yeah, i'm a female drummer representin upstate NY, and I love doing what i do, i also was one of those female drummers that played while carrying my son, people told me i shouldn't play, but i did anyway, and now my son at two has the skill of a drummer of the future, his timing and everything is crazy, and he can just about mimick anything i do.,, so to all the other female drummers do what u do, .....