I'll do my best to keep myself in check for her if she does her best to keep herself in check for me.
But, I also heard my pastor say one day,
"If it ain't for sale, take the sign down!"
Like, in my job, I go to peoples homes giving them estimates on home remodeling. SO.......One day I had an appt at this young lady's house talking to her about her kitchen. And she opened the door, and either she just woke up or she did it on purpose, but it looked like she was smuggling bald midgets. Anyway, I digress.
After a while, my eyes were exhausted from locking directly into her eyes and her cabinets, and so I figured I'd become cool enough with her to start throwing more hints. My first hint, soon as I got there was, "Whew, its a lil nippy in here, are you cold?" (I know yall church mothers know about that one, but the ladies can be more direct. For yall who don't know, if a church mother aka older female saint saw a girl wearing a tiny top/skirt, they ask that and if the girl says no, then mother would be like "Sure you are honey, heres a sweater!) Well, she said "No", but I didnt have a comeback I could use, so I went on.
So as I was saying........... my second hint wasn't so indirect. I said, "Do you have another shirt, or something?" It slipped by for a second then she asked me to repeat, and I asked about getting another shirt or buttoning up the one she had. She finally buttoned up. Whew, I could finally relax my my eyes.
But it was like she was trying to get a big discount out of me or something, cause she asked did I do the work, so she could hire me on the side or something. Didn't say it, but I was like lady all I care about at this meeting is whats in your purse, not your t-pocket.
Now if we're supposed to treat older women as mothers and younger women as sisters (ref 1Tim5); Ladies....... do you want your older brother looking down your shirt, or at your backside. Ladies, do you want your young sons to see mommies goodies?
Your clothes shouldn't make a brother sweat,
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