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Moving again???
« on: March 09, 2008, 01:13:52 PM »
Hey I am in a dilemma... My job wants to move me another location. Its for a position that pays a little more... no added responsibilities, they just admire my dedication to the company, and would like for me to work in a location that could benefit from my hard work.

They are looking to move me to Woodbridge, Virginia, or to the Charlotte and Cary NC area...

The hubby doesnt mind at all, since he is away so much on business, and we dont have kids.. yet... and this may be a good move. I never really liked Philly the way I thought I would. I weighed out the Pro's and Cons... and came up with all PRO's for why I should move away. I thik that North Carolina and Virginia are great areas to raise children.

What do you all think? Anyone familiar with the Manassas and Woodbridge area, or the Cary/Charlotte/Winston-Salem areas? Lemme know...  :)

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Re: Moving again???
« Reply #1 on: March 09, 2008, 02:04:06 PM »
Hey I am in a dilemma... My job wants to move me another location. Its for a position that pays a little more... no added responsibilities, they just admire my dedication to the company, and would like for me to work in a location that could benefit from my hard work.

They are looking to move me to Woodbridge, Virginia, or to the Charlotte and Cary NC area...

The hubby doesnt mind at all, since he is away so much on business, and we dont have kids.. yet... and this may be a good move. I never really liked Philly the way I thought I would. I weighed out the Pro's and Cons... and came up with all PRO's for why I should move away. I thik that North Carolina and Virginia are great areas to raise children.

What do you all think? Anyone familiar with the Manassas and Woodbridge area, or the Cary/Charlotte/Winston-Salem areas? Lemme know...  :)

1. I LOVE that pic of you!!!  You look great!

2. Congrats on the opportunity.

3. The only input I can offer is that Manassas and Woodbridge are both incredibly expensive, and IMO, not worth the cost of living.  From a practical perspective, it's just not worth it.  Plus, I think the crime rate might be higher in NOVA, and I KNOW traffic is worse in NOVA. 

If you want to live well, you should consider the NC areas you mentioned.  The best move I ever made was moving to Atlanta, where working class people live like middle class people, and middle class people live like upper middle class people, and so on and so forth... you will find about the same in those areas of NC.  Plus, NC is a great place to raise a family.

Oh, one down side is that the job market is much more secure in NOVA than it is in NC.  NC is really going through some rough times IRT their job market.  Of course, if you feel your current job and your husband's job is that secure, that may not be a relevant point.

How's your social/cultural life?  I've heard that those areas you mentioned in NC are severely lacking any sort of culture and night life.  If that matters to you, you may want to think about it.  I really couldn't care less about stuff like that... as long as there are some good restaurants and some good weather, I'll live just about anywhere.

Overall, if it were me, I'd pick NC.  NOVA is for the wealthy and the people who don't realize they can live better if they move (IMO).
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Re: Moving again???
« Reply #2 on: March 09, 2008, 02:54:05 PM »
I admire your tenacity. It would take a hurricane to make me leave memphis and we don't have those.

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Re: Moving again???
« Reply #3 on: March 09, 2008, 03:44:08 PM »
I agree with you Rue... and thanks for the compliment...

I think I am leaning to Cary, NC... The night life is no different from New Kent County, Va... Nakia can witness to y'all that its sooooo boring there...

But It is perfect for my family, and its only three hours from VA, so I can drive there even quicker.

So I think we have a winner. I found a few little cottages there that are just prescious...

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Re: Moving again???
« Reply #4 on: March 09, 2008, 05:28:51 PM »
1. I LOVE that pic of you!!!  You look great!

2. Congrats on the opportunity.

3. The only input I can offer is that Manassas and Woodbridge are both incredibly expensive, and IMO, not worth the cost of living.  From a practical perspective, it's just not worth it.  Plus, I think the crime rate might be higher in NOVA, and I KNOW traffic is worse in NOVA. 
On the contrary, Manassas and Woodbridge are the low cost areas of Northern Va. Both are experiecning rapidly decreasing house values. One can get a 3/2 in either for under 200k. (in Manassas, I believe you can do it for like 130k

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Re: Moving again???
« Reply #5 on: March 09, 2008, 05:45:04 PM »
On the contrary, Manassas and Woodbridge are the low cost areas of Northern Va. Both are experiecning rapidly decreasing house values. One can get a 3/2 in either for under 200k. (in Manassas, I believe you can do it for like 130k

Dude, being the lowest cost area in NOVA doesn't really say much... I mean, one could say that SE is the cheapest area in DC, but it's still way more expensive than Cary, NC.  One could say that the west side of NYC is the cheapest area of Manhattan, but it's still extremely expensive.  And as for the rapidly decreasing house values, that's nationwide.

And what I was referring to isn't just about how much it costs, it's also about what you get for your money.  NOVA (and most of the northeast and upper southeast) is an old metro area; the majority of the more reasonably priced homes here were built ages ago.  So, that 3/2 for under $200k probably won't have a garage, it probably won't have a walk-in closet, it probably won't have a separate family room or dining room, it may not have a decent backyard, and it'll probably be 20 or 30 years old, if not more!

To me, it's all about how well you live (but, I admit that's MY PERSONAL value, and it really is about what you value personally).  I've had this conversation with some Washingtonians and Marylanders online, and they all say the same thing - they don't care about having a big, nice house and all that... they value culture, nightlife, socializing, mass transit system, etc.  I don't really care too much about that.  I want a nice, big house, and a nice, big savings account, without a nice, long commute, and the average working class person like myself can do that a lot better in a Charlotte-type place than in NOVA.

My salary in Atlanta enabled me to afford a very nice 2004 built 4/3 with a double garage, 2 garden tubs, 3 walk-in closets, a separate dining room, bonus room, plenty of space for my 3-person family, 1 dog, 3 cats, and 2 turtles, and all sorts of other wonderful amenities.  And I'm not bragging because I wasn't really making that much money, that's just the way a working-class person can live in Atlanta.  That SAME salary here in a comparable neighborhood in MD/DC will get me a 1 or 2 BR apartment that was built in 1970 and has 1 bathroom... no garage, of course.

To me, it's not just how much it costs, it's what you GET for that money.  On average, the quality of living is much different the further south you go, and salaries are not ALWAYS lower.
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Re: Moving again???
« Reply #6 on: March 09, 2008, 06:23:34 PM »
I agree with you Rue... and thanks for the compliment...

I think I am leaning to Cary, NC... The night life is no different from New Kent County, Va... Nakia can witness to y'all that its sooooo boring there...

But It is perfect for my family, and its only three hours from VA, so I can drive there even quicker.

So I think we have a winner. I found a few little cottages there that are just prescious...



I'm from Durham (20 minutes from Cary) and I live in VA...so the 3 hour drive to get to my family is straight.

If you take the job in Cary, look to live somewhere like Apex or Garner because Cary has gotten to be one of the more expensive places in the triangle.

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Re: Moving again???
« Reply #7 on: March 09, 2008, 06:36:43 PM »
I live in eastern NC (near New Bern, about 40 mi from the coast), and have lived in SE VA. I've taught classes in northern VA - I personally wouldn't want the traffic hassles and generally high housing costs anywhere within 75 miles of Washington, DC.

Charlotte or Raleigh areas - more snow in Charlotte. I spent a couple of years in school in the Raleigh area, and worked in Durham for several months. Of the choices you mention, working in Cary would be my preference.

I'm not so sure on the social activities (outside of church related), but the NC Symphony is based out of Raleigh, there are some ballroom dancing groups in the Raleigh area.

The suggestion about living in Apex or Garner is valid as far as housing costs. There can be some traffic problems (like any big city) in the Raleigh area - I've taught there also - but the problems were nowhere near as bad as those in northern VA  (about on a par with Chesapeake VA and the general Norfolk/Virginia Beach area).

I was born near where I live now, and like this part of the country enough to return.

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Re: Moving again???
« Reply #8 on: March 09, 2008, 06:39:53 PM »
That is a big decision. What about your step-daughter?

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Re: Moving again???
« Reply #9 on: March 09, 2008, 08:28:26 PM »
Hey AGU all you need to do is ask RUE!!! LaRue would make an excellent travel agent...fa' show!!!!!!!! ;)
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