get MADDDD points for that!!!

I used to LOVE King Vitaman!!! Do they still make that?? That might be just the thing to bring me back to the cereal aisle!  :D :D :D

LOL
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Post by: DirectingOrganist on April 10, 2010, 11:18:56 PM
There are plenty of organizations with female presiding bishops (or apostles). I'm with you (and Teej and Nessa). It ain't my church, so I don't care.

And yeah, I'm not talking about retirees. I'm talking about people - of any age - who become bishops or apostles, but don't pastor or oversee churches (and many of them aren't even a member of any church).

Well you know now days u can pastor your living room furniture and be an apostle or bishop. The only prerequisite is that you have a lving room for bible study and chairs to put in the garage for sunday morning service, ain't got to be nobody in the chairs, you just need the space and you can enter into the ministry as a bishop.
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Post by: fmason3 on April 12, 2010, 10:24:23 AM
Just because something exists in the pulpit doesn't make it right.



I just have one question.  When are we gonna get the first Christian or Black Pope?  ;D ;D ;D     Who's gonna be the first one bold enough to obtain that title?  Back in the day in B'ham we had a DJ on the radio station name The Black Pope but that don't count.  

Do you mean an african-american/african pope?  Or are you referring to the superior general of the society of jesus? 
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Post by: Hasmonean1 on April 12, 2010, 11:00:56 AM
Just because something exists in the pulpit doesn't make it right.



Do you mean an african-american/african pope?  Or are you referring to the superior general of the society of jesus? 

I'm referring to how long will it be until someone who is outside of the Catholic denomination or any other denomination that has an office/title of Pope established start calling themselves Pope such and such.

example:  A pentacostal bishop having the audacity to call him or herself Pope.  And after that boundry is crossed I guess sci-fi religious titles would come next like the ones used on Star Trek.    ;D ;D can you imagine? I'm no longer Bishop Hasmo you can now call me Pope HaZ  ;D ;D
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Post by: fmason3 on April 12, 2010, 01:36:07 PM
I'm referring to how long will it be until someone who is outside of the Catholic denomination or any other denomination that has an office/title of Pope established start calling themselves Pope such and such.

example:  A pentacostal bishop having the audacity to call him or herself Pope.  And after that boundry is crossed I guess sci-fi religious titles would come next like the ones used on Star Trek.    ;D ;D can you imagine? I'm no longer Bishop Hasmo you can now call me Pope HaZ  ;D ;D

Hilarious.  But I wouldn't doubt it.  Pope is from the latin "papa"...meaning Father or daddy.  But for the rest Christiandom to take on the titles of the pope would require quite a bit of....nevermind.
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Post by: B3Wannabe on April 12, 2010, 01:53:52 PM
I'm referring to how long will it be until someone who is outside of the Catholic denomination or any other denomination that has an office/title of Pope established start calling themselves Pope such and such.

example:  A pentacostal bishop having the audacity to call him or herself Pope.  And after that boundry is crossed I guess sci-fi religious titles would come next like the ones used on Star Trek.    ;D ;D can you imagine? I'm no longer Bishop Hasmo you can now call me Pope HaZ  ;D ;D

Sweet. When this happens, I'm going to bump this thread--even if it's 2025!
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Post by: Musiqsoul on April 19, 2010, 03:46:15 PM
Ok, here's my problem: We all are of the same agreement about women Pastors and Bishops, and so forth, I mena the Bible is clear on the matter, (1st Timothy 3:1-2 says "1 It is a trustworthy statement: if any man aspires to the office of overseer,(which is interperated as Elder, Pastor, or Bishop) it is a fine work he desires to do.
 2 An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,"


Now it goes on in the other verse to name other things, but we all get the picture. What I don't get is phrases like "Well she aint my Pastor" or "It aint my church, so I don't care."

Folks we have to care, we are all part of one BODY!!! i'm not saying go looking for all these churches violating God's precise for these positoins, but when we are confronted by it we are to refute it with the Word just as Jesus did. Regardless of what we think, we as Christains look at ourselves as seperated sometimes, which is sad, but the world outside doesn't. And if they don't see a united Body, the enemy will take that and run with it. We need to pray DAILY that these fellow brothers and sisters come to know the truth, and deal with the issues. When we meet people who say they Pastor is so and so, we need to lovingly let them know the truth from the Word's perspective. Then let them decide on what to do, because as it was mentioned, people will do what they want to do any way, but it doesn't mean the we have to be passive.
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Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 19, 2010, 04:08:40 PM
Ok, here's my problem: We all are of the same agreement about women Pastors and Bishops, and so forth, I mena the Bible is clear on the matter, (1st Timothy 3:1-2 says "1 It is a trustworthy statement: if any man aspires to the office of overseer,(which is interperated as Elder, Pastor, or Bishop) it is a fine work he desires to do.
 2 An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,"


Now it goes on in the other verse to name other things, but we all get the picture. What I don't get is phrases like "Well she aint my Pastor" or "It aint my church, so I don't care."

Folks we have to care, we are all part of one BODY!!! i'm not saying go looking for all these churches violating God's precise for these positoins, but when we are confronted by it we are to refute it with the Word just as Jesus did. Regardless of what we think, we as Christains look at ourselves as seperated sometimes, which is sad, but the world outside doesn't. And if they don't see a united Body, the enemy will take that and run with it. We need to pray DAILY that these fellow brothers and sisters come to know the truth, and deal with the issues. When we meet people who say they Pastor is so and so, we need to lovingly let them know the truth from the Word's perspective. Then let them decide on what to do, because as it was mentioned, people will do what they want to do any way, but it doesn't mean the we have to be passive.

I don't agree with that.

I'm personally not down for sharing my negative opinion with complete strangers who didn't ask - particularly when it relates to something that doesn't affect my life.

Maybe this goes back to the stand in vs. stand against discussion....
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Post by: B3Wannabe on April 19, 2010, 04:33:52 PM
I don't agree with that.

I'm personally not down for sharing my negative opinion with complete strangers who didn't ask - particularly when it relates to something that doesn't affect my life.

Maybe this goes back to the stand in vs. stand against discussion....

Do you proselytize your non-Christian friends? If so, then this would be the same thing. If not, then you are probably like me.

I don't actively proselytize. I do it passively. If someone asks me a question, then I tell them. If no one is asking me anything, then I may be doing the wrong thing. ?/?
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Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 19, 2010, 04:46:21 PM
Do you proselytize your non-Christian friends? If so, then this would be the same thing. If not, then you are probably like me.

I don't actively proselytize. I do it passively. If someone asks me a question, then I tell them. If no one is asking me anything, then I may be doing the wrong thing. ?/?

I think I'm very much like you in that regard. I believe in my truth. Others believe in their truth. I really don't want them bugging me with what they believe to be the truth (my Muslim friends, JW friends, atheist friends, OSAS friends, etc.), so in courteous return, I don't bug them about what I believe to be the truth. 

If they ask me, I answer truthfully and blatantly (and if they know me, that's what they expect). I work on making my life and character mirror Christ so that I can proselytize without ever having to open my mouth.
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Post by: DirectingOrganist on April 19, 2010, 09:37:28 PM
Folks we have to care, we are all part of one BODY!!! i'm not saying go looking for all these churches violating God's precise for these positoins, but when we are confronted by it we are to refute it with the Word just as Jesus did. Regardless of what we think, we as Christains look at ourselves as seperated sometimes, which is sad, but the world outside doesn't. And if they don't see a united Body, the enemy will take that and run with it. We need to pray DAILY that these fellow brothers and sisters come to know the truth, and deal with the issues. When we meet people who say they Pastor is so and so, we need to lovingly let them know the truth from the Word's perspective. Then let them decide on what to do, because as it was mentioned, people will do what they want to do any way, but it doesn't mean the we have to be passive.

I don't agree with this because I believe that we look a lot more separated if all we doing is talking about each other. I mean I know we do it enough, but if all we got to say about the church down the street, who has a woman pastor and so on, is negative how unified do we look to the "world outside"?
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Post by: pastor rob on April 19, 2010, 11:24:02 PM
One question. If a woman could not lead, how could Deborah be a judge?
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Post by: JustBecause on April 22, 2010, 07:38:22 AM
A Bishop is defined as a spiritual supervisor, overseer..

Bishop is the only gender specific leader I have read in the bible... a woman CAINT be the "Husband of one wife"...

I dont agree with women being Bishops cause the bible say so... I do believe we can be pastors, prophets, ministers, apostles etc.
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Post by: B3Wannabe on April 22, 2010, 08:03:44 AM
A Bishop is defined as a spiritual supervisor, overseer..

Bishop is the only gender specific leader I have read in the bible... a woman CAINT be the "Husband of one wife"...

I dont agree with women being Bishops cause the bible say so... I do believe we can be pastors, prophets, ministers, apostles etc.


...but doesn't the bible also say that a woman can't be over a man? I'm just saying.
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Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 22, 2010, 08:48:44 AM
...but doesn't the bible also say that a woman can't be over a man? I'm just saying.

I Timothy 2:12: But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
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Post by: JustBecause on April 22, 2010, 11:31:11 AM
...but doesn't the bible also say that a woman can't be over a man? I'm just saying.

1 Tim 2:12 states "But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence."

Usurp is to seize and hold (a position, office, power, etc.) by force or without legal right...

That verse has nothting to do with a woman NOT being a leader in the church.... different translations of this verse can be inturpreted as a woman NOT being a leader or have athourity over a man...

The context of that scripture comes from women, during those times, in the church talking gossiping and carrying on... not paying atention to what was being taught... Basically being disruptive in church...
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Post by: churchyreal on April 22, 2010, 11:36:21 AM
1 Tim 2:12 states "But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence."

Usurp is to seize and hold (a position, office, power, etc.) by force or without legal right...

That verse has nothting to do with a woman NOT being a leader in the church.... different translations of this verse can be inturpreted as a woman NOT being a leader or have athourity over a man...

The context of that scripture comes from women, during those times, in the church talking gossiping and carrying on... not paying atention to what was being taught... Basically being disruptive in church...

Yeah that's what I've heard because traditionally I've been one that is against women pastors. These days it's more about personal preference for me. I personally would not serve in a church under a woman pastor HOWEVER I will not knock those who would. At the end of the day, no one has the "correct" interpretation on this issue and no one probably ever will so at the end of the day, I would view this as a "to each it's own" issue. It also depends on if you interpret the bible literally or within its context. To me, that can totally shape which view you have on this issue.

FTR, I've always thought that the use of "Bishop" in that vese (1 Timothy 3) is used interchangably with "overseer, elder, maybe pastor".... :-\
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Post by: JustBecause on April 22, 2010, 12:54:54 PM
^^This :)
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Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 22, 2010, 01:21:23 PM
1 Tim 2:12 states "But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence."

Usurp is to seize and hold (a position, office, power, etc.) by force or without legal right...

That verse has nothting to do with a woman NOT being a leader in the church.... different translations of this verse can be inturpreted as a woman NOT being a leader or have athourity over a man...

The context of that scripture comes from women, during those times, in the church talking gossiping and carrying on... not paying atention to what was being taught... Basically being disruptive in church...

Actually, that would be Webster or Merriam's definition, or some other secular definition. In this particular verse, "usurp" means "exercise" or "govern" according to two different lexicons.

Furthermore, according to the literal translation, that part (usurp authority) of the scripture doesn't pertain to the church, but to marriage. "...and a woman I do not suffer to teach, nor to rule a husband, but to be in quietness" - YLT

I am quite aware of the context in which Paul wrote, though I'd like to see some evidence that women were in the church gossiping and carrying on. That's news to me. Most historians will say that the women were asking their husbands (and/or the elders) questions during the teaching, which was disruptive to the gathering... I've never read that they were gossiping.

In any case, I've never personally accepted that retort anyway, since Paul (and the Holy Ghost who inspired him) is smart guy who appeared quite deliberate in his writings. If he wanted to say "I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence until such time as she has learned how to conduct herself during the service, like in the year 2010, for example," then that's what he would've said. I love how we pick and choose, and then put stuff under the veil of "context."  I believe strongly in dividing the Word in its proper context, but context doesn't mean we can ignore certain scriptures and say it doesn't pertain to us today.  If He was giving us guidance or instruction that only applied to a certain era, He could've said so.


Yeah that's what I've heard because traditionally I've been one that is against women pastors. These days it's more about personal preference for me. I personally would not serve in a church under a woman pastor HOWEVER I will not knock those who would. At the end of the day, no one has the "correct" interpretation on this issue and no one probably ever will so at the end of the day, I would view this as a "to each it's own" issue. It also depends on if you interpret the bible literally or within its context. To me, that can totally shape which view you have on this issue.

I MUST disagree with that, strongly.  There are really only two "interpretations" of that particular issue. Either it's okay for women to be in authority or it's not. One side of the argument has the correct interpretation. One side does not.  It's that simple.

FTR, I've always thought that the use of "Bishop" in that vese (1 Timothy 3) is used interchangably with "overseer, elder, maybe pastor".... :-\

The word "bishop" in that scripture does mean "overseer" "elder" or "one who is in charge, or exercises oversight."  So, if we will hold to the idea that "he that findeth a wife findeth a good thing" must mean that only a man can find a woman, and not the other way around, then we must also accept that "if a man desire the office a bishop, he desireth a good work" means that only a man can be a bishop, overseer, elder, pastor, or exercise oversight.
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: JustBecause on April 22, 2010, 02:39:36 PM
.... Actually, that would be Webster or Merriam's definition, or some other secular definition. In this particular verse, "usurp" means "exercise" or "govern" according to two different lexicons.

Furthermore, according to the literal translation, that part (usurp authority) of the scripture doesn't pertain to the church, but to marriage. "...and a woman I do not suffer to teach, nor to rule a husband, but to be in quietness" - YLT....

Ursurp... in any definition means to take by force... seize... take the place of forcefully...

But N E way....

as someone stated earlier to each his/her own...


... At the end of the day, no one has the "correct" interpretation on this issue and no one probably ever will so at the end of the day, I would view this as a "to each it's own" issue. It also depends on if you interpret the bible literally or within its context. To me, that can totally shape which view you have on this issue.

^^ THIS!!!
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 22, 2010, 03:02:40 PM
Ursurp... in any definition means to take by force... seize... take the place of forcefully...


Wrong.  But for the record, I'm not concerned about "any definition" anyway, since this isn't a matter of definition, it's a matter of translation from one language to another.

But anyway.... to each his own.  :)
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: Docdb04 on April 22, 2010, 03:04:00 PM
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The word "bishop" in that scripture does mean "overseer" "elder" or "one who is in charge, or exercises oversight."  So, if we will hold to the idea that "he that findeth a wife findeth a good thing" must mean that only a man can find a woman, and not the other way around, then we must also accept that "if a man desire the office a bishop, he desireth a good work" means that only a man can be a bishop, overseer, elder, pastor, or exercise oversight.

I agree.     

I don't believe it is biblical for a women to be an overseer.

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At the end of the day, no one has the "correct" interpretation on this issue and no one probably ever will so at the end of the day, I would view this as a "to each it's own" issue. It also depends on if you interpret the bible literally or within its context. To me, that can totally shape which view you have on this issue.[/


I understand what you are saying, but I can't get with the whole "Literally and within its context". I believe that God's word means the same as it did, when it was written.  I believe that it is simple and straight forward.     

Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: JustBecause on April 22, 2010, 03:19:07 PM
I agree.     

I don't believe it is biblical for a women to be an overseer.


I understand what you are saying, but I can't get with the whole "Literally and within its context". I believe that God's word means the same as it did, when it was written.  I believe that it is simple and straight forward.     

I ageree... but with their being so many different denominations out there... That is where the "Literally and within its context" comes from... The majority of people out there believe that their way of thinking and applying the Word of God is correct... and most people rather than seek out the truth they will beat you down wth their version...

IMO... and what I believe... is that the Holy Spirit will let you know when something is wrong... and it applies to scripture interpretation as well... A pastor said to me once eat the fish and spit out the bones... I'll go a step further... if you know the fish is boney stay away from it... LOL!!!!

But N E Way...

this whole Women Bishop thing could easierly be fixed if we had more men in the church... {clears thoat and summersaults off the soap box}
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: B3Wannabe on April 22, 2010, 05:23:36 PM
this whole Women Bishop thing could easierly be fixed if we had more men in the church... {clears thoat and summersaults off the soap box}

I have been thinking about this topic, but not just as it relates to church. Men, in general, in American culture, are absent. Marriages aren't working. People are having wanton sex. Children are being born out of wedlock....on purpose.

I would say that if the man is the head, then ultimately this is our fault. This may be a vicious circle too, since women can't truly teach a young boy how to be a man. No matter how you try, there will be a hole, if the father isn't there.
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: churchyreal on April 22, 2010, 05:25:36 PM
Amen!
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: sjonathan02 on April 22, 2010, 05:40:44 PM
I have been thinking about this topic, but not just as it relates to church. Men, in general, in American culture, are absent. Marriages aren't working. People are having wanton sex. Children are being born out of wedlock....on purpose.

I would say that if the man is the head, then ultimately this is our fault. This may be a vicious circle too, since women can't truly teach a young boy how to be a man. No matter how you try, there will be a hole, if the father isn't there.



I'll go with the adage that it takes two to tango. I mean we talk about the man being the head and all; at the same time, where are the Proverbs 31 women? *kanyeshrug*
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: churchyreal on April 22, 2010, 05:50:14 PM
Amen again!
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: B3Wannabe on April 22, 2010, 05:53:32 PM

I'll go with the adage that it takes two to tango. I mean we talk about the man being the head and all; at the same time, where are the Proverbs 31 women? *kanyeshrug*

Can you have a Proverbs 31 woman without a man? Didn't it start with us?

This reminds me of an episode of Wife Swap. This lady was controlling her house, and the dude was not doing much about it. He was just like *kanyeshrug*. It took another lady coming to his house saying that he needs to be a man, and act like the king, to wake him up...I guess. When they got around the table, he said what he wanted them to do, and his wife was like *psft* We'll talk about it later. He was like Naw. I'm the king, we're doing it. When they revisited them later, they seemed to have a better relationship. I was like ?/?. ;D
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: JustBritt on April 22, 2010, 06:30:58 PM
*sigh*
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 22, 2010, 06:48:02 PM
Can you have a Proverbs 31 woman without a man? Didn't it start with us?

This reminds me of an episode of Wife Swap. This lady was controlling her house, and the dude was not doing much about it. He was just like *kanyeshrug*. It took another lady coming to his house saying that he needs to be a man, and act like the king, to wake him up...I guess. When they got around the table, he said what he wanted them to do, and his wife was like *psft* We'll talk about it later. He was like Naw. I'm the king, we're doing it. When they revisited them later, they seemed to have a better relationship. I was like ?/?. ;D


I saw that episode. It was a few years ago, right? I remember that very clearly.

Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: B3Wannabe on April 22, 2010, 08:43:05 PM

I saw that episode. It was a few years ago, right? I remember that very clearly.


I don't know how old it was. I saw it earlier this month, but I know that it was at least a year old.

One was a homeschooling family, that dressed up like they lived in the Middle Ages. The other family had a mother that was a teacher and managed a restaurant.
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: Rachaud on April 23, 2010, 12:20:23 AM
WoW!! This is some good knowledge you guys are putting out. That's awesome!!!
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: Docdb04 on April 23, 2010, 07:42:45 AM
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I have been thinking about this topic, but not just as it relates to church. Men, in general, in American culture, are absent. Marriages aren't working. People are having wanton sex. Children are being born out of wedlock....on purpose.

I would say that if the man is the head, then ultimately this is our fault. This may be a vicious circle too, since women can't truly teach a young boy how to be a man. No matter how you try, there will be a hole, if the father isn't there.

You talking right.




I'll go with the adage that it takes two to tango. I mean we talk about the man being the head and all; at the same time, where are the Proverbs 31 women? *kanyeshrug*

True.   

The crazy thing is that, in order for it to shift back into place, men have to be present in the homes.  (Not to jump all over) I've learned, from my experience, that many women probably would become that Proverbs 31 woman, if they had a man that would pastor his church (household) right.           
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: JustBecause on April 23, 2010, 07:51:26 AM
The crazy thing is that, in order for it to shift back into place, men have to be present in the homes.  (Not to jump all over) I've learned, from my experience, that many women probably would become that Proverbs 31 woman, if they had a man that would pastor his church (household) right.           

I felt that one in my Locs... {speaking in tongues} THANKYA!!!!! :)
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 23, 2010, 09:32:02 AM
Since we're talking about the Proverbs 31 woman...

An LGMer told me a few months ago that I was a "real" Proverbs 31 woman. I think he was just high off my good cookin... LOL!  He said "man, all these women out here talking 'bout they Proverbs 31 women; they don't even know what a Proverbs 31 woman is. You're a REAL Proverbs 31 woman." ( ;) betcha thought I forgot that... LOL). Of course at the moment, I took that as a major compliment because (a) he's not easily impressed by people of God, and (b) I know that a "Proverbs 31 woman" is one of virtue and integrity, who walks with honor and dignity and loves the Lord and all that.  But that night, I had to look it up again and read it for myself to see exactly what he was saying about me.  I'm so glad I did because it had been a minute since I read it, and I suspect that a lot of women (and men) really have no idea what a Proverbs 31 woman is. 

We like to assign that title to every woman who is God-fearing, celibate, and knows how to cook.  But, she isn't just one who loves the Lord and is virtuous.  She is a business woman. She is a planner.  She is organized.  She encourages her husband, and does her part to guard his reputation; she represents him well and always takes pride in her appearance.  She manages her household and uses her talent to earn entrepreneurial income.  She is dependable, smart and honest.  She knows how to make clothing, plant her own vegetables, and doesn't sleep all day and night: she isn't lazy and doesn't seek out conveniences in place of quality for her family.  She is wise, kind, Godly and skilled, and doesn't get involved in idleness (foolishness, including gossip and laziness).  Her work speaks for her and she has a solid, honorable reputation.

The Bible says (AMP):

10 A capable, intelligent, and virtuous woman--who is he who can find her? She is far more precious than jewels and her value is far above rubies or pearls.(D)

11 The heart of her husband trusts in her confidently and relies on and believes in her securely, so that he has no lack of [honest] gain or need of [dishonest] spoil.

12 She comforts, encourages, and does him only good as long as there is life within her.

13 She seeks out wool and flax and works with willing hands [to develop it].

14 She is like the merchant ships loaded with foodstuffs; she brings her household's food from a far [country].

15 She rises while it is yet night and gets [spiritual] food for her household and assigns her maids their tasks.(E)

16 She considers a [new] field before she buys or accepts it [expanding prudently and not courting neglect of her present duties by assuming other duties]; with her savings [of time and strength] she plants fruitful vines in her vineyard. [S. of Sol. 8:12.]

17 She girds herself with strength [spiritual, mental, and physical fitness for her God-given task] and makes her arms strong and firm.

18 She tastes and sees that her gain from work [with and for God] is good; her lamp goes not out, but it burns on continually through the night [of trouble, privation, or sorrow, warning away fear, doubt, and distrust].

19 She lays her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.

20 She opens her hand to the poor, yes, she reaches out her filled hands to the needy [whether in body, mind, or spirit].

21 She fears not the snow for her family, for all her household are doubly clothed in scarlet.(F)

22 She makes for herself coverlets, cushions, and rugs of tapestry. Her clothing is of linen, pure and fine, and of purple [such as that of which the clothing of the priests and the hallowed cloths of the temple were made].(G)

23 Her husband is known in the [city's] gates, when he sits among the elders of the land.(H)

24 She makes fine linen garments and leads others to buy them; she delivers to the merchants girdles [or sashes that free one up for service].

25 Strength and dignity are her clothing and her position is strong and secure; she rejoices over the future [the latter day or time to come, knowing that she and her family are in readiness for it]!

26 She opens her mouth in skillful and godly Wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness [giving counsel and instruction].

27 She looks well to how things go in her household, and the bread of idleness (gossip, discontent, and self-pity) she will not eat.(I)

28 Her children rise up and call her blessed (happy, fortunate, and to be envied); and her husband boasts of and praises her, [saying],

29 [c]Many daughters have done virtuously, nobly, and well [with the strength of character that is steadfast in goodness], but you excel them all.

30 Charm and grace are deceptive, and beauty is vain [because it is not lasting], but a woman who reverently and worshipfully fears the Lord, she shall be praised!

31 Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her own works praise her in the gates [of the city]!(J)


So IRT the last few comments, IMO the woman referenced in Proverbs 31 is married (or perhaps some might argue that she's suitable for marriage) to a man who submits to God and functions as the head of his household.
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: Hasmonean1 on April 23, 2010, 10:08:51 AM
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The crazy thing is that, in order for it to shift back into place, men have to be present in the homes.  (Not to jump all over) I've learned, from my experience, that many women probably would become that Proverbs 31 woman, if they had a man that would pastor his church (household) right.
   

Amen amen and dru dat. Just a little addition:

Few be they who are able to do it when their situation is not ideal.

Blessed be the MANY and FEW.

Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: sjonathan02 on April 23, 2010, 10:31:00 AM
Since we're talking about the Proverbs 31 woman...

An LGMer told me a few months ago that I was a "real" Proverbs 31 woman. I think he was just high off my good cookin... LOL!  He said "man, all these women out here talking 'bout they Proverbs 31 women; they don't even know what a Proverbs 31 woman is. You're a REAL Proverbs 31 woman." ( ;) betcha thought I forgot that... LOL). Of course at the moment, I took that as a major compliment because (a) he's not easily impressed by people of God, and (b) I know that a "Proverbs 31 woman" is one of virtue and integrity, who walks with honor and dignity and loves the Lord and all that.  But that night, I had to look it up again and read it for myself to see exactly what he was saying about me.  I'm so glad I did because it had been a minute since I read it, and I suspect that a lot of women (and men) really have no idea what a Proverbs 31 woman is. 

We like to assign that title to every woman who is God-fearing, celibate, and knows how to cook.  But, she isn't just one who loves the Lord and is virtuous.  She is a business woman. She is a planner.  She is organized.  She encourages her husband, and does her part to guard his reputation; she represents him well and always takes pride in her appearance.  She manages her household and uses her talent to earn entrepreneurial income.  She is dependable, smart and honest.  She knows how to make clothing, plant her own vegetables, and doesn't sleep all day and night: she isn't lazy and doesn't seek out conveniences in place of quality for her family.  She is wise, kind, Godly and skilled, and doesn't get involved in idleness (foolishness, including gossip and laziness).  Her work speaks for her and she has a solid, honorable reputation.

The Bible says (AMP):

10 A capable, intelligent, and virtuous woman--who is he who can find her? She is far more precious than jewels and her value is far above rubies or pearls.(D)

11 The heart of her husband trusts in her confidently and relies on and believes in her securely, so that he has no lack of [honest] gain or need of [dishonest] spoil.

12 She comforts, encourages, and does him only good as long as there is life within her.

13 She seeks out wool and flax and works with willing hands [to develop it].

14 She is like the merchant ships loaded with foodstuffs; she brings her household's food from a far [country].

15 She rises while it is yet night and gets [spiritual] food for her household and assigns her maids their tasks.(E)

16 She considers a [new] field before she buys or accepts it [expanding prudently and not courting neglect of her present duties by assuming other duties]; with her savings [of time and strength] she plants fruitful vines in her vineyard. [S. of Sol. 8:12.]

17 She girds herself with strength [spiritual, mental, and physical fitness for her God-given task] and makes her arms strong and firm.

18 She tastes and sees that her gain from work [with and for God] is good; her lamp goes not out, but it burns on continually through the night [of trouble, privation, or sorrow, warning away fear, doubt, and distrust].

19 She lays her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.

20 She opens her hand to the poor, yes, she reaches out her filled hands to the needy [whether in body, mind, or spirit].

21 She fears not the snow for her family, for all her household are doubly clothed in scarlet.(F)

22 She makes for herself coverlets, cushions, and rugs of tapestry. Her clothing is of linen, pure and fine, and of purple [such as that of which the clothing of the priests and the hallowed cloths of the temple were made].(G)

23 Her husband is known in the [city's] gates, when he sits among the elders of the land.(H)

24 She makes fine linen garments and leads others to buy them; she delivers to the merchants girdles [or sashes that free one up for service].

25 Strength and dignity are her clothing and her position is strong and secure; she rejoices over the future [the latter day or time to come, knowing that she and her family are in readiness for it]!

26 She opens her mouth in skillful and godly Wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness [giving counsel and instruction].

27 She looks well to how things go in her household, and the bread of idleness (gossip, discontent, and self-pity) she will not eat.(I)

28 Her children rise up and call her blessed (happy, fortunate, and to be envied); and her husband boasts of and praises her, [saying],

29 [c]Many daughters have done virtuously, nobly, and well [with the strength of character that is steadfast in goodness], but you excel them all.

30 Charm and grace are deceptive, and beauty is vain [because it is not lasting], but a woman who reverently and worshipfully fears the Lord, she shall be praised!

31 Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her own works praise her in the gates [of the city]!(J)


So IRT the last few comments, IMO the woman referenced in Proverbs 31 is married (or perhaps some might argue that she's suitable for marriage) to a man who submits to God and functions as the head of his household.


IRT B3's question to me, I believe that a Proverbs 31 woman is 'suitable for marriage', which would mean that she's single and submitted to the Lord. So much so, that when a man of unnoble character comes a-callin', she'll dismiss him while going about her business until she's 'found'.


BTJM.
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: B3Wannabe on April 23, 2010, 10:46:01 AM

IRT B3's question to me, I believe that a Proverbs 31 woman is 'suitable for marriage', which would mean that she's single and submitted to the Lord. So much so, that when a man of unnoble character comes a-callin', she'll dismiss him while going about her business until she's 'found'.


BTJM.


Verses 23 and 28 says she's married. ;)

But, I think, as you said, there is a lot of preparation. She isn't automatically a Pro 31 woman because she's married. There needs to be someone to teach her; likewise, there needs to be someone to teach a boy/young man to be a man/husband.
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 23, 2010, 10:47:53 AM

IRT B3's question to me, I believe that a Proverbs 31 woman is 'suitable for marriage', which would mean that she's single and submitted to the Lord. So much so, that when a man of unnoble character comes a-callin', she'll dismiss him while going about her business until she's 'found'.


BTJM.


Yeah, that's why I threw that in there.

I mean, clearly THE Proverbs 31 woman is married.  But to apply it to other women, it can definitely be argued that A "Proverbs 31 woman" is one who will be the wife described in Proverbs 31.  I wouldn't disagree with that.

I'm mostly referring to the notion that every woman who loves the Lord and cooks is a Proverbs 31 woman, and that just ain't true. You have women out here fornicating and calling themselves Prov31 women. You see it on license plates, in FB statuses, bumper stickers, screen savers, e-mail signatures, t-shirts, tattoos, just all over the place... and folks don't even know what it is.  That title is just too big for a lot of us.  I cook, I crochet, I'm supportive and submissive, I'm smart, celibate, and entrepreneurial and I love the Lord. But I wouldn't be so fast to say I'm a Proverbs 31 woman. I just think that's a really big title. *shrug* CBJM.

Oh and "unnoble"??? LOL
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: B3Wannabe on April 23, 2010, 11:05:14 AM
Yeah, that's why I threw that in there.

I mean, clearly THE Proverbs 31 woman is married.  But to apply it to other women, it can definitely be argued that A "Proverbs 31 woman" is one who will be the wife described in Proverbs 31.  I wouldn't disagree with that.

I'm mostly referring to the notion that every woman who loves the Lord and cooks is a Proverbs 31 woman, and that just ain't true. You have women out here fornicating and calling themselves Prov31 women. You see it on license plates, in FB statuses, bumper stickers, screen savers, e-mail signatures, t-shirts, tattoos, just all over the place... and folks don't even know what it is.  That title is just too big for a lot of us.  I cook, I crochet, I'm supportive and submissive, I'm smart, celibate, and entrepreneurial and I love the Lord. But I wouldn't be so fast to say I'm a Proverbs 31 woman. I just think that's a really big title. *shrug* CBJM.

Oh and "unnoble"??? LOL

Indeed. People always try to take on titles to make themselves look better, which is the reason for this thread.

If you're getting upset because someone isn't calling you Bishop/Pastor/Evangelist, or whatever, you may not be ready for that position.
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: churchyreal on April 23, 2010, 11:11:26 AM
Don't get me started ranting about titles...lol!
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: sjonathan02 on April 23, 2010, 11:23:24 AM
Yeah, that's why I threw that in there.

I mean, clearly THE Proverbs 31 woman is married.  But to apply it to other women, it can definitely be argued that A "Proverbs 31 woman" is one who will be the wife described in Proverbs 31.  I wouldn't disagree with that.

I'm mostly referring to the notion that every woman who loves the Lord and cooks is a Proverbs 31 woman, and that just ain't true. You have women out here fornicating and calling themselves Prov31 women. You see it on license plates, in FB statuses, bumper stickers, screen savers, e-mail signatures, t-shirts, tattoos, just all over the place... and folks don't even know what it is.  That title is just too big for a lot of us.  I cook, I crochet, I'm supportive and submissive, I'm smart, celibate, and entrepreneurial and I love the Lord. But I wouldn't be so fast to say I'm a Proverbs 31 woman. I just think that's a really big title. *shrug* CBJM.

Oh and "unnoble"??? LOL

Yep. LOL! Meant to put (int) in there but had to get to lunch. Besides. "ignoble" just didn't quite get it. LOL!
Title: Re: A woman with the title Bishop?
Post by: LaylaMonroe on April 23, 2010, 11:28:25 AM
Yep. LOL! Meant to put (int) in there but had to get to lunch. Besides. "ignoble" just didn't quite get it. LOL!

 :D