Before you run out scared, this is not that OTHER topic so please read.
Could a big disparity and uniform hatred of secular music be based on the parallel secular genre of a particular church demographic?
Let me explain. Not to make it a race thing, but often the Black church communities find that the worldly counterpart of music in their same communities is Hip-Hop and modern R&B. These genres often portray extremely negative images of just about every part of life, with the main focuses being sex, exploitation of women, violence, drugs, alcohol, money, just about any illegal behavior, and material wealth. These topics, and the glorification of them, not only contradict the Christian values maintained by the church, but also are destructive to families and communities, Christian and non-Christian alike.
Not to say that other genres dont contain such material, but there are plenty of artists and material that dont. It is almost impossible to be successful as a clean artist in Hip-Hop & R&B. Even the so-called clean artists represent at least one thing on the list, and if they dont, they're gone from the public spotlight in no time.
Even so called positive messages and success stories most often come at the destruction of someone else. There's hardly ever anything about climbing the ladder of success/maturity/healing/growth/etc, without first pulling someone else off the ladder: a parallel to the quite famous "crab mentality" in effect.
I've heard songs of true friendship/love/family/success/goals/pride/confidence/hope and other positive values in other genres, but just about NEVER in the black church parallel of secular music (Hip-Hop & R&B). all of those themes almost exclusively fall in the gospel arena. Im talking about unperverted values. Your "crew thats ready to ride on a n****" is NOT representative of the true value of friendship, family, etc. But there are plenty of artists in other genres who can be successful with representing these very values in their truest form.
So with all that said let me give an example of what I am attempting to illustrate. For example if I had an experience (which is common to many men) of seeing a young lady everyday, maybe on my way to work or school, and i wanted to talk to her but i didnt know what to say. Now this happens all the time. Im sure many men in the church met their wife that way and many women in the church were initially approached by their husband because of that. Nothing wrong with that.
So that already rhymes, so that can be my lyrics. I put music to it. Did the situation change? No. Did my intention change? No. But if i played that song for someone in the church, because it doesnt say God and they cannot categorize it as gospel, they reference their paricular secular counterpart. Now most people who associate secular music with Hip-Hop and R&B will now view my song as lustful, full of sexual intentions, exploiting of women. Why? Because thats the overall and overwhelming tone of that genre, so of course this must be too, right? But when did my intentions change? When did the situation change? It never did. The persons perception of it did.
Now someone who may listen to other genres, and have been exposed to purely positive music may or may not, give the song the benefit of the doubt and listen to context, because they see it can go either way. What else is he saying? This is the same way you would read a love poem and say "aww thats romantic and sweet" or read something bad and say "whoa, thats way out of bounds".
Your reference point determines that. And for just words, the words themselves create that reference. But for music, what you associate the music to creates the reference on a much larger scale than the words do. (Partly why Gospel Rap isnt received by some people??)
I hope I provide a clear background and basis for my question, which shows my view that the attitude towards secular music is based on the music genres the term secular is closely associated with.
Any opinions on the matter. No one is wrong or right. Just make an attempt to provide more than just a yes or no, though.