I'm a 40 years of age, 5'11". I've been playing for about 7 years and I love all the stuff you young cats are doing. I want to learn how to do it all. I have been struggling with finding a comfortable position for a couple of years. I have set the throne high with the bass drum away and low with the bass drum close. With the limited time I have to practice (I have two little girls), I want to get the full effect of my practice, but I feel very uncomfortable and can't seem to find a comfortable position. I belive in my heart I can pull off some nice stuff, but I'm struggling with my positioning.
Any suggestions?