I was playing at a church over the weekend and they called on a guest choir. Now i didnt know there was going to be guest choirs. Anyway, the bass player comes up to me, looks at my stuff and asked to play my bass. My first thought was no, but I didnt want to cause a fight to break out, so with all regrets I gave him my bass. My issue is, musicians coming to a gig without their equipment. Now I bring my equipment everywhere I go. Everything from my tuners to my cab. Especially since I have very expensive equipment, im not so quick to let someone grab my bass and want to play. For now on, the answer is NO. I dont care who you are, if you are gonna walk up and ask to use my equipment, the answer is NO. THey want to retune my settings on my amp and play as loud as they feel. Sorry isnt gonna buy me new tubes or speakers. For now on, nobody plays my stuff. You may say im selfish, but nobody is gonna come out of thieir pockets to pay for the damage done. I cant believe that someone would walk up to the musicians area without his instrument. Even drummers bring their own sticks. I just cant do it anymore. Am I wrong for feeling that way. I mean everywhere I go, if im playing 1 song, I bring everything, unless directed not to do so. And even then, I keep it in my car just in case I want my sound. For the most part I always bring everything. FOr now on, the answer is no. ONce they see someone who has good equipment, that is the first thing they want to jump on. Dont ask me anymore because the answer is no. Am I wrong for feeling this way?