Was your current MOM around during the turmoil of the Youth choir back in the day? If so, have they voiced their concerns? If so, was your pastor around during the turmoil of the Youth choir back in the day? If so, why would does he want to split up the choirs?
Both have been there for atleast 5 years. Our choirs were combined early 2006. The MOM thought it would be a good idea, for a few reasons:
1) He was having trouble controlling some of the youth (gotta have patience dealing with the youth of today, and his patience is next-to-none)
2) The adult choir was weak in numbers (average of 2-4 ppl per rehearsal)
3) During the summer months, youth are on vacations, so combining the choirs would keep consistency within the music department, instead of just having a youth choir 8 months out of a year.
The MOM has been voicing his concern about spliting up the choir because of the fact that we are not large in numbers, and that we wouldn't have enough to make a decent choir, for either the adult or youth. Not to mention that He doesn't connect well with some of the youth.
Our Pastor has decided to split it up anyway. He says he's trying to reach out to the children and youth, and believes that starting back up the youth choir, and a childrens choir (ain't but 3 children that REGULARLY attend), a drill stem team, and stuff like that will draw more children and youth into church.
However, our MOM believes his motives are different than what I explained, and because the MOM and the Pastor haven't really been seeing eye to eye for the longest time, and the MOM is always feeling disrespected, He made up his mind that he wanted to look elseware for a new church home.