Thanks Floaded27. I remember coming home from practice and a guy in my building says, "what's in the bag". I tell him its a bass and he gets this big old grin, and says, "I play too! Come and see me and I will help you out!" I wait a couple of days (did'nt want to seem too eager) and knock on his door. After we get settled in, he says, "show me what you got". I play a riff that I learned on this website (thanks Uriah, where ever you are) and he gets a real funny look on his face. He then says, "I think I know what you were going for. You should play it like this." He starts slapping and popping like nobodies business. Now I should inform you that I was already in awe, because he had a Ken Smith 5 string running through some monster amp. What he played sounded nice, but it wasn't remotely close to the exercise. For the next hour he only wanted to talk about naming the notes and slapping and popping. I went along patiently, until he started grabbing my fingers and placing them on the fretboard. I waited until he decided the lesson was over, then I left. I see hm from time to time, but we don't hang out anymore. Fast forward a couple of months. I finally saved up enough to get a Fender Jazz. I go to the store and start the process of trying out different basses. I sales guy comes over and starts conversating with me about instruments, but never once asked me what I was looking to buy. He asked me what I played before, then started showing me the differences between the instruments. What was important was he kept placing the basses in my hands and asked me to play. When he noticed that I wasn't sure what to do, he would pick up another bass and demonstrate until I played it decently. He never rushed me and let me know that he had to go do something else, but would be back. After I bought y bass, he would often check in with me. When I told him I was thinking of changing a part, he made sure I knew why and how and even steered me away from some bad decisions. He shared a lot of stories with me, gave me a bunch of free lessons, and the most important lesson to date: as long as you make music you like, you will always be happy. He thought good tone was a state of mind, not a some total of assembled parts.