thanks again guys! i am listening trust me. i am grateful that she is a very God-fearing sweet young lady who loves music.
matter of fact, she understands somewhat my level of commitment b/c we actually met at one of my band's gigs. she was there supporting one of the background singers who she went to church with. during one of our breaks, the singer mentioned to me that she thinks i should meet her friend. said she's a real nice girl. i said cool, but the band was going back up for the next set, so i asked her to tell her to hopefully stay around and soon as we finish, i will find her. well, during the last set towards the end, i hear the singer call my name. when i look at her, she motions toward the door. i look and the young lady and her friends are walking out and leaving. i looked back at the singer kinda like what do i do? she shrugged her shoulders like "iont know fool!". well, for whatever reason, i took my guitar off in the middle of the song, ran off the stage and stopped her outside of the door. we chatted for a second and i got the digits (woohoo! lol). anyways, a year and 8 months later, here we are.
so maybe i actually set a bad precedent... i will put down the guitar for her! oh no!! lol.