think it's called MATURITY!!!!
It's true.
When you first start out you know nothing and you wish you had some nice stuff to play. But once you learn the nice stuff you have to learn to be tasteful. Everybody and there brother can teach you a nice progression or a nice lick, but cats don't teach placement, taste, and timing.
The guys who lay back and compliment the music are the ones who get called for recordings and gigs.
It's like some singers who feel the need to twist and turn every syllable of every word with vocal acrobatics.
In the end you'll say "That brother/sister can sing"...but you probably won't want to hear them again.
