I hear what you're saying. I grew up in a church where there was a variety of gospel stuff. And that's pretty much all I prefer to listen to. What I'm saying is that Gospel is 'the good news.' Gospel's purpose is to glorify Jesus. I realize that as we move from generation to generation the style of gospel must change. Once upon a time organs in gospel music was 'the devil' Now, it's a staple almost. There was stuff I listened to growing up that is now considered old.
However, there are two things I think are important. First of all, it's the anointing that destroys the yolk. I thank God for the Gospel rappers who actually rap to the glory of God. I totally appreciate that we need to catch people with the right bait, but I don't think that its impossible for a worldly young person to like something more traditional though.
Also... and this is the thing I'm concerned about, we have to be careful not to compromise. God gives gifts without repentance. That means He gave you the anointing to write songs, but it's up to you to use your gift the write way. God gave Malcom X the give of articulation, leadership, and charisma, but he didn't use it right. He gave Prince musical skill, but he ain't usin it to glorify God either. It's easy for us to get inspired w/ our gifts and then move in ourselves. I'm not saying that this is you... and I pray that you prosper in the Lord... That's why it's important to seek God before during and after we minister. We need to be sure He's pleased w/ our songs, our beats, etc. Every good and perfect gift is from him, but the way we use it is up to us.
I think one thing that needs to happen is that we reinforce/ explain our gifts in some way through the music. The same way parents discipline their children... they need to provide reasoning.
I believe that there's some hot new stuff out there that's ministering to people. But the "worldly" stuff is what comes w/ some of it. Ex: If I sing or play a hot, anointed song, why do I i have to dance and shake... w/ some of these groups, the dances aren't "holy dances" The Bible says that by their fruits we shall know them.
Be Blessed