I would suggest that you practice playing with drum tracks of some kind or practice with a drummer..Do you have a drummer at church?, if you don't, then I would get some kind of drum machine to lock in the timing..It just takes ALOT of practice!! If you don't have a "natural" sense of timing, then it's going to take some time..just keep practicing with some kind of drum beat, also try playing along with CDs, find a simple song that you know how to play and play along. When you listen to music, really try to point out the beat and listen how the organ or piano sound in comparison to the beat!!!...YOU CAN DO IT!!! :wink:
Peace.
ElderE