Jfunky, I feel you. I try to stay away from these types of discussion as well but as Micheal Corleone said "They keep pulling me back in!!"

Additionally, I just had a recent conversation with a musician on this very topic and it's something I've been struggling with personally. Anyways, this is for those that will accept it.
Plain and simple. Yes, musicians should be paid for their ministry. (I won't quote the plethora of scriptures to back up this statement at this time) Unfortunately and realistically, most churches have not reached the financial level where they can pay musicians adequately or even full-time. While other churches take advantage of musicians b/c they believe that music is just an "incidental" and do not understand the power a strong music ministry would have on the overall ministry of the church.
However, let's be real here for a minute. If I'm a great writer and recognize that God has given me the talent but I decide to write erotic poetry or erotic books as a career, is that pleasing to God? If I'm a creative person and I have a talent to be behind the camera and recognize that God has given me the talent to create films but all of my films are for adult entertainment purposes, is that pleasing to God? If I'm a great orator and I go around the country and teach my audience to embrace and live by the principles of secular humanism[but I'm a Christian 8O], is that pleasing to God? If I'm a creative person and work in the advertising business, and I create commercials or print ads for tobacco use or alcoholic beverages, is that pleasing to God? Most of us would state that the above situations are not pleasing to God
Nevertheless, if I play secular music, 95% of which is about SEX and others things directly contrary to the Word [again recognizing that God has given me the talent], somehow that's alright :? :? I constantly hear the statement "it's just a job" from all my friends in the secular music industry. But it's also a choice. Simply b/c that person does not lose the ability to play the instrument in a dynamic way has no bearing on whether God is pleased. Just b/c God tolerates it does not necessarily mean that it is pleasing to him i.e., look at the discussion that Jesus had with the Pharisees regarding divorce. Matt 19:1-8.
We make choices everyday whether to please God or ignore him. Some choices are more poignant than others. The gifts of God are w/o repentance and it's up to us how we use the gift He has given us. God will not violate or override the human will, he asks us to submit to Him.
The Bible declares that before Jesus returns again that there will be a "great falling away". II Thess. 2:3. This passage is referring to us, Christians, saved, sanctified folk. Let's not rationalize and justify our decisions but make sure that all we do is in accordance with the Word. I hope that I have not been too preachy (which can be a turn-off to some) but just made you think clearly on the subject. God Bless.