It is not cool when the MOM wants every member of the choir to be on time for rehearsal and church, and gives lectures on the subject, but is 20 minutes late for all rehearsals, services, and other functions.
It is not cool when everybody wants you to do their job and then, they act like it was your job in the first place, then when you get tired and stop, everybody blames you for not doing the job. Especially, the person whose job it was in the first place, and they just sit back and let you take the blame when you were doing the job for them. Then, they don't even say thank you.
When the choir gets up to sing with 20 members, but only 6 people are even wearing their robe, and this happens every Sunday. All 20 people own robes!