Here are some suggestions:(1) Find a really good teacher and discuss what she is interested in learning, (2) get a good practice pad and practice fundemental rudiments and hand technique daily. (3) Have her expose herself to as many different genres of music as is humanly possible not just gospel.(4) Drum videos are great and here are a couple of my favorites. Steve Smith, Buddy Rich Memorial Concert, Dave Weckl(all of them), Marco Minninman(any of them), Jeff Pocaro(any), Carlos Vega (any), and any live performance videos that feature Vinnie Coliuta on drums the first two that come to mind is the Faith Hill "When The Lights Go Down" video is truly tremendous. Some of the finest drumming on the planet. Joni Mitchell (the title escapes me) which features Jim Haslip, Russel Ferrante, Vinnie and a host of others. (5) get serious and develope a daily structured routine as far as what you are going to work on. Be very regimental about practice time have it well thought out. Remember to always warm up with various exercises and also if possible record your practice sessions both in audio and video format. This way she can listen and watch her progress, which is a great motivator to stick it out when you start acheiveing certain plateaus and you find it more difficult to push yourself. (6) Rest, is critical. Drums are very physical and it is possible to hurt yourself. When you get fatigued stop for that session and rest. Read current and back issues of modern drummer, drummer magazine rhthym magazine and any other pertinent periodicals. Also, take your time!!! She won't be playing like her favorite drummer after two weeks, months, years. It just takes discipline, practice, study,and time. Most importantly pray before you play! Always have FUN. PT.