How on earth is that ven possible?
A drummer? Drowning out the rest of the instruments? Drummers are supposed to be the epitome of accompaniment.
WOW. 
It happens man..If there is echo & no 1 is controlling the sound from the drums properly, the guy could be bashing you all voiceless

In such situations, I would just step aside & sing along & listen to the playing..
Dear Val,
Don't feel intimidated by the devil's tactics. Yes I have been in the same situation. Those kind of musicians can play the jazzy chord tones, but they can't play simple stuff that we consider simple. Don't stress yourself out about it, but take it to God in prayer. There is a reason you are going through, maybe it is time to leave or visversa. Concult God in everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Be blessed my brother, and stay encouraged in the Lord.
In Christian Love
Cathy
I experienced an almost similar (but different)situation today at home ...well, I was the only one playing.
This guy who's been playing for +12 years started singing a song & I just played along..
He stopped & asked me if I was playing the song he was singing, i said yeah..
He told me I wasn't..Fortunately my sister was there..we both looked at him startled

*If sis wasn't there I'd think there is something wrong with me

*
Anyway, I thought for a sec or 2 & invited the dude to play..he started playing some jazzy stuff that sounded off, with an off beat, but we quickly caught onto the beat & sang along..he had to lead the singing though because that's the only way we could tell where we were in the song

It's one thing to play a song the way it is & another to add one's own spices & delicacies or pull off a George Duke on a gospel song & expect every1 to hear the song like that..So I was kinda annoyed..but I made a note to self to never to kick people just because their spices are different to mine..

& Val..we used to have a player who would put his volume above the rest...even if he walked in late, he'd change the volume to full-noise..need I say that the other guy in the synths was always forced to retire to the pews
