Well I would like to share my experience from 2007. I was one of 4 worship directors at this particular church. Had been there my whole life. Well, I felt since I had been serving on the Main Worship Team for seven years, I felt the Lord leading me to take a sabbatical from the praise team, as that is what I found out when I looked up the the word sabbatical-a leave of absence usually taken every seven years.
So, I believe the Lord led me to meet with the Senior Worship director and share my heart with him and I was scared he was gonna chew me out, but he didn't. He actually came into agreement with what God said and PRAYED over me, spoke into my life and blessed it. What a weight that lifted (whoo).
Also in the midst of this, I was MOM over the Youth Dept, but I felt the Lord wanted me to continue in that, and also in my travels to other ministries that needed help or didn't have a MOM on a service by service basis. It was a great way for me to learn this kind of ministry and how to work with other people, pastors etc.
Well, we had just got a new Youth Pastor and I believed he was the one called for that particular ministry. He was great! Well, one day after serving with him for about 6 months or so (and being the MOM for years in the Yth. Dept) he tells me that the Pastor wants to meet with me and him after service.
What I didn't know was the Youth Pastor was sly-ly and sneekily wanting me out. So, I had never seen the Pastor that un-easy before...mind you, I've known him for over 20 years.
So basically it came to me choosing to either quit evangelizing and continue in ministry there or turn in my key, and not be involved there period.
I was so hurt and shocked over this...It seemed like all the scriptures flew out of the window and I went hope that night in pain. Called the former Youth Pastor who was an Evangelist at the time (who basically raised me in ministry) and he could not believe this was happening, and that the Pastor would do this...
Well, long story shortened....a week later I grabbed all my things from the Youth Facility (of course I prayed and sought out God's will) and turned in my key. These people did not care for me at all, they never checked up on me or ne thing..no phone call, no email, nada!
Well, it took me on a journey and now 3 ministries later, I'm at a place where I feel loved, appreciated, and I lead worship there.
Note: I found found out a year later from a very reliable source that it was the Youth Pastor's idea to get me out. They no longer have Praise & Worship in that youth ministry, they've lost a lot of youth to the Church on the next street over, and it has drastically gone down the tubes.
I shared all that to say....Everybody's response here is good and everything, but the only thing that really matters is that YOU FOLLOW GOD!
Yes you will get hurt!
Yes it will take some time to get over!
Yes you will think you didn't deserve to be treated like that!
But it always pays to be in the RIGHT PLACE AND SEASON!
I feel for you, I love you and I pray you do what God's will reveals!
Romans 8:28