I was just wondering when im putting together a progression lets just use 2-5-1 as an ex. Do i have to follow the maj min min maj min min dim ruleset? as in 2 HAS to be a min chord and 1 has to be maj?
simple answer, no (especially if you dont care anything about theory)
However, if you're in a major key I would say yes until you get the hang of it, because thats what gets you comfortable in picking up songs in the future. You need a solid foundation on chords from the key (diatonic) before you get chords that are not in the key.
But once you have that system down, approach progressions in the key they are in. For example you are trying to play a 2-5-1 in C, but the D sounds better as a major/dominant chord, then approach that progression from the key its in, which is G (major or minor) because anytime you see a dominant chord, you might as well call it a 5 chord, because a dominant chord is most always a 5th away from the tonic or home key.
so the progression could be Dm7, G7, CMajor (2-5-1)
or it could be C, D7, G (2-V/V-5-1) said two, five of five, five, one