(sigh) not this again...
Here's a point to think about... would you be listening to "Lord make me over" on your Honey Moon, or on a romantic dinner evening with your spouse the resturant is playing shouting music?
Let's define what is secular:
. of or pertaining to worldly things or to things that are not regarded as religious, spiritual, or sacred; temporal: secular interests.
2. not pertaining to or connected with religion (opposed to sacred): secular music.
3. (of education, a school, etc.) concerned with nonreligious subjects.
4. (of members of the clergy) not belonging to a religious order; not bound by monastic vows (opposed to regular).
5. occurring or celebrated once in an age or century: the secular games of Rome.
6. going on from age to age; continuing through long ages.
Okay, so if we want to exclude anything that's secular then what about t.v., movies, what about football, sports, all of that is Secular. It only becomes evil when it goes against the Word of God. There's plenty of secular songs that does not go against the Word of God, a lot of it is romantic music, grooves, funk, etc...
you can make football evil too if you do something that goes against the Word of God such as gambeling...
I guess i made my point of view - Music is music, rather it's spiritual, secular, a, b, c or none of the above... and just about 90% of the things we do are secular, but we only want to define Music as secular...
Myself, i love secular music. Blues is secular and you hear most of the riffs, chords progression, grooves, etc in the gospel music. Okay, i'm sleepy now, i'm about to take a nap.