Gotta question. Why do guys want a girl that would throw herself at them?
Maybe I just think too much of myself, but I don't like it (and never have liked it) when girls throw themselves at me. When I was much younger (18 or so) and didn't know what life was, maybe I was a little flattered . . . but I quickly learned that something was wrong there.
It is in our nature, guys, to be the pursuer . . . . not the pursued. If you know you have looks and talent, thank God for it and carry yourself with an air that says, "I'll do the looking and the finding, when God brings her my way. Thank you, but no thanks." Word will quickly get around that you are not a church playboy, and the only women that will be interested are the ones worth pursuing.
Be Blessed!
BBoy