This is from a response I did in this forum about 3 years ago.
"I participate in a few music ministries in the Los Angeles area. As an aside, I noticed that it is not unusual for the drummer to be paid less than the other musicians. I don't understand why.
However, I have also noticed that churches (pastors, trustees, etc) will sometimes use and abuse the talent God has placed under their direction. They have no problem talking up the upcoming church banquet at the beautiful hotel downtown where they are charging $50.00 per plate and then ask you to bring a band to entertain them for no money (sorry we don't have a budget for music) and for NO FOOD. Even heathens will feed you lol.
God uses people to run his Churches. Sometimes, you have to stand up to those people and insist that they do right. I often volunteer to play for various churches and choirs. However, whether I play for free is my decision. I do resent when I get the "God gave u a gift" speech. True I have been blessed with a gift, but it is unspiritual to always expect me to use that gift and to renege on our financial arramngement.
Think about it.... Jesus was carpenter...that is how he made a living before he started his other work for the Father. I am pretty sure that when he and Jospeh were making those tables and chairs and building those houses that they got paid. They had to eat too didn't they? They had to support Mary and the other children, they had to give at the synagogue, they had to pay taxes. they had to buy animals for sacrifices, clothes, pay to travel, buy raw materials to work their craft. All of that required money. The Bible says that " money answers all things." (Ecclesiastes 10:19)
None of us should be shamed into not getting paid when the funds are really in the budget."