LearnGospelMusic.com Community

Please login or register.
Pages: 1 2 [3] 4 5 ... 7   Go Down

Author Topic: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.  (Read 13567 times)

Offline LadyWiz

  • LGM Royalty
  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 3173
  • Gender: Female
  • Praise is what I do

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #40 on: February 22, 2006, 01:46:05 PM »
I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Ummm...no we wouldn't.

Agreed!

Their are two levels of thoughts, I feel, when it comes to. You can be dressed modestly, and man may see you and think, 'She's a very attractive woman..."

Now, when you start showing too much flesh, it goes from that to, "@##$%@#%%$^&##%&&#%%%%@$ !!!" so on, and so forth.

I think everyone is responsible. If you're dressed appropriately, and some man is all bent out of shape, then that IS on him. However, you can have a split, in a long skirt, all the way up to Glory, and say the man should have more control over his thoughts.

We all need to acccept responsibility.

My whole point (which I thought was clear...perhaps not) is that IF a woman is appropriately dressed and she has no motive to sexually entice a brother, THEN it IS the brother's fault if he still regards her as sexy (arousing his sexual desires) and not keeping his thoughts under subjection.  If not his fault, then whose??  ???

MaestroDivine

  • Guest
Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #41 on: February 22, 2006, 01:47:00 PM »
I think we all would agree it's the man's fault in not keeping his thoughts under subjection.

Ummm...no we wouldn't.

Agreed!

Their are two levels of thoughts, I feel, when it comes to. You can be dressed modestly, and man may see you and think, 'She's a very attractive woman..."

Now, when you start showing too much flesh, it goes from that to, "@##$%@#%%$^&##%&&#%%%%@$ !!!" so on, and so forth.

I think everyone is responsible. If you're dressed appropriately, and some man is all bent out of shape, then that IS on him. However, you can have a split, in a long skirt, all the way up to Glory, and say the man should have more control over his thoughts.

We all need to acccept responsibility.

My whole point (which I thought was clear...perhaps not) is that IF a woman is appropriately dressed and she has no motive to sexually entice a brother, THEN it IS the brother's fault if he still regards her as sexy (arousing his sexual desires) and not keeping his thoughts under subjection.  If not his fault, then whose??  ???

My first inclination was to blame the Devil...

...but we all know better.

Offline playhear

  • LGM Royalty
  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 2420
  • Gender: Male
  • "Shock and awe" was just for Iraq...or was it?

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #42 on: February 22, 2006, 01:47:07 PM »
OK, here are some the things that many women (ages 15 through 30) seem like they do not fully understand. If you have nice legs and show a slight bit of knee, you’re going to have men’s minds going crazy. You don’t need to wear a mini skirt; you run the risk of going overboard. If you have nice breasts and wear a shirt that’s form fitting, you’re going to have men’s minds going crazy. You don’t need to show any cleavage whatsoever; again, you run the risk of going overboard.

What many women refer to as sexy is actually borderline slutty or just plain slutty. Slutty is not equivalent to sexy. Cover up a bit. Given the way many women dress nowadays, whatever a woman thinks is sexy is most likely a bit too much, or literally too little.

Offline csedwards2

  • LGM Royalty
  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 7982
  • Gender: Male
    • Find me on the book

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #43 on: February 22, 2006, 01:57:51 PM »
I'll do my best to keep myself in check for her if she does her best to keep herself in check for me.

But, I also heard my pastor say one day,

"If it ain't for sale, take the sign down!"

Like, in my job, I go to peoples homes giving them estimates on home remodeling. SO.......One day I had an appt at this young lady's house talking to her about her kitchen. And she opened the door, and either she just woke up or she did it on purpose, but it looked like she was smuggling bald midgets. Anyway, I digress.

After a while, my eyes were exhausted from locking directly into her eyes and her cabinets, and so I figured I'd become cool enough with her to start throwing more hints. My first hint, soon as I got there was, "Whew, its a lil nippy in here, are you cold?" (I know yall  church mothers know about that one, but the ladies can be more direct. For yall who don't know, if a church mother aka older female saint saw a girl wearing a tiny top/skirt, they ask that and if the girl says no, then mother would be like "Sure you are honey, heres a sweater!)  Well, she said "No", but I didnt have a comeback I could use, so I went on.

So as I was saying........... my second hint wasn't so indirect. I said, "Do you have another shirt, or something?" It slipped by for a second then she asked me to repeat, and I asked about getting another shirt or buttoning up the one she had. She finally buttoned up. Whew, I could finally relax my my eyes.

But it was like she was trying to get a big discount out of me or something, cause she asked did I do the work, so she could hire me on the side or something. Didn't say it, but I was like lady all I care about at this meeting is whats in your purse, not your t-pocket.


Now if we're supposed to treat older women as mothers and younger women as sisters (ref 1Tim5); Ladies....... do you want your older brother looking down your shirt, or at your backside. Ladies, do you want your young sons to see mommies goodies?


Your clothes shouldn't make a brother sweat,
CSE2

Offline csedwards2

  • LGM Royalty
  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 7982
  • Gender: Male
    • Find me on the book

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #44 on: February 22, 2006, 01:59:21 PM »
Now thats sexy

Offline Jniles_NCF

  • LGM Royalty
  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 737
  • Gender: Male

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #45 on: February 22, 2006, 02:01:11 PM »
well i think what 4His Glory is tlkain about is outside of the church as well.. not that women are livving double lives but like i heard a story true story that one fo the young men in the church were walkin in the mall and saw this woman walkin in front of him she had the walk and not only that she was wearing these white pants with a thong of course and he stepped up to her and when she truned around it was one of the ministering staff from the church Evangalist so and so... now she's in the mall walkin just chillin... i happen to know a  couple of women who are absolutely gorgeous God made them that way and i have to catch myself sometimes cause i might get cought staring.. not in any way but they are just beautiful...


Now God knew what He was doing when he made Woman.. he made Woman so that man would be attracted to her...i mean like others daid there is nothing wrong in admiring or achknowledge that a woman looks good but i do agree with others that it is up to us men to keep our thoughts under subjection even if it is out there... case in point.. my girlfriend b4 we started dating was atrracted to me i was attracted to her as well i just didn't put the move out just yet.. one day she came to my office and we were tlkain and i happend to see her panty showin now i politely said "if you don't someone goin after your candy you might not want the wrapper to show.." i made a joke about it and she was a lil embarassed i don't knwo if she did it on purpose or not but that's wasn't what i was concerend about the point is that it  could've easily gone another way..i just chose not to b/c that's npt the type of person i am..
God doesn't want your gifts. He wants your life...

Offline csedwards2

  • LGM Royalty
  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 7982
  • Gender: Male
    • Find me on the book

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #46 on: February 22, 2006, 02:08:28 PM »
Besides ladies,

If you think about it, If you're so into attracting a man by whats on the outside, and not whats within, then...
 
You're gonna have to keep attracting him to keep him.
You can marry him or whatever and as soon as he sees someone with a better outside than yours, he's straying away. Men are directed by their vision. FACT
So let whats on your body reflect whats inside and you'll have not only have his eyes you'll have his heart

Men may fantacize about a woman who looks sexy in their clothes, but the one who has his heart will meet his mother.

Better believe it,
CSE2

Offline Torch7

  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 2077
  • Gender: Male
    • Gospel Bass Guitar Lessons Site

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #47 on: February 22, 2006, 02:11:12 PM »
Quote
"If it ain't for sale, take the sign down!"

Words to Live by...

Offline LorenzoS

  • LGM Royalty
  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 957
  • Gender: Male

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #48 on: February 22, 2006, 02:22:20 PM »
GOODNESS....i was suppose to catch a flight....i was on the run way and the plane had a slight problem so they brought us back in.....so i decided to get back on the site....and WHOA!!!!!!!! 4 pages it's only been an hour....!!!!!!Look all i got to say...is Beauty, sexy, what eva you want to call it, is only skin deep.....but UGLY is to the BONE!!!!!!!!!!!

and to add what i said wayyyyyyy before early in the post. We men need to keep our thoughts under subjection AT ALL TIMES
the devil doesnt care how he distracts us soo longs as were distracted and our focus is off GOD, case and point.

Its not about being weak or what ever was said, (Fellas) or hidden motives etc.., (ladies)  For we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities, ....and yall know the rest.....

There aint nothing wrong with lookin like a million bucks, just so long as you aint sold for nothin less. see right there to your left....me and my wifey.<<<<<<<  ;D thats a trillion dollars and then some...

Now thats SEXY!!!!!!
We can go from Glory to Goofy in a matter of seconds, by not heeding HIS voice. M.G. Blankenship

Offline ABOVEALL

  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 201
    • http://

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #49 on: February 22, 2006, 02:43:20 PM »
O, ME SO HOLY!!!

Offline Stifled_1

  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 17

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #50 on: February 22, 2006, 02:50:29 PM »
Quote
"If it ain't for sale, take the sign down!"


Women are spoil by the attention they receive from their appearance.  They are very competative.  Plus, the level in which they dress has a lot do with their self-esteem.  Women are more concern about the size of their body parts than we are.

    

Offline 4hisglory

  • LGM Royalty
  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 11075
  • Gender: Male
    • Learn Gospel Musiic

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #51 on: February 22, 2006, 03:58:41 PM »
my girlfriend b4 we started dating was atrracted to me i was attracted to her as well i just didn't put the move out just yet.. one day she came to my office and we were tlkain and i happend to see her panty showin now i politely said "if you don't someone goin after your candy you might not want the wrapper to show.." i made a joke about it and she was a lil embarassed i don't knwo if she did it on purpose or not but that's wasn't what i was concerend about the point is that it  could've easily gone another way..i just chose not to b/c that's npt the type of person i am..

Wow.....ok, its official Professor Jniles_NCF  will be giving macking lessons in the conference room of the LGM Headquarters.
:)

Offline sjonathan02

  • LGM Royalty
  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 41575
  • Gender: Male
  • My heart

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #52 on: February 22, 2006, 04:06:16 PM »
O, ME SO HOLY!!!


ME PRAISE HIM LONG TIME?!  ???
Despite our communication technology, no invention is as effective as the sound of the human voice.

Offline LadyWiz

  • LGM Royalty
  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 3173
  • Gender: Female
  • Praise is what I do

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #53 on: February 22, 2006, 04:19:19 PM »
O, ME SO HOLY!!!


ME PRAISE HIM LONG TIME?!  ???

I know Jonathan.........you just tryin' to figure out what he's tryin' to say!  :D :D

Offline SisterT

  • Senior Moderator
  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 11491
  • Gender: Female
  • New Look, Still Divalicious!
    • Earnest and Roline Ministries

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #54 on: February 22, 2006, 05:00:12 PM »
O, ME SO HOLY!!!


ME PRAISE HIM LONG TIME?!  ???

LOL!!!! I can name that tune in three notes!!  ;D

uniquepraise

  • Guest
Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #55 on: February 22, 2006, 09:42:14 PM »
I agree with Nakia and it depends on the intent and definition.  I think you can be attractive and sexy and be holy. Do it up. AS long as the intent is right.  Now if you wearing it cause you KNOW the men are looking then I would question it.  Like Sis T says the tailored look is NEAT and helps a lot of people look SO much better...men & women.

Offline csedwards2

  • LGM Royalty
  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 7982
  • Gender: Male
    • Find me on the book

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #56 on: February 23, 2006, 10:27:08 AM »

Offline gtrdave

  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 4895
  • Gender: Male
  • Men always ought to pray and not lose heart.
    • Check out some of my music!

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #57 on: February 23, 2006, 10:32:42 AM »
Music theory is not always music reality.

Offline Jniles_NCF

  • LGM Royalty
  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 737
  • Gender: Male

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #58 on: February 23, 2006, 10:38:20 AM »
my girlfriend b4 we started dating was atrracted to me i was attracted to her as well i just didn't put the move out just yet.. one day she came to my office and we were tlkain and i happend to see her panty showin now i politely said "if you don't someone goin after your candy you might not want the wrapper to show.." i made a joke about it and she was a lil embarassed i don't knwo if she did it on purpose or not but that's wasn't what i was concerend about the point is that it  could've easily gone another way..i just chose not to b/c that's npt the type of person i am..

Wow.....ok, its official Professor Jniles_NCF  will be giving macking lessons in the conference room of the LGM Headquarters.
not even like that i just know what it is to have 4 sisters and i sure as heck would hurt somebody if they stepped my sisters disrespectfully.. that's all... but PM and we'll see if we can work something out on a yahoo chat session or something bring ya pens and papers and be prepared to take notes
God doesn't want your gifts. He wants your life...

Offline T-Block

  • LGM Royalty
  • LGM Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 17289
  • Gender: Male
  • I got my MBA!!!

Re: Sexy Christian Women - SERIOUS QUESTION.
« Reply #59 on: February 23, 2006, 10:46:03 AM »
I think all women are sexy.  Maybe not all women are sexy to me, but they are to somebody.  Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!!!
Real musicians play in every key!!!
Music Theory, da numbers work!
Pages: 1 2 [3] 4 5 ... 7   Go Up