If I have a wedge then I don't need to heaar my drums really, maaaybbeee some kick.... All vocals and other instrumensts.
If I have phones then I like to hear my drums and cymbals as well as all others. If there is a trck then I definitley like it turned up. I prefer playing with a live percussionist though. It allows the playing to flow better because they is an active "conversation" going on.