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Offline Steelpulz

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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #60 on: February 06, 2008, 05:21:37 PM »
Quote from: COGIC4SHO on February 06, 2008, 04:38:21 PM

Another VERY VALID point!  VEEEEEEEEEEEEERY!!!!!


Redd hit it dead on!  She and under13 are prophets in their own right.

Y'all are psyching me out and making me THINK I have feelings...I just stopped and noticed how her hair moves when she walks.  Had it not been for you catz I wouldn't have paid attention!  LOL!
:D :D :D :D Did you get that warm fuzzy feeling in the middle of your stomach as the smile spread across your face while you were watching her "hair"????
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #61 on: February 06, 2008, 05:33:55 PM »
Uh no.  I simply said to myself "hmmm nice" no smile no fuzz.  Lol.
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #62 on: February 06, 2008, 05:57:08 PM »
Here's my $2.17 worth...sending flowers (not roses, maybe a green plant!) is a good idea, but not on Valentine's day, especially if you are just saying "I appreciate you for all you do." Most women love to get flowers. But receiving them on V-Day is like saying "you want me," even if you put a thousand cards saying you don't.
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #63 on: February 06, 2008, 06:00:56 PM »
Quote from: COGIC4SHO on February 06, 2008, 02:00:55 PM

I will quit my job and run like "Hades"!

I don't like her like that.  But she is so dang COOL!!!

And I never hear her mention a man.  She is ALWAYS here or in class (going back for her Masters I believe).  Her "social life" (from our conversations) is consumed in her two boys (football, karate, blah blah blah).

I just wanna do something to show her that I think she is so dang special!!!  Not in a romantic way, but in a cool friend-like kinda way.

I think its a cool idea. For a single mom having someone appreciate all your hard work is cool. You may bless her in a great way by simply being a friend.
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #64 on: February 06, 2008, 06:12:00 PM »
What if "that girl" was on LGM reading this thread right now?? ?/? ?/? :D ;D
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #65 on: February 06, 2008, 06:34:59 PM »
Quote from: temejo1 on February 06, 2008, 05:57:08 PM
Here's my $2.17 worth...sending flowers (not roses, maybe a green plant!) is a good idea, but not on Valentine's day, especially if you are just saying "I appreciate you for all you do." Most women love to get flowers. But receiving them on V-Day is like saying "you want me," even if you put a thousand cards saying you don't.

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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #66 on: February 06, 2008, 06:38:52 PM »
Quote from: b_jizzle20 on February 06, 2008, 06:12:00 PM
What if "that girl" was on LGM reading this thread right now?? ?/? ?/? :D ;D

One of my thoughts...LOL...90,000 ppls... ;)

Just send her somethin' the day before, not about Valentines, but nice...if that's the way ya feel...although after reading your responses, I'm still suspect.

Ladies like to recieve gifts "Just Because" sometimes, if you don't make it about Valentines...she will still enjoy it the same and she can still sort of associate it with recieving something for Valentines (you know for her other girl friends' sake) if she don't get anything from anyone else on that day...Just a thought...
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #67 on: February 06, 2008, 07:27:44 PM »
Excellent. She'll get one of those lovely green plants like they have at funerals the day before with a YELLOW ribbon on it and a basket of things ladies like. Oh and a "friend card".
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #68 on: February 06, 2008, 07:45:39 PM »
Quote from: COGIC4SHO on February 06, 2008, 07:27:44 PM
Excellent. She'll get one of those lovely green plants like they have at funerals the day before with a YELLOW ribbon on it and a basket of things ladies like. Oh and a "friend card".

Too Funny Herm...LOLOL... :D ;D :D ;D...

Look up Harry & David, and find something that doesn't nescesarily have to do with Valentines Day..."Just Because" Bruh... 8)
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #69 on: February 06, 2008, 07:57:19 PM »
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #70 on: February 06, 2008, 08:13:26 PM »
But he's still trying to do it on Val.......

::sighs::

never mind.
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #71 on: February 06, 2008, 08:23:33 PM »
Quote from: vtguy84 on February 06, 2008, 08:13:26 PM
But he's still trying to do it on Val.......

::sighs::

never mind.

I know. Why not tomorrow? *shakes head* :-\
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #72 on: February 06, 2008, 08:32:33 PM »
Quote from: b_jizzle20 on February 06, 2008, 06:12:00 PM
What if "that girl" was on LGM reading this thread right now?? ?/? ?/? :D ;D

He would be in TROUBLE...
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #73 on: February 06, 2008, 08:33:31 PM »
THEY said the day before. Not me. I am cleared of all charges. Lol!  I don't think david and them can deliver by next wednesday. I'll get one from a grocery store. I'll just write "to a great friendship" on the card to be safe.
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #74 on: February 06, 2008, 08:39:55 PM »
And brother VT you took countless pictures with girls at your graduation. But did that mean you wanted them all? No. One of then were just "that girl". Same here. Lol!
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #75 on: February 06, 2008, 08:43:24 PM »
Here's a math problem for you:

a lonely woman + flowers + valentine's day =  ?

Answer: stalker, another office romance, a crush


Here's a math equation:

a good friend + a green plant + monday = a hearty "thank you"
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #76 on: February 06, 2008, 08:50:01 PM »
I'm not doing it Thursday.  That option is out. Wednesday will still make her feel good about thursday in a friendly way.
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #77 on: February 06, 2008, 08:54:28 PM »
Quote from: COGIC4SHO on February 06, 2008, 08:39:55 PM
And brother VT you took countless pictures with girls at your graduation. But did that mean you wanted them all? No. One of then were just "that girl". Same here. Lol!

You're comparing apples and oranges my friend.

I took pictures with my close friends, one being my girlfriend.

A picture at graduation is one thing; an 'innocent' gift on Lovers' Day is another.
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #78 on: February 06, 2008, 08:55:38 PM »
I'm not one of the fellas, but here's my 2 cents:

You may be clear about the fact that you don't like her like that.  She may be just "One of the girls", in your eyes.  But if you're not 100% sure that she sees you as a friend, and only a friend...  It's probably not a good idea to send her anything.  Just tell her how much you appreciate her friendship and leave it at that. 

If she does have feelings for you, and you know it, you'll be responsible for leading her on.  Knowing that you're not interested.  Then you'll be left wondering how to get rid of her, and the whole friendship will be ruined.

If the two of you are on the exact same page... I think it would be fine to show your appreciation with gifts.

I have a guy friend who's really cool.  We talk, laugh, and he's alot of fun to be around!  I enjoy his company, but I'm really careful, because even though he does his best to hide it... I know that he likes me.  But I see him as nothing more than a friend and brother in Christ.     

So it's my responsibility to protect him.  In doing so, sometimes I want to do kind things, or say hey let's go to the movies because he's my friend.  But I refrain because I know it would be misread and give false hopes.

We are our brothers keeper!  God would hold me responsible if I send this man mixed signals and lead him on, knowing where we both are.  That wouldn't be right!

Having given my speech, and one of my stories... I do understand that you just want to appreciate a good friend for her kindness, but be careful!


 
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Re: FELLAS...AM I BEING TOO "FORWARD"
« Reply #79 on: February 06, 2008, 08:55:43 PM »
Quote from: b_jizzle20 on February 06, 2008, 06:12:00 PM
What if "that girl" was on LGM reading this thread right now?? ?/? ?/? :D ;D
Quote from: COGIC4SHO on February 06, 2008, 02:56:50 PM


Sometimes she stands over my shoulder and reads you guys' replies to my posts and she'll break out with "they didn't understand what you meant...but I did".

Thats exactly what I was thinking. He said that she sometimes reads his post over his shoulders, so she knows what site your on, and If she really is into you then She will probaly check this site.
Yeah she is probaly reading this right now

Think about it Mr Herman, If you knew the forum that she goes to, to broadcast her love life, wouldnt you be checking it.

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